Theres this Guy at my school called Aaron. I've liked Aaron for a year on and off, at first I didnt admit it he was 'cool' I was not. But So much has changed now I have new friends, a new look, new popularity and suddenly I'm 'cool' too! So a month or so ago We went out it was only for barely a week and he dumped me straight after the disco. I realised I'd been used until I found out my friend had something to do with it. Now I still like him but he likes my friend, thing is she doesnt like him back but he doesnt care... All my friends know I like him but they seem to be ignoring the fact in reality I suppose they are only trying to tread carefully but it hurts.
I really want to be with this guy again and I know what I did wrong last time but now hes always talking about this other girl and I cant find the guts to even speak to him anymore let alone flirt with him. What can I do? I really really like him badly and I'm afraid our time wont ever come again...
(Not Happy Jan)
2006-09-18 19:14:49 · 15 answers · asked by Pandoooo;. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to move on!! when a couples relationship is not clear is because is not strong and it's not meant to be, when you have no doubts and you are happy and your partner is happy, that's when you finally found your partner, otherwise just move on!!! cool or not cool!!!
2006-09-18 19:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jan it sounds like for one your friend needs to tell him to back off if she really doesnt like him. Two if you are cool then you can have someone else. The way he treated you was not good and can only clue you in on how a long relationship might end up like. I say ignore him. He will either come around or you will be so caught up in ignoring him that someone else will come along and snag your intrest. Even if you 2 get back together beware, girls are spitful and your friend may suddenly decide she wants to go out with him. secondly if you know that he likes her then you will be insecure about if he still does, if you to get back together. Good Luck on this one and hope my advice can help.
2006-09-18 19:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the reason why he might be talking to this girl is because he's trying to get you to feel jealous, or to use you for advice to get to her. Either talk a mutual friend to feel him out and how he feels about you, or try your best to just be friends. If you dont feel brave enough to confront him on your own and risk ruining the friendship, then I'd say the best idea would be to feel him out using other people. Whatever happens, happens. Try to make the best out of the situation. Good luck.
2006-09-18 19:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we have to move on and respect someone's decision to be with someone else even when we would want something different. Ultimately we have to find someone who wants to be with us that we want to be with. You need to have both to have a happy relationship.
I'm really sorry he chose another girl. But his choice isn't about you doing anything wrong. His choice is about him and who he is. It's just hard to separate that when we're hurting. His choosing someone else is something that you just have to accept for your own happiness. It's tough to do but necessary if you want to find that one guy who is going to think you're the best thing that every happened to him. The sooner you let go, the sooner you'll find that guy.
Good luck!
2006-09-18 19:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by mamaloo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Become interest ion life without a boy, Hovies and interests. Other good guys are out there. Let the oriogn al guy see you're ghard to get to then.
2006-09-18 19:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything about it. He doesn't like you, you said it yourself. The only thing you can do is be his friend. Without friendship there is no chance you can hookup in the future if there is a possability that is. If your not talking to him how do you expect him to like you? Just be friends that's all.
2006-09-18 19:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by biochick11220 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are beter of with someone that will talk to you without you having to speak first , be patient everything happens for a reason and when you least expect it you will find someone to scare your life with you are still youn do not get in a hurry
2006-09-18 19:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by dee d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tip: You will look back on this and think ... what the **** was I thinking? And why did I waste time worrying about this guy and dwelling on these crappy friends. Move along and learn from your mistakes.
2006-09-18 19:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Crystabella_BC 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If a guy knows you like him and he's still hot for your friend he has no respect for your feelings. Find a guy who respects your feelings at least your friend does.
2006-09-18 19:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take this as a learning experience and move on.
2006-09-18 19:17:18 · answer #10 · answered by Cynthia 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋