Family & Relationships - 13 September 2006

2006-09-13 15:09:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a successful, young guy and I meet a lot of nice girls out and about either at school, work, or a bar/club scene. If I ever meet a woman who I consider impressive I will ask her if she would like to get together sometime. If she seems hesitant I don't persue but if she is encouraging I will ask for her number. I usually wait a few days, call, leave a voicemail, wait a few days, call, leave a voicemail and then just delete the number. I can not understand why a girl would give me her number if she does not want to talk to me. I am a big boy and all you have to say is no or I'm not intersted etc. DO NOT respond with, well you are probably pushy, or you're creapy on the phone because that is not the case.

The bottom line is I will meet a girl who is making clear signs that she is intersted, but when I call her she doesn't respond. Why?

2006-09-13 15:09:11 · 6 answers · asked by Be nice, or at least funny 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I see each other 4 days a week and most the time I go to his house to see him. We work together also. He can’t come over my house because my parents want not like him. Anyway he lives by him self so I can go over his house any time I want. I love him so much and he loves me too, and he talks about he want to spend the rest of his life with me he want to have kids with me and all that good stuff. But I don’t feel the same way I love him but that is about it I want to marry some one who can take care of me and him self, he works at a department store he doesn’t have a college degree, I am going to school and working full time, I just want to be with him and have fun, and I feel so bad I know he cares about me so much I just cant see him sad, I know he is going to be so heart. What should I do I don’t want to tell him I love so much, but we are to different people. He talks about me all the time, he tells his friends how we are so in love together I feel so bad. What should I do?

2006-09-13 15:08:19 · 12 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Singles & Dating

what if you already made it as your habit? is it stil normal?

2006-09-13 15:07:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 15:07:30 · 5 answers · asked by Q&A 3 in Friends

My divorce is almost final and I keep wondering... I'm 36, with 2 kids and a divorcee. I just wonder if there is any man out there that would want to get tied up in all of that? A good Christian man, that will adore his wife/girlfriend, that won't cheat on me or lie... All I ever wanted was a man to cherish me, communicate with me, and love me with all of his heart. I think all women want that actually.. probably men too.

I just don't understand for the life of me why my husband of 15 years up and left to be with a woman who isn't terribly intelligent, not nearly as attractive as me, has 4 kids under 7 yrs old and would be part of an adulterous relationship yet profess to be "Christian".

Lots of unanswered questions I suppose but I love marriage, I love having a special man in my life and worry that this may happen all over again.

2006-09-13 15:07:16 · 25 answers · asked by spudette70 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Love needs many meetings to grow but for infatuation just once meeting is enough is it true?

2006-09-13 15:07:06 · 11 answers · asked by Biss 3 in Singles & Dating

I keep having reoccuring dreams of him asking me "if i get myself together will you get back with me"? And I keep yelling no and them waking up what is wrong with me if I am for sure that I do not ever in life want him or anything to do with him

2006-09-13 15:06:48 · 13 answers · asked by not a user 1 in Singles & Dating

well I know this guy for a week and I really like him and he like's me too he asked me out but i don't have an answer yet so what do u guys think i should do ? i never felt this way for someone before (by the way I'm 14 so u guys know) and tell me what to do

2006-09-13 15:06:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i sit by this guy in class and hes like super cute and like when ever i look at him hes always smiling at me and whenever im talking to my friend in front of me hes like so what happen and hes mean to my friend the one who sits in front of me but hes nice to me also today i was like sad with my head down and he like came down to my head level and was like are you ok so i want to know if he likes befor i ask him out or anything but i dont know if he does

2006-09-13 15:03:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 15:03:40 · 20 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There's financial ties and a unborn child involved as well.....

Thanks for any info.

2006-09-13 15:03:32 · 15 answers · asked by Miss.Understanding 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm just wondering. don't assume i'm one of the 2 please!

thanks much

2006-09-13 15:02:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Even in the shower or while having 'relations' (so she says...I don't peek)

2006-09-13 15:02:49 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How many times would you get totally dumped by people you really care for before you gave up on dating? All that B.S. about getting back on the horse wears thin after you get thrown and kicked enough times. What's your limit?

2006-09-13 15:02:41 · 17 answers · asked by Nc Jay 5 in Singles & Dating

i'm 15 i have a son(son)my girlfriend of 5 years is cheating on me bjut i do not know if he is my son or not.but i do not love her should i leave her or not?i do not want to be the childs father i am to young to be a dad

2006-09-13 14:59:22 · 33 answers · asked by mirror ninja,copycat ninja 1 in Friends

I have a group of friends and they ALL have boyfriends or is now talking to a boy and would eventually go out. There are mainly 5 of us. and 2 had boyfriends and the other 2 are talking to boys which would lead to them going out. I still dont have a boyfriend and I feel like an oddball. I like a boy but Im trying to get over him and I dont want him to know that I like him. I never had a kiss yet and Im almost 16. I had boyfriends but we never got to the point to where we kissed. Why is this happening to me? Is something wrong??

2006-09-13 14:58:54 · 12 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a group of friends and they ALL have boyfriends or is now talking to a boy and would eventually go out. There are mainly 5 of us. and 2 had boyfriends and the other 2 are talking to boys which would lead to them going out. I still dont have a boyfriend and I feel like an oddball. I like a boy but Im trying to get over him and I dont want him to know that I like him. I never had a kiss yet and Im almost 16. I had boyfriends but we never got to the point to where we kissed. Why is this happening to me? Is something wrong??

2006-09-13 14:58:10 · 20 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Friends

please help me my ex is stalking me and wont stay away or stop calling problem is i live like a minute away from him. he wont shut up about how i broke his heart and how upset he was when i dumped him the second time. he knows what i do what i eat where i go and what time i take a freaking shower ya'll plz tell me what to do cuz hes crazy today is his b-day and i was supposed to go over to his house but i stood him up. and now his bff likes me too. from any one plz tell me how you would handle this conflict. the reason i dumped him was because he was pressuring me into sexual activities i didnt want with him. but for some reason he dont understand that. plz help

2006-09-13 14:58:03 · 8 answers · asked by class of 2010!!! rock on 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so theres this guy that i have in a class and i think he really cute and nice and so on. im a really shy person and i dont have the guts to talk to him and even if i did how would i go about doing it when there is no reason for me to start a conversation. he said that what he looks for in a girl is that they have the confidence in going up and talking to him! probably the worst thing he could have said. what should i do? how do i start a conversation if i dont know if he even wants to talk to me?

2006-09-13 14:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by Jaime 2 in Singles & Dating

how was it? my new bf is a total dork,lol, he is the 1st dork i have ever dated, its taken alot 2 get over his dorkiness

2006-09-13 14:57:09 · 16 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 14:55:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 14:54:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex Matt who is in my Math class keeps flirting with his ex infrront of me when I'm talking to my friend Mike. And today when I was hugging and talking to my friend Devon or mention my bff's name Matt gets this jealous look on his face. And I don't know why he brokeup with me.What does this all mean?

2006-09-13 14:53:46 · 10 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-13 14:53:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was at a party like 2 or 3 weeks ago and we were playing spin the bottle (stupid) and i had to kiss this guy but then, my long-term friend that i use to have a crush on, said to him, "if u dont want to kiss her, i'll kiss her for you". But when i really had to kiss my long-term friend the next time (he kissed me first) i felt something strong inside of me, like my heart was pounding...? But the big problem is that i really dont know if he likes me or not or, if i like him or not. Besides he has a girlfriend...but everytime, he keeps on making this strange look at me...What do you guys think about this problem? I use to like him.....are my feelings coming back to me?
but dont think wrong guys! it was just a friend kiss!!! A couple of other people had girlfriends/boyfriends too. Just a friend kiss. besides it was a game u had to do it!

2006-09-13 14:52:51 · 17 answers · asked by Fck! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And if you were the one who strayed, did you find yourself being angry at the person you had the affair with, as if they may have been responsible?

2006-09-13 14:52:12 · 4 answers · asked by phil5775 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

some thinks its a hobby and it needs to stop its not only hurting them but u too dose everyone jug people and crap and they dont even no each other y cant everone just exsept every one because trust me i would know how it feels cause iv been through it and so has everyone ealse and i think that u should think very well about this and also iv done it to people actaly i bet everyone has and when i got home and thought about it i actaly feelt realy bad . i think it should stop and if u think the same i challenge u to get others to do the same and if not and u dont then i challenge u to go to www.challengeday.org and even if u do beleave in me do the same and go to www.challengeday.org iv took the class 4 a hole day at school with out leaveing that room and its hard to share ur thoughts and i think u should think about everything that gose wroung in your life and also...what uv done or something that u feel bad about what ever and go to www.challengeday.com and read about it and also thi

2006-09-13 14:52:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

just mean to her employees?

2006-09-13 14:51:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-13 14:51:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating