Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

Things have been real tense with my husband and I lately, we don't make love very often,we get agrivated with each other. I asked him if he's bothered that we don't make love very often he told me no, but I have noticed that when he goes to kiss me he just kisses me on the forhead, cheek, or nose. And if he kisses me on the lips its just real quick peck. What does this mean when your husband begins doing this?

2006-09-18 04:15:57 · 13 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does she like you if you ask a question about her friend and she gets jealous? Or is she testing you to find out if you like her friend? Why would she?

2006-09-18 04:15:42 · 5 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am MBA & fell in love with a girl when she was doing high school. we broke off and met again after 4 years. I think i really love her. But problem is that she is just high school passed and has wasted 6 years over nothing just staying idle and foolling around. Even she loves me still. My family is very trasitional one where education, values matter. I am very confuse and worried for my future. please give genuine responses.

2006-09-18 04:14:54 · 10 answers · asked by troubled_guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son is now 15 and is really pushing the boundaries, I am thankful that drugs nor alcohal is an issue now but I feel that it is easily approaching. He is very defiant at school with teachers and as well as at home with me his mom. He is failing in three subjects and I have done everything but do his homework myself to help him bring grades up. I am contantly either on the phone or exchanging emails with teachers on what my son has done or not done. He is a loving child and we have some great talks but then he can turn around the next day and it's as if we never talked and he goes right back to his bad attitude and poor choices. I have grounded and I dont think that even phases him any longer . I need some guidance the madness has to stop. I have two younger daughters that give me no problems but see the struggles that my son and I go through and I cant help but think that this is effecting them also. Any suggetsions on how to get through these difficult teenage years are appreciate

2006-09-18 04:14:17 · 13 answers · asked by imjustguessing 1 in Family

i'm trying to plan a wedding during my fiance's leave from iraq. but i was wondering if anyone could tell me when to expect to know the exact dates of when his leave will actually be? it's hard enough planing a wedding, but trying to plan one when you don't yet know what date you are going to get married is really tricky. also, if anyone has any tips or hints on last minuet wedding plans or something, because i'm afraid that's what it's going to come down to if we don't find out untill a week or two before he comes home.

2006-09-18 04:13:39 · 9 answers · asked by Lees 3 in Weddings

I like this guy and everytime we chat he doesnt ask to link up or anything and still has not admitted to me that he like me. i really like him and i try hintting it to him but its like hes taking his time? shall i wait or tell him

2006-09-18 04:13:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-18 04:12:54 · 31 answers · asked by letgomyhalo 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband is paying child support of $600 a month to his daughter from his previous marriage....she rings him over and over asking for more money.....we have 2 of our own children....his daughter is 18 and can look for a job right? so why can't my husband tell her to get a job? she is always emotionally black mailing him ....always pretending that she is going to commit suicide and her mum encourages this....its driving me crazy....because he never told me he had a daughter b4 we married....and i would have got along if she wasn't such a lunatic....I don't want to expose my 1 and 3 yr olds to this weirdo who is also a sponger.....I work too ....and its hard to make ends meet....but people are just selfish. what can we do??

2006-09-18 04:11:48 · 18 answers · asked by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently met a lad i really like alot! i worked with him until yesterday wen he quit. now im worried i wont see him as much! also hes 18 and im 16 is that a problem?? im pretty sure he knows i like him (altho he doesnt no how much! i dnt wana scare him away!) hes also pretty confident where as i have slightly low esteem! i was thinkin of askin if he wanted 2mayb hang out like jus the 2of us.....do u think it cud work or is it a lost cause!

2006-09-18 04:11:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thanks for the cuddles this morning guys but i still feel like death. Boys what would you do to a girl to make her feel better?

2006-09-18 04:11:35 · 32 answers · asked by dizzymooo 4 in Singles & Dating

's mother, who also happens to be his ex-wife. They've been apart for a while now, but I think he'll still be upset. This is a real moral dilemma.

2006-09-18 04:11:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but he doesn't like her cuz his instered in someone else. he likes sara cousin friend angie. how do i tell my friend that he doesn't like her..........or should i let her find out on herself

2006-09-18 04:10:18 · 9 answers · asked by AngelCakes 1 in Friends

2006-09-18 04:10:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 04:10:10 · 4 answers · asked by homer_barti 1 in Family

he and i have known each other for a long time, i go over to his ouse every Sunday night for a Bible study. Yesterday, we played basketball and talked for like a hour and a half. It was just random stuff. We talked about school, family, sports, cars and what we wanted to do after high school. I invited him to my volleyball game and he said he is gunna try his hardest to come. He asked if he could bring a friend and i said he could since he will probable not know anyone there. So, does he like me?

2006-09-18 04:08:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 04:08:24 · 14 answers · asked by twjones1029 2 in Singles & Dating

alright, there is this girl that i've met and she exchanged numbers with me and everything, i called her, we talk just basic talk, nothing involving relation or anything.
But suddenly we can be talking, like the other day we were talking about where is she from and all of that and things were running smoothly all of a sudden she said she'll call me in a minute and never call, she's done it a few time and i just got fed up because i tought she didnt like me which is why she never call back even tough she said she would. so i stop call for a whole week, and just a few days later i was walking out of work when all of a sudden i here a voice call my name and i look behind, and there she was but i was already across the street so i told her to come to me and she came, we talk, and i told her i deleted her number of my phone, she was shocked and give it to me again. so later i call her and guess what, after a smooth conversation, she said she'll call in a min, never did ?

2006-09-18 04:06:54 · 8 answers · asked by stickdriver 2 in Singles & Dating

was it purely friendly? was there a sexual tension? what was it that you were trying on?

2006-09-18 04:06:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She's sitting in jail right now awaiting her trial for getting drunk and trashing someone's car. Her ex-boyfriend put her up to it. She just got her visitation priviledges revoked because she and her cellmate got into a fight. Her father, in my opinion, is partly responsible for it, because all her life he's put her down and lowered her self-esteem. He's been in jail too. I feel bad for my sister, her mother, because she has to live with these idiots. And she refuses to leave him. If and when she gets out, should I offer to help her? She can't get a job now because she has a criminal record and I'm afraid she's going to be a burden on society, not to mention a menace to society. Would you help her out if she was your neice?

2006-09-18 04:06:28 · 15 answers · asked by kitten lover3 7 in Family

at the moment i just recently met this guy and i dont have strong feelings towards him and he has deep feeling towards me. He constantly keeps ringing me and telling me how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me,wants to have kids and this is really starting to scare me. What shall i do?

2006-09-18 04:05:23 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

6 months ago I had a boy I was seeing tell me all he was wanting was to get laid. so I quit seeing him .We kept in contact thought this whole time. Now he is telling me he messed up and wants a long term relationship with me . Can he be trusted !!! W hat should I do I really like him .But I have to look out for my daughter also

2006-09-18 04:05:21 · 12 answers · asked by thunder_rainclouds 3 in Singles & Dating

Do people really intend to honor marital vows today. Or are vows simply viewed as ceremonial.

2006-09-18 04:05:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Am 23 living in the UK, four months ago I left my country to live with my fiancee. I suffer from a depression and am afraid that it can ruin my relationship. I get medical help and all, am just concerned about my future. I think that missing home is also a major factor plus I am very sensitive by nature. Just need someone to cheer me up.

2006-09-18 04:05:02 · 6 answers · asked by May 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 16 years old and i never had a boyfriend. i feel ugly because no one likes me. i dont think im that bad looking. i get hit on by some guys but then i get nervous wen they want my number and i just walk away. i feel sad wen i see other girls with boyfriends. wat do i do?

2006-09-18 04:04:47 · 13 answers · asked by agui 2 in Singles & Dating

Well we talked every night for a couple of hours and then on friday I went to her house and we watched a movie and talked all night until 3 in the am. Now when I call she doesn't answer and she said she would call me but she hasn't yet. Also her cell had been messing up alot. Do I just move on, is her cell really messed up and I should just not think or worry about it. Is she not intrested, if she wasn't then why would she have opened up to me so much? I'm really confussed

2006-09-18 04:03:37 · 7 answers · asked by so_fast420 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been dating for almost a year now, he moved in with me 3 months ago. The thing is he is 6'5" and our bed is a queen size. He would rather sleep in the spare bedroom sometimes because he says he get a better night sleep by having the whole bed to himself. Do you think I should worry about this? Or is this normal?

2006-09-18 04:03:26 · 10 answers · asked by to_sassy4_u 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my B/F for two years now. I have been told to becareful because he cheats......but really I am the cheater. I have had encounters with an ex b/f (the father of my daughter) and an online relationship that is pretty recent. I have no Idea why I do this Friends say that it is because I have lost 100lbs in the past year and I am not used to the attention. others say and have told me that the reason I do it is because he is cheating on me and I am in denial....long story made short I think that I may need counselling do you think that it is right. I will be happy to answer more Questions if there are any to be asked.

2006-09-18 04:02:18 · 4 answers · asked by April W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she met a guy over the internet who she thought she was so in love with ? and so he comes to see her a 18 hr drive .. then after that she decides to leave and move up there with him .. she had only met him once he stayed down for 5 days . they talked alot on the phone for a month and a half . then out of the blue she decides to move up there with him...so i was devasted !!! i begged her not to go ..but there wasnt much i could do seeing she is 22.. so after being there for a week she is in bed about to go to sleep when much to her suprise another girl walks in to the apt ? it was his other gf who he did not mention to her ...she was crushed so she came back home .. thank god.. but now she is depressed . i would like to know how i can suggest to her not to make the same mistake? the internet can be so very scary and i worry for her safety ? any ideas? any help would be much helpful .. thanks a worried and loving mother....

2006-09-18 04:01:31 · 17 answers · asked by txrkanawalls 2 in Family

I thought that I had found him, but I found out that he had changed his number. I really need to find him. If anyone has any information please e-mail me. Thankx alot for your help. My name is Cristy D.
my e-mail is c_dilleynlancaster@yahoo.com
Anther reason why I need to find is because his b-day is comming up and I would love to surprise him. All information is welcome.

2006-09-18 04:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by c_dilleynlancaster 2 in Friends

or trust your womans instinct as to whether your man is cheating?
What if you are just imagining it. my husband has been distant lately, and i overheard him talking on the phone to the secretary, whilst he wasn't saying anything "wrong", he was talking and joking with her in a way that he only used to talk to me, you know like playful teasing.
But i am quite insecure so maybe my instinct is faulty?!!

2006-09-18 04:01:11 · 25 answers · asked by BRICK 3 in Marriage & Divorce