i found a condom in his wallet does that mean hes cheating
2006-09-15 11:21:39 · 61 answers · asked by jo jo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not necessarily.
In this day and age, he should be using a condom with you anyway.
2006-09-15 11:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his Dick smells like condom smells when he get home - yes 100%
Maybe his work needs sacrifices and he has to fak up somebody to keep the job - optional. If the condom finely disappear from his wallet - possible.
Make love every night with him to find out any difference in performance - already used or fresh.
Even if he is cheating he is protected - that's good.
Sometimes having somebody on the side can improve your sex life too - that's for good.
2006-09-15 11:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your intuition, if you think he's cheating then he just as well might be. look for hints such as staying out later than usual or has to work overtime more often. don't let your love for him (and your hopes that he isn't cheating) blind you from the facts. also, think about it, what's he doing with a condom in his wallet? people normally don't walk around with a condom in their wallet.
2006-09-15 11:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by ^-^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE THERE ANY WEIRD PHONE # IF THERE IS THEN HE MAY BE CHEATING THE CONDOM COULD ONLY BE A SIGN OF CHEATING IF IT IS NEW OR USED HAS HE HAD A CONDOM IN HIS WALLET BEFORE NOW LIKE WHEN YOU FIRST STARTED DATING IF HE DID NOT HAVE ONE THEN WELL HE PROBABLY IS CHEATING CHECK HIS CELL PHONE
2006-09-15 11:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by tim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that could be a good indicator, IF you two're married. otherwise he may not be cheating on you, how worn does the packaging? if it looks really worn, it could be possible that he forgot to take it out after you two got together.
I'd be more concerned of his actions, like calling to say he's going to hang out with friends a lot more than usual, or calling to say he's gonna be late from work a lot.
there's a lot of factors to consider about whether or not he's cheating.
If you had a feeling that he was and you snooped and this only confirmed a suspicion then it's fairly justfiable.
then tell him about your "accidental snoop", you could just say you picked it up to move it and the condom fell out.
or just straight up tell him that you're sorry that you snooped but you had your feeling and you just wanted to confirm the suspicion and you wanted to know about it.
if he is, your next move is to cut him loose or try to work on why he feels he's gotta cheat and then consider your options on whether you wanna give him a second shot at doin right by you or not. he's got no business to creep behind your back; especialy if you're not doin' it to him.
2006-09-15 11:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you and him are using condoms I guess, if your not then I would say he may be cheating or he is prepared to cheat.
He may just be being safe in case you and him want to get fresh somewhere where you don't have one to hand.
Don't go snooping on him, just out and ask him, but oh wait, you must have been snooping already if you know this, no trust no relationship.
If he is not hiding it then obviously there is nothing to hide!!!
2006-09-15 11:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Migz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing going through his wallet?
Not much trust in that relationship.
But to answer your question - No. don't be silly. It could have been there for years. But if it was a used condom, then I'd start to worry.
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2006-09-15 11:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by tom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Do you two use condoms???? If yes then It's probably for you two. If you don't use condoms, then why is it there (for a buddy). O.K. First ask him why is it there. See what he has to say. You need to let him know your uncomfortable with him keeping condoms in his wallet if you two don't use them. If he flips out then Huston we have a problem.
Good Luck
CERA
2006-09-15 11:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by vacera g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if you are looking in his wallet, you must already think he may be cheating or you wouldn't have looked. Was there any reason he'd need it for sex with you? Do you go out to park or somewhere other than his house to have sex?
2006-09-15 11:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, I can't really answer that without knowing more details but if you live together...why the heck is he carrying a condom around? Definately cause for suspician.
If you don't live together well then maybe it's just 'in case' your supply is out.
2006-09-15 13:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesn't unless you have been threw his wallet before and it was 'nt there then you should ask about it but you should not be in his wallet anyway. you sound like you have trust issues you know if you go searching for stuff you are gonna find it abd when you do you may not like what it is. but if you really don't trust him ask him and see what he says if you trust him don't ask
2006-09-15 11:34:58 · answer #11 · answered by eunique97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋