i'm just wondering. don't assume i'm one of the 2 please!
thanks much
2006-09-13 15:02:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No,
My Opinion.
As a person who has personally experienced this....
I feel that it is not okay for friends to have sex.
Too many emotions are tied up into sex.
Once you do something that is so intimate, things are never the same. Especially for someone who respects theirselves and their body.
If that person is truly a friend, why not leave it at that.
You definitely don't want to ruin a good friendship over sex.
Now, if you, or whomever feels like there is more between them and their friend, they need to come together and have a discussion about where their friendship is leading them. You need to find out is there more to your relationship than just friends. If so, build from that point on. If not, why fix or tamper with something when it perfectly find, and not broken.
2006-09-13 15:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by alicianicolemoore 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi..
If there are no "emotional feelings", but purely sexual attractions, some people can manage very well and find such sex fulfilling as long as both parties are open and honest about their feelings towards each other...
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For example : if it begins as purely sexual, but then one person develops an emotional attraction to the other, then it's important to be honest about those feelings.. and decide together whether or not it's a good idea to continue seeing each other... Even then the risk is : that each will person lose the other as a friend, but that doesn't happen to everyone...
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"Don't mess with your "friendship", when there are not any "feelings" between the two of you.... It's like pretending to be a "doctor without having a PhD to back you up"... Leave it alone...
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Thanks, for the question!;)
My regards!
2006-09-13 22:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I suppose it would depend whether or not either one is married, first of all. Secondly, would you really want to jeopardize your friendship with something so fleeting as sex? If neither of these is a concern, then go for it!
2006-09-13 22:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it at all,...but they need to make sure that they don't let it affect the friendship,...that is the most important thing.
2006-09-13 22:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by juslookin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't see nothing wrong with at all in the first place.
2006-09-13 22:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by lilmnhockeyfan2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, as long as they both are in agreement that there are not strings attached.
2006-09-13 22:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is not right to do ur friend
2006-09-13 22:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋