I have a group of friends and they ALL have boyfriends or is now talking to a boy and would eventually go out. There are mainly 5 of us. and 2 had boyfriends and the other 2 are talking to boys which would lead to them going out. I still dont have a boyfriend and I feel like an oddball. I like a boy but Im trying to get over him and I dont want him to know that I like him. I never had a kiss yet and Im almost 16. I had boyfriends but we never got to the point to where we kissed. Why is this happening to me? Is something wrong??
2006-09-13 14:58:10 · 20 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont wanna sit and wait for the "right guy" cause what if he doesn't find me!!
2006-09-13 15:11:42 · update #1
Im not a loser, I am actually somewhat popular. I know a lot of people and I give boys hugs all the time in the hallway.
2006-09-13 15:12:40 · update #2
Yes. there is something wrong. What's wrong is you keep comparing yourself to your friends. Live by your own standards.
2006-09-13 14:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is just a picture of envy. Nothing is wrong with you but you are in the wrong group of friends. As the saying goes, tell me who your friends are and i tell you who you are. Don't go with the so called " IN CROWD". You don't belong there. Actually, at 16, there are a lot of better things to do other than having boyfriends. Pursue your studies. Find a group of friends that will bring out the best in you and not the worst in you. Friends that will set good example on your behalf. Friends who have ambitions in life that will help you focus toward the road of success. If you continue hanging out with them, either your friends or you will end up out of school due to early marriage or whatever. Aim high.
2006-09-13 22:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off making friends with boys and see what happens. Don't worry about being kissed it is normal a lot of people talk like they are big shots and all it is is talk. It seems like your not cool but that's just the way it seems in the long run you are better off someone will notice you for the good person you are and not because you kiss and tell.
2006-09-13 22:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by pugaboo03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal for a teenager your age. There's not much wrong with you, except that you seem to hide from the person you'd like to know when you have the opportunity, and you know that later on may be too late. Just opene up to him, tell him in a letter, or talk to him in private, tell him how you feel. Worst comes to worst, he may just want you as a friend, if that's the case...don't panic! You may become best of friends. Otherwise, go to him directly and see how things turn out for the two of you. Good luck!
2006-09-13 22:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you Tracie, just take your time and enjoy these years that you have with your friends. Everything will fall into place at the right time. The best peice of advise I can give you is"It's better to be single than to be with the wrong guy just to save yourself from being lonely" Your quite normal and the right one will come along in time. :)
2006-09-13 22:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with you, your feeling pressured to ''keep up'' with your friends. You dont have to have a bf to fit in, your much better without one! Girls seems to think that theres a certain age expectation on when we should do things, you do things at your own pace and when the time is right, you'll know what to do.
2006-09-13 22:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you , you should wait and you will find the right guy . I think your a little shy that's all and maybe that's the reason you think something is wrong with you . Feeling shy is very normal maybe some of your ffriends are shy also and your boyfriends probably noticed you were shy also .
2006-09-13 22:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by rayray17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby i am 26 years old i dint kiss my first boy until i was 14 i think younger than you but i went out with him for a year in the fifth grade i asked him to kiss me when i was in the 7th grade well between summer of seventh and 8th grade as a favor, then it was longer until i found my ex boyfriend, trust me theres no rush when all your friends are running around with mono - youll be happy, think about it like this they have already givin some odd boy a first kiss their only first kiss at least you havent made the mistake of giveing it to the wrong one. Theres nothing wrong with you , you just havent found the one worth kissing- and your probally right they havent been worth it. - and shyt if they cant wait until your ready the reality is they aint ready for a young woman who respects herself enough to figure out who is right and what time is right, trust me the man you give your first kiss to will be worth the wait as long as you follow your heart.
and the biggest game is if you loved/like me you would, **** ****** if you love/like me you wouldnt make me
by the way me waiting to experience everything probally turned out better because now i have been with a man for two years who is used to the girls that run around with all diff types of guys n the fact that i dont makes me his queen .
2006-09-13 22:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever feel pressured by your boy crazy friends! sweetie, if you look at it this way:
you will have less distractions in your life
you will probably get a better education
you are smart to wait
there is nothing wrong with you! just keep living your life like YOU want to, and in 10 years, your friends will be beggin at your feet for your success in life...there is nothing wrong with that, is there?
trust me, the right guy will come one day. that day is going to be a good one!
2006-09-13 22:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you. you just happen to be selective. you can forget about cat and mouse game with that boy and continue to meet more guys out there. have fun with life. dont hope for something to happen when there is a good chance it may not. good luck with......wait a minute, I just noticed ur pic Tracie...I'll be right over to plant a nice soft lengthy smooch on ur beautiful inviting lips.
Email me...I'll holla !!!
2006-09-13 22:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH U
MAYBE YOU JUST NEED TO BE A LITTLE MORE OUTGOING. I AM 16 AND I HAVE HAD A CRUSH ON THE SAME BOY SINCE SECOND GRADE. I NEVER WANTED HIM TO FIND OUT EITHIER BUT I FINALLY STARTED TALKING TO HIM AGAIN AND THINGS ARE GOING REAL GOOD.
2006-09-13 22:05:11 · answer #11 · answered by SleePy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋