My husband and I have been seperated for five years, and the past three of which I didn't know if he was dead or alive. I've really missed him a lot but our reasons for seperation stays fresh on my mind. I recently bumped into him at a supermarket and it was love at first sight all over again. He asked me to come back. What in the world should I do people has it been too long or does everyone deserve a second chance? Is there a future or is the horse dead?
2006-09-18 19:01:56 · 5 answers · asked by DAWN DIVA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just try to remember why you left and see if he has changed any .what does he do for work. does he drink or has he settled down .if he has settled down you could try going back if it still is the same then leave .
2006-09-18 19:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you what to do. Maybe start off as friends or dating or something. You cant just go back as if nothing has changed. Start off fresh as if it is a new relationship. Maybe he has turned over a new leaf. Not everyone deserves a second chance....most ppl but not everyone.
If you decide to give him a chance. Treat this as a new relationship. I mean u guys havn't been together for years and a lot could have changed in the meantime.
Just be careful.
2006-09-18 19:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN. RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!!!!!!!!!!
Honey, there was a reason that you two were seperated to begin with. Remember that!!
2006-09-18 19:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Bachman-ette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you didn't say why you separated. If you both still have feelings and are attracted to one another then why not. But once again you failed to say why you separated.
2006-09-18 19:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him back it's obvious absence makes the heart grow fonder
2006-09-18 19:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kerrie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋