i'm 15 i have a son(son)my girlfriend of 5 years is cheating on me bjut i do not know if he is my son or not.but i do not love her should i leave her or not?i do not want to be the childs father i am to young to be a dad
2006-09-13 14:59:22 · 33 answers · asked by mirror ninja,copycat ninja 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get the f*ck out, seriously.
2006-09-13 15:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by moooooo 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am a singel parent to and the most imporant thing is that you maybe son has love. So here's what you do break up with this girl if you don't love her and she cheating leaver her you can do better. Get a DNA test that's the only way to find out if the child is yours. If the child is yours be a father you made the baby be in his life. This dosent mean you have to be with the mother. If this baby isn't yours move on and thank the lord. Please strap up next time so you dont have to go threw this again.
2006-09-13 15:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by JaAliyah R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully, you have grandparents who will help you with this. Get a DNA test to see if the child is yours. If this is your son, you have to step up and do the right thing with the help of some adults in your family. It is not the child's fault that he is in this world. Have you been to social services to get help. You need to get your GED NOW, and then get into some sort of apprenticeship program to become a plumber, electrician, some sort of trade. If you are in high school, talk to your guidance counselor and ask for a referral for the GED. Your community college may be able to help, too. Don't let this get you down. This has happened before, but step up and do the right thing. Put yourself in your son's place when he is 15 and doesn't have a father. God bless.
2006-09-13 15:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is really 5 years old,I think there no possibility she had pregnant and gave birth a son.It is nonsense.She is cheating you.Do you really having sex with her ?If it is yes you must stop it.She is too young and having no monthly period yet..But if she is 9 years old or up,it is the possibility of pregnant and has a baby.
For your certainty,you can get a DNA test to the son and you yourself whether its DNA is same or not with you as an evidence.If you have no similar DNA with him,there is not your son.So leave them and do not stay with her and her baby.You concentrate to your study for your bright future.You are still too young for having a family.You are still depent on your parents.Isn't it ?.
2006-09-13 15:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try keeping the son cause I dont think he wants a mother thats cheats. But he should see her, dont let his mom not see him cause later on in life he's gonna ask you and might get mad but yeah keep your son and give him a good life and show him how to be a real man. You are young to have a child but you do so you might as well take care of him. He is your life and he needs a good father.
2006-09-13 15:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your parents help. Insist that a DNA test is run on the child to determine if he is yours. If he is your son, it's too late to worry about becoming a Dad. However, you do need to take responsibility for your actions concerning your son.
However, you do not have to be involved with your sons mother other than to take care of your son.
2006-09-13 15:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the last thing you should do is leave... dont be like the people that just gets a girl pregnant and walk away like its not your problem. Since you two are stupid enough to do what you did, you shouldnt just push all the blame to the girl. You should go get a DNA test or something to find out if that really is your son and if it is, you should take responsibility.
2006-09-13 15:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by vooshoo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to your parents right away - if they aren't available, go to grandparents, a teacher, somebody. If your girlfriend is going to have the baby, insist on a paternity test to see if you are the father.
If you think you're old enough for sex, then you're damn well old enough to be a man about the consequences. If your girlfriend is pregnant with YOUR child, then you need to get a job, and support that child, and BE A FATHER.
2006-09-13 15:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by physicsmom04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One 15 yrs old, you should have thought about not having kids before having sex. But since the deed has been done, find out if that child is yours or not. Remember its not the childs fault he has 2 irresponsible parents. Do what is best for that child if he is yours. If you want to play the adult games, you have to be prepared to pay the adult price...quote from my mom
2006-09-13 15:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by spunkyshell2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK kid and you ARE a kid even if the baby is yours ,...you don't want to be his father ?do you think he asked to be born?you need to leave then establish paternity with DNA test even if you have to call a talk show.she may be cheating but he did not ask to be here and you need to take responsibility if he is yours,they are not one person or one issue.In the future think with your brains not other body parts and wait until you are married and ready to be a dad for from sex comes babies if no one ever told you before.Good luck I will pray for you all.
2006-09-13 15:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by cherie118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all, you shouldn't be having sex b/c you're still a kid!!! I know u have a baby but if you don't love your girlfriend, then leave her b/c u need to be happy as well! as for the child, ya'll need to get preternity test. Well i hope this helps. Hopefully you will do the right thing and be happy. Take care of that baby!!!!!
2006-09-13 15:10:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋