I keep having reoccuring dreams of him asking me "if i get myself together will you get back with me"? And I keep yelling no and them waking up what is wrong with me if I am for sure that I do not ever in life want him or anything to do with him
2006-09-13 15:06:48 · 13 answers · asked by not a user 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I broke up with robert about 4 or 5 months ago and i keep having him in my dreams asking me, "If I get my stuff together will you get back with me?" And I wake up yelling no and I dont ever want to do nothing with him even though his sex was better than most so what is wrong with me ?
2006-09-13 15:09:46 · update #1
This person was a very important part of your life for a bit of time. He's helped to mold you into who you are today, even if in only the slightly of ways - be it by any learning experience or monumental (or semi-important) event.
Of course he's made a lasting impression and will remain in your memory.
So why should it be a surprise that you'd dream about him? It doesn't mean you are desiring a relationship again. It's simply your mind going through memories of events and emotions in different forms via your dreams.
It will take some time, but eventually he'll fade from your dreams.
2006-09-13 15:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by eedoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say that your dreams are your subconscious working out your problems. Many also say that if you have the same dream more than three times in a row that it will come true, that's superstition. Look into some Dream Dictionaries or a book about understanding your dreams. What ever happens, Good Luck!
2006-09-13 22:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-15 00:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a "Regret" or "Guilty" feelings of yours! You may have guilt conscience in this case and the break up wasn't clean or complete. That's why you have this kind of recurring dream. If you are sure that you don't want to deal with him any more, go back to him and talk it over and then you won't have that dream anymore.
Recurring dreams often happen when things are not resolved completely.
2006-09-14 08:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same thing and Honestly I think that it means that you still have some unresolved issues. You may need to seek counceling in order for it to even start to get better. From experience.
2006-09-13 22:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by fornakitta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on how long you were with him its pretty normal to dream like that, maybe you have unresolved feelings that you haven't dealt with yet (anger, hurt etc.) i was with a guy for 10 yrs and have been broke up for 5 he's still in my dreams and we will never be together again.
2006-09-13 22:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious and ready to move on, why not close the door. It seems to me its not easy for you to do so since you could be thinking of making things back to normal again.
2006-09-13 22:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by E0844 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a new boyfriend. It's the sex you had with Robert that his haunting you and making you lonely.
2006-09-13 22:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably have some unresolved issues with him or in the way you broke up ... i used to have dreams about my ex a lot but it was mostly because i didn't have closure
2006-09-13 22:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think on some level you are still in love with him.
2006-09-13 22:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by Q&A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋