Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

2006-09-18 04:33:43 · 8 answers · asked by imlaura2006 1 in Singles & Dating

Lost and wandering what to do.
I have been married for 15 years, and fallen out of love with my husband. I wish I could say he is a horrible person, but he is not.
I wish I could say he is abusive but he's not.
We got married on the fly---meaning I met him and two months later we were married, then had a baby. (Yup I was pregnant) I guess I don’t always make good choices. I don’t regret having my daughter; we now had her and another. I love being mommy.
I just don't have feelings for my hubby. I have tried to make myself get over it, and deal with things. I can't the thought of him touching me does nothing to excite me. I am almost repulsed at thought of us touching.
Could it be that I have grown apart from him?
My sisters tell me I seem so unhappy and have changed.
I don't want to hurt our children so I try to act as if everything fine.

Before the questions are asked, no there is not anyone else.
I am not having an affair.
I think I got married to young and now it’s starting to have an impact on me

2006-09-18 04:32:57 · 25 answers · asked by lovingurlife2day 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to put your hand on a man's cold hard nipple????? mine are highest after i drink coors light....

2006-09-18 04:32:30 · 16 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1 in Singles & Dating

Why has this happened to the world? I look through blogs and blogrings on Xanga, Myspace, and other sites just searching to find someone I might know, trying to possibly even be found. Yet... reading through all the profiles... I've noticed something. Everyone's become a carbon copy of eachother. "I'm in pain and you'll never know why" has begun translating in to "I have nothing better to do but try to stuff myself into a clique". I'm not saying that not everyone can feel pain, but my God, do they have to let complete strangers know? I can't save them, nor can any "fallen angel" they think they can find. Everything has to be dark, blacks, reds, grays... what happened to the colors that actually pleased their minds or brought them peace? Would they throw it all away just to be considered "Gothic", "Punk", or "Emo"? Is it even worth it? Why? What is the point in torturing yourself just so you'll fit in with "friends"? My friends were bright, peppy, loved pink and yellow (more in details)

2006-09-18 04:32:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

husbands sexually. I've been married 15 years my wife says it's normal..Helps her get excited. I dont like it at all..Is this a common occurance?

2006-09-18 04:31:55 · 19 answers · asked by Tommy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend of many years that I just recently have discovered may likes me. Everytime she sees me, she tries to find a way to get me alone with her. Anyway, I just met one of her friends and asked a question about where they met. I was curious but not interested. Well, she shot back a hesitant answer and then asked why I cared. She then asked where I met one of my friends she had just met, but she did not seem to care about my answer. Did I do something wrong?

2006-09-18 04:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 04:29:59 · 19 answers · asked by coleman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 04:29:17 · 24 answers · asked by Ali L 2 in Singles & Dating

THis is for both guys and girls to answer. I really need a date for homecoming and I wanna figure out how to get a guy to notice me.

2006-09-18 04:27:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since we've been together, the only way I can get my wife to have an "orgasm" is by role playing. She really loves it when I play as Steven Urkel, the crocodile hunter. He's that guy with the glasses and he says stuff like, "did I do that" after he catches the gators or them snakes. Anyway, now that he's dead, it freaks out my wife too much for me to play him. It sucks because I just bought her a crocodile suit to give to her for her birthday.
Are there any other black adventurers that I can role play as? I really want her to be able to use this suit.

2006-09-18 04:27:31 · 4 answers · asked by Dialup, Avatar, Jones! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering about this because here in the united states women seem to like tall men. This has been awkward for me because I am not that tall. What cultures does this exhist the most? is it just in the US?

2006-09-18 04:27:13 · 16 answers · asked by thekidfromanhattan 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 04:26:40 · 31 answers · asked by serena h 2 in Singles & Dating

Do they work? What if they don't? Does it make a difference what type of industry the persons work in?

2006-09-18 04:26:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In my state, you have to have something showing that he has other coverage first. Or that you are divorced. He refuses to get any. I am thinking of changing jobs just so that I don't have to cover him anymore. In this state you can't file for separation and if it is contested, you have to wait two and one-half years for the divorce to go through. Why should I cover a a philanderer who moved out on his wife and kids?

2006-09-18 04:26:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I just got married 6mnths ago we have 4 children between the two of us. Two of the four kids (my kids)live with us. Because of problems at home my husband sister (who is 18) is now living with us. Althogh she is 18 she is not ready to venture off by herself nor is she ready for collage. How can we teach her to become more independent and a responsible person without being to harsh on her?

2006-09-18 04:25:54 · 3 answers · asked by its just me 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have three nipples. i am unemployed. i am an alcoholic. i have a receding hair line. i have a body odor that resemsles sauerkraut gone bad. i also have bunions warts and corns all over my feet, not to mention my uncontrollable bowels.

so lets recap.i am an unemployed, alcoholic, tri-nippular, balding, bad sauerkraut smelling, spontaneous bathroom going, buinions warts and corns all over feet man.

will you date me???

2006-09-18 04:25:52 · 21 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1 in Singles & Dating

Does this really work?what items of clothing would the lady have to be wearing to catch your eye in a nightclub without looking like a slag/tart?

2006-09-18 04:24:25 · 25 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, so you have sex with a guy in the backseat of his car, (your first time) and you bleed all over his car seats. Is he a jerk cause he gets mad at you for bleeding (he knew it was your first time too)

2006-09-18 04:23:10 · 21 answers · asked by flashypsw 4 in Singles & Dating

I just got engaged and i want to start savin money. i know how much time i have to save so i wanna plan how much to put away per week. so i just want to hear from other people who have done it already. please only answer of ur serious, im trying to do things right.

2006-09-18 04:23:00 · 14 answers · asked by adnama_n_werd 3 in Weddings

Have you ever seen the movie office space? Remember the line '...sounds like a case of the mondays...'? My partner comes in EVERY monday, and she makes some kinda mistake on a process and says 'Well what can i say, it's monday...' and people laugh at that crap EVERY WEEK. Then on friday she comes in and someone asks 'How are you today?' and she says 'Well I'm just glad it's friday!' and they laugh EVERY WEEK. When she says that stuff to me i just stare at her because I'm so sick of hearing that crap, but i can almost tell she expects to get a giggle out of it from me. Should I still laugh just to be polite, or should I tell her to come up with more original material?

2006-09-18 04:22:49 · 6 answers · asked by Ghostman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

http://cgi.ebay.com/aw-cgi/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=190032518611
is he trying to tell me something?

2006-09-18 04:22:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 04:22:16 · 13 answers · asked by surge p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Girl 27 Boy 32 first longterm relationship for both. Boy meets girl...boy loves girl...girl believes boy...boy says lets get married...girl says yeah...boy changes mind,,,girl is confused..boy changes mind girl says yeah ...he changed his mind about thirty times over a 2 year course. Girl kept taking him back hoping this is the time....girl clearly desperate...boy clearly unable to make commitment......finally boy cheats girl falls ill they part ways for two years....upon meeting again both say that they never stopped thinking about it ..boy and girl back together...boy gives girl ring....then for two more years there is a problem ..boy is committed but now has and terrible drug habit....girl waits to see if this is the time...boy gets sober...months go by ....boy moves in with girl....they plan to be engaged again....boy has some issues to work out first.....girl has grown tired and lost trust, she is hur.....boy feels guilty.and angry

2006-09-18 04:21:34 · 24 answers · asked by sweet pea 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

we fight all the time and i am in the process of getting a divorce, butit is because he used to leave me at home with our daughter all the time all day and night. so i told him i wanted a divorce and now he is trying to make everything better he is doing what he should have been doing all along now. what should i do.

2006-09-18 04:20:46 · 23 answers · asked by WONDERFULMOM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 04:20:40 · 7 answers · asked by Princess P 2 in Singles & Dating

i just moved into town and i havent ment one yet can some one help me?

2006-09-18 04:19:33 · 17 answers · asked by kayleay 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is leaving me and taking the kids will you please pray for us to work things out and get back together thank you

2006-09-18 04:19:12 · 15 answers · asked by duke 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband decided to have a threesome I wonder will it make things better for us or worse. It really has my husband excited and he thinks it will give us something fun to do because he said everything we do we have done over and over.

2006-09-18 04:18:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 04:17:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hopefully some of you females out there can give me a better idea...but here it is... a woman I am seeing called yesterday and left a message saying to call her back and if she is away she will call me back later...well I call her back and had to leave her a voice mail to call me back .....I waited a few hours and it got to be close to midnight so idiot me decided to try calling again.
Now, she really doesn't care as far as the time I call, but did I go too far in trying to call her twice in a row without just leaving it be and having her returning my original call....is this something females hate to see happen in guys or am I looking into this too much?

2006-09-18 04:16:12 · 22 answers · asked by chewey 2 in Singles & Dating