Did I screw up???

Question

Hopefully some of you females out there can give me a better idea...but here it is... a woman I am seeing called yesterday and left a message saying to call her back and if she is away she will call me back later...well I call her back and had to leave her a voice mail to call me back .....I waited a few hours and it got to be close to midnight so idiot me decided to try calling again.
Now, she really doesn't care as far as the time I call, but did I go too far in trying to call her twice in a row without just leaving it be and having her returning my original call....is this something females hate to see happen in guys or am I looking into this too much?

Answer 1

Every woman is different, but as a general rule, you should have just left the message and left it be. Doing what you did,could be perceived as over anxious, clingy and stalkerish.

You mentioned you guys have been seeing each other, so depending on how long you've been seeing each other, it shouldn't be a big deal. Don't over obsess with this.

Answer 2

I think you're probably reading into it too much... Just give it some more time and if she calls back then great but if she doesn't then move on. It's not like she's the only girl out there. In the mean time you should probably resist calling her again though.

Answer 3

First off, don't be too hard on yourself. We all have have our little periods in a relationship where we doubt ourselves. You are not an idiot! I think you just wanted to talk to her and you did what came natural to you, you called again. For me personally, I never minded my guy, (hubby now), calling me anytime he wanted before we were married. I loved talking to him.

So no, you did not go too far. I think she'll let you know if you are going overboard on phone calls. Just do what feels right to you and that's all that really matter, right?

I hope this helps.
TammyKay

Answer 4

If she seems in to you, then no it wasn't too much, she was probably happy to talk to you. I find it funny that you would ask this, cause this is what girls always think. You didn't really say how she was on the phone when you called the 2nd time. I think you'd know if she was irritated by it.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Yes girls dont like being hounded, but two calls in a day isnt hounding.... youre looking into it too much and worrying.... I imagine because you like this girl that much. Just relax and talk with her... if you feel that bad about calling too much, tell her youre sorry you called so much, you were just eager to hear from her

Answer 7

If she really likes you shes happy you called. Did you talk to her at midnight? Every girl is diffrent! I think your looking into it to much. every thing will be fine. Again if she really likes you its not a big deal!

Answer 8

well Why did you call back the second time? call you wait till she return you call like the way she wanted to, she might think not thing of it, she might think why you call again at midnight. i think you put too much thought in to this.

Answer 9

No...i think you did the rite thing. I mean what if she forgot to call? Personally i think you did not screw up-you were probably anxious to hear from her. Which is a definate plus in a relationship.

Answer 10

Yes