I don't mean to sound so sick but.. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 27, we have been together for little over 2 years. The thing is he asks me to have sex with him while i'm on my period,, I always say no cause I think thats just not right. I make it up in other ways but he still asks me.. Should I try it to make him Happy?
2006-09-15 11:10:24 · 31 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him if he minds it, and if the both of you are ok with it, then there's no problem. Personally, I wouldn't want to do it then, either, and I've asked my husband, and he feels the same.
2006-09-15 11:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by peachy78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heyyy, you're not sick!
First of all, you should not be forced into doing something that you *really* don't want to do. But if you're just bothered about the mess, just put some old towels down...you could maybe compromise initially by doing it at the start or towards the end of your period when your flow is less heavy. The upside is, sex during your period can help ease cramps and you might find your orgasms are more intense. For these reasons I try to overcome my 'but I feel so unsexy right now!' feelings. ;)
If you think he's perverted or it's not normal to want sex at this time, then don't worry on that score; it's fine!
But if you really don't want to do it, then talk it over with him, and he should respect your views. It is only 3 or 4 days out of the month, after all!
2006-09-15 18:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by pompeii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot make up your own mind about this, dear, then there IS NO HOPE FOR YOU! If you are having your period and don't want sex then, TELL HIM and if he doesn't like it...TOUGH! Geesh, you people and your diddling little problems are the limit! Some of you can't decide when to go to the bathroom without asking the people on YAHOO, it seems! You are 24, dear, you better get a backbone.
2006-09-15 18:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm with you thats just too meh a time to really have sex however if you feel you're willing to do it, dont do it on the bed shower might be less messy and could work out rather well i'm sure you already know to use a condom and all that but if its something that really turns you off just explain i know it gets you going but damnit i'm cramping, i'm not in mood and frankly i just wanta have some damn cheesecake and a movie is that alright with you... and he should leave you alone after that
2006-09-15 18:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by desireddisease15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if your un comfortable then don't do it. I have done it when I was alot younger and it's gross if you ask me. He'll live a few days without it. You shouldn't be worried about making him happy all the time, does he worry about making you happy all the time. Think about it. Don't lose your self for a men.
2006-09-15 18:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not sick or not right. In fact, it might make you feel better. Sex is a natural pain reliever, you know, so it'll help with those cramps.
Of course, if you don't want to, then don't. It's entirely up to you.
2006-09-15 18:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by fleekyone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can actually be very pleasant if you are willing to experiment. You can try it at the end of your period ( when is light) or you can do anal. But don't feel like you have to if is not going to be comfortable for you.
2006-09-15 18:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, No, No, NO!!! Don't do it to make him happy. He should also care for your happiness (plus doing it around your time of month puts you at a higher risk of getting pregnant). Also, if he doesn't care about your happiness then he isn't for you, you should dump him and find someone else who truly loves and cares for you (since if he doesn't care about u and contantly wants to have sex then he probably doesn't love you for you). So, my advise is don't do to make him happy and he should care about your happiness too.
2006-09-15 18:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by ^-^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! That is a terrible thing to ask a girl! What a sicko! Does he say why he wants sex at that time?
2006-09-15 18:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are actually some men who like that. There are fetishes for everything...look up "golden showers" or "brown showers" to see more sickening fetishes.
Do whatever makes YOU comfortable and happy.
2006-09-15 18:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋