how are you coping. really.
2006-09-18 19:10:23 · 11 answers · asked by ♥2323vsb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i discovered my husband has been contacting several women on various singles websites. even sending one $1000.
2006-09-18 19:15:20 · update #1
i'm not okay.
2006-09-18 19:16:13 · update #2
Yes, My wife told me a few months ago that she had been seeing someone. She says she regrets it and wants me to stay with her. I am having a very hard time coping with it all.Ive started seeing a counselor but it hasn't helped much yet, i hope it will soon. Just don't know if i will ever be able to forgive her or not. They say time heals all wounds, I hope they are right . I really wish that adultery was illegal, maybe some of these shitty people that do it would get thrown in jail for awhile and they could sit there and think about how bad of a person they are and how devastated their spouse is!!! Best of luck to you.
2006-09-18 20:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by dragoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have caught x boyfriends cheating but not my husband, yet. Look honey, if you love him talk to him. Tell him what you found. If he keeps at it you have 2 options, well 3. 1.Move on and leave him. 2. Play his game and get your own boy toy. or 3. Just deal with it and be ehartbroken the rest of your life.
2006-09-19 03:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My previous husband cheated all of the time. I think the part that hurt the most for me was believing I deserved it and trying to figure out what I did that was so wrong. Eventually you have to understand in yourself that it wasn't your fault and you didn't deserve it. Remember too that he is human and everybody makes mistakes.
2006-09-19 02:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by ladywolf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I caught my ex boyfriend cheating. I walked in when some chick was on top of him. Instead of kicking him out, I moved the next day while he was at work. I took everything with me, including the toilet paper. It was sweet revenge when he walked into a completly empty apartment.
2006-09-19 02:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i found out my ex was cheating . We were at home and had some friends over and some young things came over basically friend of a friend ya know well most of them left and my ex was on the couch and she was sitting next to him and he layed his head in her lap right in front of me while i was sitting there looking dead at them. The next day i left payed my bills went home sat down next to him and looked dead in his eyes and told him i wanted a divorce. And now iam remarried and so happy with my love of my life.
2006-09-19 03:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i found out that my husband was cheating on me, he was man enough to admit that to me. The affair now is over, he was down on his knees asking me to forgive him. We are trying to work on our marriage right now. I have forgiven him but it's hard to forget, hard to give my trust again...he has to earn it. It still hurts when i remember what he did to me, i'm having a hard time. I just hope that i won't regret the choices that i made.
2006-09-19 02:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is watching porn on the internet and getting turned on by that considered cheating? then yes, I found out my husband was doing that and I was devastated. Although he doesn't see it as cheating. I do. I'm so outta here!
2006-09-19 02:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by oneradnursey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yes, i went on a big rig for two weeks with a friend andwhen i got home my husband tells me hes not happy, and dumps me for some whore who was pretending to be my friend. we are seperated now for 4 months and its been really hard.he wants me back, and i miss him soo much, but i dont know if i can be hurt again so i guess im just tryin to deal with it. no matter what advice you get,listen to your gut it will never steer u wrong.. good luck always-----------nonners
2006-09-19 03:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by nonners1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats there to cope. We should all be concerned about our own food and shouldnt be jealous about what the other is eating
2006-09-19 02:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mash 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey its good to be back.it once happened to me.i caught my ex making out with my friend in her car.i lost both of them.it was two years ago and im doing ok.one need to understand that not every man is a dog.
2006-09-19 02:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Shosh-B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋