I have a group of friends and they ALL have boyfriends or is now talking to a boy and would eventually go out. There are mainly 5 of us. and 2 had boyfriends and the other 2 are talking to boys which would lead to them going out. I still dont have a boyfriend and I feel like an oddball. I like a boy but Im trying to get over him and I dont want him to know that I like him. I never had a kiss yet and Im almost 16. I had boyfriends but we never got to the point to where we kissed. Why is this happening to me? Is something wrong??
2006-09-13 14:58:54 · 12 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not really.. i met my first GF at the age of 20yrs.. i fall in love and started making plans for marriage at 28yrs..
i am not saying you should wait or get laid early.. just telling you, when you fall in love, you love truely..
but that shouldn't stop you from going out hunting..
try group activities like sports, clubs, blogs, church.. etc..
keep your hopes high..
2006-09-13 15:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with you, lots of girls are in your situation, I'm a few months over 15 and I've never had a boyfriend and I'm totally okay with it, you want to be able to look back on your first kiss and have it actually mean something to you, rather than just having it to have it, or having it with a guy you really like at the moment, but in a little bit you realize is a jerk. don't rush into it because your friends have boyfriends/potential boyfriends. you'll get a great guy in time if you're willing to wait for him
2006-09-13 22:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by aneyasong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, nothing is wrong with you. just because you are 16 does not mean you are supposed to have a boyfriend by now and you are supposed to have had at least your first kiss.... so not true. take your time and dont feel rushed or out of place just cuz your friends are dating and you are not. some day there will be a boy who is perfect for you but until then just enjoy being with your friends and enjoy this time in your life!!!
2006-09-13 22:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like you. Then recently I joined a dating service and now all these women are "winking" at me. The irony is just right after I joined I found a real girlfriend in real life just being myself.
So try to find someone who is on your wavelength and don't go for being "little miss popular". You may seem a little lonely now but in the end you will be very happy you passed up that rat race and waited for the right guy (who may be sensitive just like you!).
Best of luck.
2006-09-13 22:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a contest. Boys are not accessories, their human beings. What could be wrong with you is that you spend too much time competing with your friends. Who would want to date someone like that?
2006-09-13 22:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You'll find someone who likes you and who you like as well. I still remember my first kiss, so I'm hoping yours is with someone special.
2006-09-13 22:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by inpoetry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it boys are just trouble. Nothings wrong with you, take your time and enjoy single life. Dating life can be hellish drama.
2006-09-13 22:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss is not a symptom that he is ur boyfren.
Any boy who understands ur feelings and show love and care towards u is a boy fren.
So don't worry...........
2006-09-13 22:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. do not rush!!! or you'll regret. be a good gal and you will meet a perfect one in the future. Trust me!
2006-09-13 22:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you shy give it time 16 is young may you look to good and thy don't know how to ask you out good luck to you
2006-09-13 22:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋