ive been currently with my boyfriend for 5 years. he leaves time to time for work. we love each other and still are very happy. but on the other side, i started to talk to a friends friend (guy). i know the intentions are to hook up. i feel guilty but want just a fling with the guy. but im still very much in love with my boyfriend. what do i do? i think of the other guy a lot these days, but when i talk to my boyfriend i forget about the guy. i want both!!
2006-09-18 19:02:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first you should change your name from angel to sl*t and then you should quit screwing around on a nice guy!
2006-09-18 19:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by sweets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do something you are going to regret. Just whenever you think of the other guy try to focus on your current bf and ask yourself how would you feel if he had a fling with another girl. Is it worth ruining your 5yrs relationship just for a fling? If you do then just break up with your bf first and then do ur thing not at the same time. Aite take care and good luck!
2006-09-19 02:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by anesziere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear you're lost.
It is obvious what you want...both! However, don't you think you're a bit selfish? If your boy friend wanted to be with you and another girl, would you be so supportive? If so, you may justify yourself. However, if you can't accept your boy friend having it both way, you should understand this could really be upseting to someone you love.
Having said that, your boy friend might be into 2 girls fantasy which in that case, good for you guys. If not, you should make a choice and not so be greedy. All the best!
2006-09-19 02:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by Doctor Dad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's what being committed means wanting to be with no other and faithful means being tested and not failing, and no you cant have both you see if you think about it, its like this on one hand you have your boyfriend of 5yrs who i assume the two of you are in love and on the other hand you have a guy who want to just mess with you but know you have a man to me that's someone who has no respect because he doesn't care about you loosing your relationship trust me risking a good thing for a fling is not worth it but then again if your man means nothing to you then there is no point in anybody saying anything but god is watching
2006-09-19 02:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by maike j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wanna lose ur bf go for the other guy!
and if u see that the other guy is better for u, u have to give up on ur bf..
but if i were u,, ill stop talking to the other guy, since talking to ur bf makes u forget about that guy... nad especially that u love him
cz u may not love that guy.. and gals look for love and its hard to find usually!
good luck!
2006-09-19 02:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by CuteeWorried 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you willing yo lose your real love for an illusion of love? The answer is clear. It';s just a fantasy, and you will surely regreat cheating.
2006-09-19 02:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then have both! Men do it all the time and some even convince both women to stay in the triangular relationship! Have your freaking cake and eat it too!
2006-09-19 02:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋