I love a girl, who is older to me by 2 years, i want to marry her, but want to know wat are the pros and cons of marrying an older girl than me. I am 28 and she is 30? Plz advice me genuinely?
2006-09-18 19:13:29 · 38 answers · asked by chippychap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No harm dear friend. In matters relating to heart never look sideways. In a successful marriage/relationship, love and understanding much. But certainly it should be with her consent.
A sardar/blond would have married after two years!
2006-09-19 00:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't think of any reasons not to! Two years is almost nothing. Would you be having a problem if you were thirty and she was 28? Is it just that it's traditional for the man to be older? What concerns do you have?
If you love this woman, and are committed to being with her for the rest of your life, then marry her. Don't let your ego get in the way of your happiness!
2006-09-18 19:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Obi_San 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number and by the way her being only 2 years older than you is nothing. My man is 13 years older than me and we get along great. If you love her go ahead and marry the lady!!!
2006-09-20 15:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she has diffuculties fro a pre marriage or ex's then quit being a nerd only if she whats to go through with it but if she is building a career some where then back off or needs to go the stay in touch then may-be some while later you know you do not need to rush an if she has other boyfriends well wait or make a date when their out but no head games an yeah say I'm close to you see how that works out but is she off to start a career?
One last comment I did not see is. At least she's not your mother is she?
2006-09-18 19:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey now is already Year 2006, why you still have that old thinking! Age don't link to relationship. You wanted to marry her is because you want to love her, take care of her and stay with her. Marry is so easy but keep the relationship to the end is not easy.
REMEMBER still got a long way to go!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-18 19:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by Night Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference between 28 and 30 is so negligible that
I can't help but wonder if there is some other reason you are being indecisive on this.
2006-09-18 19:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by sueflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 years? My man is 12 years older than me...go ahead and get married.
2006-09-18 19:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as u are both adults who are ready for the challenges of marriage, why don't u go for it? Besides, she's only 2 yrs older than u. That's no big deal at all.
2006-09-18 19:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two years is a blink of an eye. my son married a woman 10 yrs older . and it blew up after 8 yrs . yes go for it if you love each other
2006-09-18 19:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, I really do not think that you have much to worry about, your age difference in not that big, The important thing is that you love and respect each other, Besides older women can be more mature and that is your preferance, do not worry so much about what others think and enjoy each other
2006-09-18 19:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by sofora k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋