Family & Relationships - 15 September 2006

my husband has so much interest in having sex than i do....but i'm interested only few days in a month....how to increase my interest.

2006-09-15 11:25:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He grates on my every nerve. He is smothering. We've been together for over 10 years. I feel like I am dead inside. I don't think I love him anymore. It is frustrating, because he is so nice. Why do I feel this way? Why can't I love him anymore? I find myself wishing I was single again.

2006-09-15 11:25:01 · 18 answers · asked by hellcat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl from class...she has a BF...do i just give up on her or what??

2006-09-15 11:24:31 · 14 answers · asked by Nick B 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm having a problem with child support. They are quoting a price that's outragous, and I know that I owe something way different, but they won't do a redetermination on my behalf. I need a lawyer that specializes in rights for the father. Is there a wbsite I can go to?

2006-09-15 11:24:19 · 4 answers · asked by Confused Father 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is in a band, we also have a son together. I was just wondering how other girls cope with it.

I call the band "the other woman." It takes up a lot of his time. Several long practices in the week, going to record and then playing gigs. It's hard on me because I have to stay home and watch our son while he gets to go and do this and then of course there are the "groupies" that freak me out a little more.

Was just wondering if anyone has any anything to share about their situation or probably any words of wisdom on mine. Thanks.

2006-09-15 11:23:10 · 6 answers · asked by PrettyProblem 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-15 11:22:45 · 5 answers · asked by HotFashionista07 1 in Friends

No one knows you on here so you can be open and honest. So people just have some kids that are better than others. I understand you love them all, but do you like one better or is there one you feel your family would have been better off if you had not had that night of passion that created that child.

2006-09-15 11:22:24 · 18 answers · asked by CTM 3 in Family

i found a condom in his wallet does that mean hes cheating

2006-09-15 11:21:39 · 61 answers · asked by jo jo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 11:21:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just don't understand this. I mean, could you ever "fall out of love" with your mother or you child?

I think people who say this never loved the person in the first place.

2006-09-15 11:20:30 · 11 answers · asked by bugnscout 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I think there's something there, but we started off very friendly and kind of childish....joke about a lot, so how can i try and convey that im interested in him - its hard because i have created the expectation that im always a joker with him.

Our conversations have slightly changed recently, from never even daring to talk about the "disgusting" idea of us being together to now, talking about it and having a laugh with the idea of being together....this is hard to write down....

So what can i do to quit the joker act with him and be more of a serious, friend who is a potential love interest?

P.S. Im way too shy and have no guts to tell him face on that i like him...and i know he's generally a shy guy when it comes to girls he fancies so its hard to tell....

2006-09-15 11:19:55 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

I seem to have this problem repeatedly, and I honestly don’t know why!!
I mean really, I’m not THAT great. Guys do seem to think I’m umm.... rather good looking (I disagree).... but everyone knows looks aren’t everything. at this point and time a could name a long list of guys that either hate me because I “hurt” them so deeply, or that are always calling and say things like I’ll never get past you etc. And the thing is, quite a few of these people I’ve never even had serious relationships with....

2006-09-15 11:19:37 · 25 answers · asked by ... 1 in Singles & Dating

I am posting this without knowing if "he" will see it.....I miss you, I want to hear your voice so badly. I keep calling and nothing....I know, I know, take a hint. I just can't seem to let go. Must have been those eight hours huh? I don't know how or why we ended up talking or how I fell in love with you but even though I got hurt I am still glad it happened. I just can't seem to understand why you went back to her. I hope you are happy, I really do. I am trying to be.....but just can't get you out of my head. I keep running that last conversation through my head. We would be well under 300 days by now lol. If you are reading this and understand what I am talking about....then I know I have the right person. For all of you who have no clue what I am talking about or who then feel free to take advantage of the points. Just needed a place to vent. Maybe someone could suggest a song to fit my mood. Thanks.....take care

2006-09-15 11:19:37 · 5 answers · asked by justhanginout 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been ordered to go to court from my ex wife, she wants college expenses paid for my adult daughters whom live with their boyfriends and go to college. i have been paying support for them until now and now that ive quit, my ex wants this kind of payment from me but has to go thru courts to get it. i was wondering if anyone has had this kind of experience and what the outcome was. both my daughters dont work to help themselves, dont want to work, they follow there mothers footsteps and live with boyfriend s and no they want me to pay for all this and its been going on for years bjt now since i dont have to pay support for then to the ex, she wants to get cash out of me anyway she can. help?

2006-09-15 11:19:03 · 4 answers · asked by thug 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok,so theres this boy that i like and he seems to like me (not just saying that either honestly) everybody asks us if we're going out..but he has a girlfriend but she wont even let him touch her or anything (hugs and kisses) and I don't know not much of a question just asking has anybody else had an expirence like this and what happend....like I said up there I feel totally stupid but I need some opionions here....No smart
ellic remarks please

2006-09-15 11:18:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 11:18:19 · 18 answers · asked by ibjam2001 1 in Singles & Dating

i gotta do this on my own

2006-09-15 11:18:11 · 36 answers · asked by kim h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It is every single time ,almost like a sign?

2006-09-15 11:16:47 · 9 answers · asked by chatterella 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my gay friend has never been with a woman but he seems to be sexually attracted to me and now prefers to be with me rather than go out and meet guys! Any tips on how to deal with this one. I do find him attractive but definitely want to keep it just friends.

2006-09-15 11:16:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend met her first boyfriend at 17. Of courese she thought he was hott. But the guy was a major pot head, a drunk and who knows what other drug he took. My bestfriend did not cared that he did these things. She didnt think it was a big deal. She didnt want to hear it when i told her that he's a bad guy. Mabey in a way she thought it was cool for him to do those stupid stuff.

2006-09-15 11:13:50 · 15 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Friends

IF SO START HERE CONFESS ABOUT ANYTHING
ILL GO FIRSTI LIED TO MY MOM ABOUT WHERE I WENT TO ABOUT TWO NIGHTS AGO . NOW ITS TIME TO HEAR YOURS????

2006-09-15 11:13:32 · 31 answers · asked by tracywendy2006 1 in Singles & Dating

We are really good friends but I have no attraction towards him. I do not wanna lose our friendship but I cant handle all the flirting he does with me. Makes me feel unconfortable.

2006-09-15 11:12:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you react when your boyfriend tells you he's been invited out of town for the weekend with some friends for a concert and his ex is going along too? Do you trust them enough to let them go or get upset at the fact that he didn't bother to invite you to come along?

2006-09-15 11:12:25 · 17 answers · asked by megans_98 1 in Singles & Dating

Because the name is an unobtained professional qualification, I wondered if it's legal...

2006-09-15 11:12:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have just broke up with my ex Dustin Benoit. I have had an eye on one hot guy. He is everything i need. He is strong hot and i can tell he is interested but i don't know what to do we don't talk. He is new to my school, and doesn't hang with girls. I need a conversation to get to nonchalantly ask him out, or tell him i love him. But he is always hanging with my only other ex who thinks i am a lunatic, but the only class i have with him with out my ex boyfriend is reading. But the reading teacher is strict.

2006-09-15 11:11:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they were in cps but know they stay with their aunt and another with her grandmother cps gave them custody but my parental right are not terminated. and its been three years since the case and i just found out that the same person who handle the case will have to reopen the case and she was more on their side then mine. so what i'm trying to say i want my kids back and i will have to get a lawyer to open the case and i don't have money for that.

2006-09-15 11:11:15 · 5 answers · asked by t. b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this friend that i really like and she knows this. I asked her out 9 months ago but she said no. But since then we have hung out more. We go to ballgames, we go to dinner, and we even had a picnic in the park which was her idea. I dont do these sort of things with my other girl friends. So if were not dating then what are we doing? SHould I try kissing her next time I see her? So I wanna know if her feelings could have changed from when I first asked her out. Should I ask her out again.

2006-09-15 11:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by greg J 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always had a fantasie of being with all nationality of women and sizes as well. I imagine a wild and steamy incounter with each in different ways. Some include anal sex as others include rape fantasies, some are so far off the wall I can not even say them.

2006-09-15 11:10:34 · 3 answers · asked by Houndog 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't mean to sound so sick but.. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 27, we have been together for little over 2 years. The thing is he asks me to have sex with him while i'm on my period,, I always say no cause I think thats just not right. I make it up in other ways but he still asks me.. Should I try it to make him Happy?

2006-09-15 11:10:24 · 31 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im stuck in the middle. My mom lets me date and encourages me to date. ON the other hand my dad is muslim and he does not allow me to date at all. He give me the lecture of how dating is bad. He said he is going to arrange me a marriage. Well i tell my mom this and she says not to listen to him (she does not believe in arranged marriages) . My dad says not to listen to my mom. Yikes! I tell my mom that im going to an all girls college to avoid temptation and father will find me a good arangement marriage and i can tell that make her blood boil lol!
But really, i am very confused. On one hand i want to date but on the other i dont because it makes my dad mad and violates his muslim beliefs. Sometimes i wish my mom was muslim, so things would be much easier. But this is what happens when a muslim marrys a non muslim. As for my parents they were not arranged, cuz my dad was muslim MAN so he married a non muslim woman, which is permissiable. What should i do?? HOw do i solve this problem

2006-09-15 11:08:54 · 20 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Other - Family & Relationships