I am a successful, young guy and I meet a lot of nice girls out and about either at school, work, or a bar/club scene. If I ever meet a woman who I consider impressive I will ask her if she would like to get together sometime. If she seems hesitant I don't persue but if she is encouraging I will ask for her number. I usually wait a few days, call, leave a voicemail, wait a few days, call, leave a voicemail and then just delete the number. I can not understand why a girl would give me her number if she does not want to talk to me. I am a big boy and all you have to say is no or I'm not intersted etc. DO NOT respond with, well you are probably pushy, or you're creapy on the phone because that is not the case.
The bottom line is I will meet a girl who is making clear signs that she is intersted, but when I call her she doesn't respond. Why?
2006-09-13 15:09:11 · 6 answers · asked by Be nice, or at least funny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's because it was easier for them to give you their number and then ignore the call then to tell you they are not interested to your face.
Maybe it's because they give there phone number out to so many guys they forget who you are when you called.
Maybe it's because they are just ignorant girls who need to grow up.
In the future, I would suggest not waiting a few days before the call and call the next day. It won't make you sound desperate, it will just show her your really interested. If they don't call back, I wouldn't give them a second chance, they are not worth it.
Good Luck!
2006-09-14 00:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer that because if I don't like a guy, I usually just tell him upfront and then get called all kinds of names, but whatever...If I do give a guy my number and am not feeling him after the first conversation, I then stop answering my phone and if he catches me off guard by calling private or from another phone, I usually let him know that I was hoping not to hear from him again...
I'm honest and although it sounds like you respect that, a lot of men say they do and actually don't.
2006-09-13 15:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she acts like woman (stylish, sparkling, opposite of trash, variety of southern belle) then youthful woman, If she acts like a women (smart, mature, stylish, self sustaining) then youthful women.
2016-10-16 00:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... big boy.... u sounds pretty confident young man!
anyway, there lots of reason why women not answering your call... most probably, its just a fling, not string attached, so why borther to entertain some more if you are not extra ordinarily best.... wake up boy....
2006-09-13 15:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by CH 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its just part of the dating scene. its easier for women to
give the number & ignore it then to confront you and say no.
2006-09-13 15:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by don;t know 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you regret giving it out once you have time to think upon it, then you become embarrassed that you didn't answer/return the call so you never do.
2006-09-13 15:11:54 · answer #6 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋