Am 23 living in the UK, four months ago I left my country to live with my fiancee. I suffer from a depression and am afraid that it can ruin my relationship. I get medical help and all, am just concerned about my future. I think that missing home is also a major factor plus I am very sensitive by nature. Just need someone to cheer me up.
2006-09-18 04:05:02 · 6 answers · asked by May 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
see if your guy will move you back to your country.you just may need to go home more often.if this continues I would think about moving back.
2006-09-18 04:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will miss your family AND your country. Use TalkTalk's phone plan. Free broadband means you can email. They have free International calls to the USA (and other places) so I can ring my family anytime and talk for however long! I've saved loads of money by doing this.
But just keep taking your meds and look positive. Find someone who is over here that is where you are from. You will find a comfort in someone knowing "things" and the way things are done "back home" or even jokes that they just don't 'get' here. Homesickness is bound to happen but just look at your life and your fiance and how happy you are. You'll get through it.
Best of luck....*S*
2006-09-18 04:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by K's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the only thing I can think of is both you getting a web cam then that way you can not only speak to them when ever you want but you can see them also,you could get all your family to go to maybe your parents house and you can all interact. Good luck
2006-09-18 04:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by snowflake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can affect relationships, but the effect is two-fold. either it will strengthen your relationship or break it down. one. you have the responsibility to tell your fiancee and family that you are depressed so as to prepare them and maybe they can help you. if he can handle your depression then your relationship is best for you. also, i hope that you recognize that part of the responsibility is for you to help him grow too.
i hope you both are growing with each other towards maturity and security...
2006-09-18 04:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by ann.marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is one question i can relate to, i to moved several months ago , dealing with depression, allthough i didnt move to far away change is such a big deal to me, i changed my kids school in this process, after 3 weeks of them going to diff. school i switched them back i guess i just had to have something to hang on to , allthough it was nothing major it helped tremendously,
2006-09-18 04:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by lbss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing we can say will stop you from missing your family, and i wouldnt presume to tell you that everything would get better, its not my place. well i hope the next verse cheers you up thought! :-)
you are my sunshine my only sunshine, you make me happy when skies are grey, you'll never know dear how much i love you, so please dont take my sunshine away.
2006-09-18 04:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋