And if you were the one who strayed, did you find yourself being angry at the person you had the affair with, as if they may have been responsible?
2006-09-13 14:52:12 · 4 answers · asked by phil5775 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My man had a affair. Then he tried to blame me and get mad at me. So I put a big dent in his custom painted car.
2006-09-13 15:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by sweetstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did but the only reason i was angry was that i fell for him bad and he said he felt the same way. We have been on again off again for 5 yrs(not proud of that) there is just something about him i can't get over. But then all of a sudden he just stopped calling and when i called him he always wanted to get off the phone. I guess i should have just tossed the idea out yrs ago. It does take two people for an affair but i can see how you might blame the other person only because they are somewhat of a temptation and maybe you were hoping they would be the strong one to put a STOP to it all. Best choice is to stay away then no one feels bad about anything.
2006-09-13 22:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, when i begin to wonder how i had gotten into this mess, i walked by a mirror and looked in and saw the culprit. even though i was pursued by the other person, during a time of very weak emotions, it takes two to tango and i could have been stronger and ran the other way.
2006-09-13 22:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by google 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but it was my fault to. I don't just blame the person I blame both of us b/c it tkes to to have an affair.
2006-09-13 21:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋