I seem to have this problem repeatedly, and I honestly don’t know why!!
I mean really, I’m not THAT great. Guys do seem to think I’m umm.... rather good looking (I disagree).... but everyone knows looks aren’t everything. at this point and time a could name a long list of guys that either hate me because I “hurt” them so deeply, or that are always calling and say things like I’ll never get past you etc. And the thing is, quite a few of these people I’ve never even had serious relationships with....
2006-09-15 11:19:37 · 25 answers · asked by ... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm...ok, i don't know whats wrong with all these freaks, I think they may have self-image problems! Anyways, I'm sure you are a total hottie with alot to offer, and these guys probably just have serious crushes on you and want to be with you...so unless they're total creeps consider yourself lucky, you're a guy magnet!
2006-09-15 11:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by Manco Per Sogna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indications are you're hot and probably reasonably nice. My last ex before I met my wife had the same "problem" (really it's more of a problem for the men involved but anyway) and she was GORGEOUS and a real sweetheart. I spent 3 years trying to win her back, and her other ex's had similar stories. We're both married (to different people) now and we still stay in touch.
2006-09-15 18:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand where you're coming from. I have the same problem. I have asked guys time and time again what they find so "great" about me, and you know what I get? "You're hot!" Big effin deal! There's more to me than that, and just cuz you say I'm hot doesn't mean I wanna date your stupid ***. Anywho...I don't know the answer to your question.
2006-09-15 18:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by confuzzled25f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I think you are deluding yourself. No one is THAT great, including you, and frankly, asking a self-centered question such as this makes you appear totally conceited and full of yourself! Grow up!
2006-09-15 18:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a hard time getting over you because you are massive and I needed to get past you to get to the fridge to make a sandwich.
2006-09-15 18:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just egoistic creatures who think high and almighty of themselves. Any guy needs time to get over rejection, not so much because of his feelings for the girl but because his EGO is affected. When he says, 'I'll never get over you!', he actually means, 'I'll never get over YOU HURTING MY PRIDE!'.
2006-09-15 20:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right about one thing. You are not that great, so quit patting yourself on the back, and get a life.
2006-09-15 18:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably giving off that "hard to get" vibe. That, and good looks, drives weak men crazy. Don't worry, it will end when you hit your mid-30's:)
2006-09-15 18:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by ZPE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get women that say the same about me...its a curse that I have become accustomed to bearing!
2006-09-15 18:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody's suffering from a SERIOUSLY overinflated ego!
Get over yourself sweetie.
2006-09-15 18:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋