We are really good friends but I have no attraction towards him. I do not wanna lose our friendship but I cant handle all the flirting he does with me. Makes me feel unconfortable.
2006-09-15 11:12:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's exactly how you should tell him.
2006-09-15 11:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Izzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should drop some hints but if you want to keep his friendship telling him outright might ruin it since it just feels wierd knowing that both of you know that he sees you as more than a friend. This a very delicate situation and telling him would depend on what type of person is he. Also, how important is his friendship, because if it makes you unconfortable then maybe you should tell him despite the consequences. It just really depends on you and what type of person he is and then you'll have to decide what path of action to take.
2006-09-15 18:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by ^-^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my first question is..Do you flirt with him also? Most men are attracted to a woman who will flirt with him, because it sends a signal to the brain tell him that she is attracted to him. if this is happening, stop the flirting on your side. its a subtle way of him getting the message without hurting his feelings. If your not flirting with him, just tell him to stop because it making you uncomfortable. If hes a true friend, he'll understand your feelings. Best of luck!
2006-09-15 18:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by mark f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him exactly what you said here. If he is a true friend he will understand and quit the flirting. If he gets mad or doesn't want to be your friend anymore then you know he never was a true friend to begin with. He should be happy to have you as a friend than not at all!
2006-09-15 18:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time he flirts with you, tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable the longer you just let it pass as acceptable the worse he is going to take it...he'll probably feel like an *** but the sooner it's taken care of the sooner he can get over it.
2006-09-15 18:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to be up front with him and tell him that you're not interested in a relationship with him, it may not be what he wants to hear because he likes the flirting with you, but he'll just have to accept the facts of your relationship is just a friendship, that you only like him as a friend.
If he gets mad about it then he's really not your friend, because if he was then he'd understand what you're tryin to tell him.
just be honest and up front with him, hopefully he'll understand and get your point.
2006-09-15 18:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him that your not really interested in him with that kind of way, because it might mess up the friendship and if you try to be G/friend and b/friend and something end up happenin you can't go back to being friends.so just say that you don't want to mess things up.
2006-09-15 18:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by lillovely09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you just told us . I am not attracted to you , I am uncomfortable with your flirting and I dont want to lose our friendship.
2006-09-15 18:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by munlitluv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK heres what you say and it will WORK.....ok ou say: " Im sorry but im not interested in you as a boyfriend"....WOW good huh. You said it yourself.....tell him the tuth no lies no bs.
He appreciate you not being mean by lying or leading him on.
2006-09-15 18:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Angelwings87 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say it in a nice way and don't act all mean because that will definetly hurt his heart!!
2006-09-15 18:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by lil_miss_fyefye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a fun way tell him he is creeping you out stop it I cant even talk to you when you do that. Then start talking even if you make it up tell him about a diferent guy you like.
2006-09-15 18:15:30 · answer #11 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋