Family & Relationships - 15 September 2006

i have the biggest chrush on him, and i can aklmost say that im in <3. but how do i tell him that?

2006-09-15 11:57:30 · 4 answers · asked by Gabby 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband still doesn't want our second baby. He's afraid the first won't have the same opportunities he had now that we have to provide for two--public school, rather than private, fewer extra-curricular things, etc. Part of me understands his concern, but I really want our son to have a sibling. I love my son and want the best for him. I hope I haven't made the wrong choice. My husband keeps saying I don't deserve his kisses or hugs and that I'm responsible for his being unhappy.

2006-09-15 11:57:22 · 20 answers · asked by mom2be 2 in Marriage & Divorce

... so theres this ex-boyfriend, the first, who i was with for a long time. I loved him a lot but I broke up with him because of circumstances at the time. Since then, we kept in touch as friends for the past few years. Later, I find out he went behind my back and slept with a friend of mine in the years me and him were friends, which ended my friendship with him and her. We havent talked since. Recently, he called and apologized for what he did and says he did most of the bad things to me because he's been bitter about me breaking his heart. This makes me feel guilty... To apologize, hes taking me out... and possibly getting me a "sorry present"... should I get something for him cause I feel bad?

2006-09-15 11:56:24 · 12 answers · asked by b 1 in Friends

Im 19 and a 36D, I heard you stop growing when you are like 21, is it true, I hope so I want em bigger

2006-09-15 11:55:30 · 26 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Singles & Dating

A policeman walked into a barber shop and asked for a cut so the barber gave him the cut and when the police man asked what was the price the barber said "Free" it is on community service.
So the next day early in the morning when the barber was opening the saloon he saw a dozen DONUTS and a letter saying it was from the policeman.

Then a florist came got a cut, barber said it was on community service and the next day the barber found a dozen roses.

Now a Me trinidadian now come into the saloon and got the cut and barber said it was on communnity service.

So the next day when the barber was opening the saloon he saw a dozen fellow TRINIDADIANS waiting for FREE HAIR CUTS.

LOL

2006-09-15 11:55:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well me and my boyfriend just had our baby girl but he already has 2 other kids well the thing is his other baby~mamma doesnt let him see his other 2 kids for almost a year because she's mad cause he's moved on in his life now she decides that she wants to bring them back in the picture and just plays with him by bringing them into his life and then not letting him see them for months at a time she does this because she knows it hurts him i told him i was sick of her games and that it was either she lets him see them or she doesnt cause its bull she needs to start acting her age not her shoe size anyway i told him that if she kept on with her sh1t i would leave him do you think i'm right or am i wrong?

2006-09-15 11:55:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

yesturday i slept by mistake leaving my 8 months baby breastfeeding ... hmmmmm she fell in the morning,, i found her on the floor ... she cried like crazy and had a bruise on her forhead ... its blue , she is acting normally and she is as sweet as allways .. only i hurt her, i let her down .. i should have protected my angel !!!! even though she is allright , but this is the first time i act irrisponsibly .. i will never forgive myself for that !!!! .... if anything happend to this child , i wouldnt be here today saying that .... i love her with all my heart .

2006-09-15 11:54:33 · 22 answers · asked by delayla 2 in Friends

a guy heard somebody call me good looking so he calls me that now as a joke, I think. but then he ran up to me at my locker and covered my eyes with his hands and said guess who. I almost guessed sammy when I felt his hands and was like who the heck is that. but I said I don't know and I looked up and it was CHARLIE!
then he said " hey good lookin." so do you think he likes me.

2006-09-15 11:54:15 · 14 answers · asked by miss swan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-15 11:54:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-15 11:53:20 · 8 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well my gf she thinks I am talking to a girl way to much. What do i do!

2006-09-15 11:52:43 · 2 answers · asked by E 2 in Singles & Dating

Does he or does he not like me more than just a friend?

Early days, he conveyed that his taste in girls is the completel opposite of me (to be honest, im the complete opposite of him too)

If i ever used to somehow imply that we were behaving like an old married couple (which in my opinion we still do) he'd make fun and say things like "not in a milion years"

But now, he "jokes" about with me and brings up being "together" himself, like physically and intimately being together....i just try to shrug it off...

Like yesterday he told me to "keep the bed warm for me" - isnt that flirting???
And another time, he was talking about how he wants me to come and look after him because he's ill, and how he'd take care of me if i was ill.....o.O

This isnt normal is it??!!

(Been friends for 8 months - quite close)

2006-09-15 11:52:43 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Singles & Dating

Im talking to my friend on messenger, and she told me i suck at singing, and it really hurt my feelings. heres our conversation:

I WENT TO THE PARK AND SANG TO THE DUCKS
I feel like being evil today... says:
lol
I feel like being evil today... says:
nice
I feel like being evil today... says:
u suck at singing, i feel 4 them
GURGLE says:
They still like heat of the moment!
I feel like being evil today... says:
lol
GURGLE says:
who would they like better: me or gabby?
I feel like being evil today... says:
lol
I feel like being evil today... says:
gabby
I feel like being evil today... says:
jk
I feel like being evil today... says:
u
GURGLE says:
i have to train my voice
I feel like being evil today... says:
lol
I feel like being evil today... says:
sure
I feel like being evil today... says:
u just suck
GURGLE says:
i have to plug my nose and make it sound the same
I feel like being evil today... says:
that's all
GURGLE says:
thats the only way to get better
I feel like being evil today... says:
w/e
I feel like being evil today... says:
it wont work 4 u

2006-09-15 11:52:24 · 11 answers · asked by . 3 in Friends

theres nothing like having to wash the the nasty marks your man leaves behind haha. i think il just set fire to them

2006-09-15 11:52:15 · 19 answers · asked by snoopdog 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-15 11:52:14 · 15 answers · asked by valalonz 1 in Family

My friend and I have borrowed each others clothes for years, but lately she has gained quite a bit of weight and is a good 4 or 5 sizes bigger than me. That's fine and all, but she still borrows my shirts and they are getting all stretched out and ruined. I don't know how to approach the subject: "Sorry you can't wear my clothes anymore, you're stretching them out because you're too big"? I want to be sensitive about the subject but I can't afford to have all my clothes ruined either!

2006-09-15 11:50:55 · 18 answers · asked by Emmy 6 in Friends

i have a bf now and my best friend (is a guy) doesn't know yet. i think he likes me and wants to b more than friends, but i don't, but i am afraid if i tell him he will b mad or somethin. What should i do?

2006-09-15 11:50:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-15 11:50:12 · 39 answers · asked by bumpb4 2 in Family

Hubby and I are in a debate and he says guys like a kinda flakey girl who needs "protecting" and I am say guys like a girl that is "strong and able to take care of herself"

2006-09-15 11:49:30 · 19 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I WANNA KNOW HOW CAN YOU TELL IF A GIRL IS A LESBIAN W/ OUT ASKING. SEE ALL SHE TALKS ABOUT IS LESBIANS. LIKE WHEN WE TALK AND SHE CANT HEAR US CLEARLY SHE SAYS OMG YOUR A LESBIAN. AND IT LOOKS LIKE SHE GETS ATTRACTED WHEN SHE SAYD THAT. AND IF SHE IS A LESBIAN THEN SHE LIKES ME!! AND SHE ALWAYS SAYS OMG QUIT Talking ABOUT BOYS!!! AND SHE SAID WHEN SHE LIVED IN CALIFORNIA SHE WAS FRIENDS WITH A LESBIAN AND HER FRIEND TRYED TO MAKE OUT WITH HER!SHE IS MY FRIEND THOUGH.

2006-09-15 11:48:36 · 8 answers · asked by Aycilla 3 in Friends

he is so cute

2006-09-15 11:48:28 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda U 1 in Singles & Dating

Sorry, I posted this once already but didn't get much feedback. I will get the hint if it happens like that again. But I really do appreciate some opinions.

I need some advice from y'all in serious relationships. I've been dating this girl for 4 months now and the honeymoon stuff has passed. We are definitely on good terms and we value each other's friendship immensely but it feels like I have to work to get her in the mood. She started a second job since we've been dating and it consumes a lot of her time (She probably works 60 hours a week) and she goes home tired. We aren't living together, but we probably stay over at each other's place 3 or 4 nights a week but inevitably she falls asleep in short order. I am all but certain she's not seeing someone else b/c she doesn't have the time and we still text and email each other during the day. My question is why would a girl hold it out from a guy she hit it off with in mind blowing fashion? I want to ask her about it. Is it awkward? Appropriate? Is this the kind of stuff that happens when feelings change or could it be something else?

2006-09-15 11:47:49 · 11 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

I am taking Lexapro. My mom and my grandma think that imm a zombie and i wont stick up for myself. For example before i started taking them i was lazy and didnt even clean my own messes. But now i am and they are yelling and screaming at me and tell me I don't do anything when I try my best. Ever since i started ir seems like they think that they can say anything they want to me. Should i tell my doctor? What should i do? should i confront my mom and grandma?

2006-09-15 11:47:15 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

i am going to a football game.. is this a good time to ask a guy out? i really like him.. a lot and i really want to go out with him. he knows i like him bcuz my friend blabed. but what should i do?

2006-09-15 11:46:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, this girl i used to know some 15 years, we were kids then and all we did was to talk for hours on the phone. then we lost sight of each other and then 2 weeks ago we met again and we stayed up all night long - just talking. By the next day we were sleeping together and now we are spending the weekends together! We have changed very much over the years, she has been married and now has a 4 year old girl. Two days ago she told me she loves me. And now we`ve started to have arguments as if we had been dating fot years! Is it me or is this going waay too fast??? I really like her and I can picture myself next to her for a long time, but actually Im kinda freaked out sometimes...

2006-09-15 11:46:00 · 5 answers · asked by X 3 in Singles & Dating

I have spent a long time trying to work out the answer to this question, maybe even 3 or 4 minutes but what I need answering is: What do women want ?

2006-09-15 11:45:31 · 18 answers · asked by luket 1 in Singles & Dating

You mess up your marriage, and marry again. The second marriage is a disaster, but you have a child. Then your first spouse reappears, and you realize you may have another chance at true happiness. You are completely miserable, and that is no way to live, but what about the kid?

2006-09-15 11:45:28 · 16 answers · asked by Robert M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-15 11:42:56 · 11 answers · asked by megan g 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband's biological kids moved after I sponsored them to come to the USA because my husband asked me and I'm an American Citizen, ages are: 11, 15, 18 and 21.They are all Muslim and so is he. If we watch a movie; he sits while everyone watches a mafioso graphically bet a man to death with a baseball bat. Different movie, everyone watches while car runs over guy then backs up over him repeatedly, no probs for Dad. Married couple in film kisses in front of their house in daylight. Dad goes ape to turn channel. 21 also demands film be fast-forwarded. Scene in Titanic where L.D & K.W. are at the front of the boat was fast-forwarded. Man and woman kiss/hug--bad, brutal violence relished?! Family goes 2 mall, 21 yr old (male) alone w/digital cable for 4 hrs. He ordered $70 in xxx hard PORN! Hubby purchased porn before kids came. Now if a man & woman innocently kiss w/clothing ON (PG film) it is quickly turned off by Dad & 21 YO son. Is this hypocrisy, insanity, normal, something else...?

2006-09-15 11:42:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-15 11:41:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating