Family & Relationships - 2 August 2006

how many years is the right duration to be dating before getting married??

2006-08-02 05:53:52 · 19 answers · asked by pOpTarT484 1 in Marriage & Divorce

tell me whats in your heads

2006-08-02 05:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by ashten d 1 in Friends

my boyfriend and i have a daughter together but when i give him something that has someting to
with me or his daughter, like i have given him pictures and a ogchain that has the picture of our daughter, he seems to just hide it all... when we leave something in his car he takes it out and makes sure that there is nothing there of hers.. when i confront him about it he says that he doesnt want his coworkers to find out he has a kid bcus they will all start talking **** and that he doesnt like that.

2006-08-02 05:52:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my girlfriend for just over 3 months now, and i love her very much, and i do get the feeling that she loves me back, as she is always complimentary of me, which is odd for me, as i find myself unattractive.

Well, my problem is, she is very close to her best friend, who happens to be a boy, and i cant help but think she is sleeping with him, or something equally monogomous. I just wonder, am i mega paranoid, or should i see something wrong with her spending a lot of time with this other guy.

2006-08-02 05:52:21 · 4 answers · asked by Morritsey 2 in Singles & Dating

Is love when 2 people meet and they're automatically excited about passng on their genes together- they instantly image what their kids are gonna be? Why do we pick a person to fall in love with? Must they be oposite from us- tall vs short, slim vs fat, more education, making more $, etc, etc. Is happiness an individual thing- if so how can we expect another to make us happy and relationships to be happy if love is about passing on your genes. Can you be in love and not desire to make babies with that person? Can love last once the child bearing responsibilities are over? Do we sabotage love when we expect another person to makes us happy?

2006-08-02 05:52:18 · 3 answers · asked by roydono 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 05:51:52 · 25 answers · asked by fireviolet_21 2 in Singles & Dating

Did I hurt his feeling? Am I right or wrong to refuse to have sex with him?

2006-08-02 05:51:27 · 33 answers · asked by Bluesky 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 05:50:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after a divorice why does it take one of the 2 people so long to get over it just a question ive been wondering about?

2006-08-02 05:50:20 · 9 answers · asked by jamescoffman1978 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friends duaghter is 19 and getting married in two weeks. about a week ago she made comments to her friends that she was not sure if she wanted to go through with the wedding but everything was already paid for and ready to go so she doesn't want her mom and dad to loose their money. Her friends told her parents and when her parents asked her about it she denied ever even saying it even after her dad said not to worry about the money. I feel she is not ready for marriage and thinks it's a game of dress up or one big party. What about after the hooneymoon, then what....what do you think?

2006-08-02 05:50:11 · 12 answers · asked by mommyof1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-02 05:50:10 · 5 answers · asked by lawrence 3 in Singles & Dating

confused about me
confused about you
confused about love
and what to do ?
questions in my head ask
why is love so much pain? why does saddness come with rain?
why do
i always feel used
unaswered questions leave me still confused

2006-08-02 05:49:50 · 29 answers · asked by dedenumba1 2 in Singles & Dating

who wants to be my Yahoo! 360 friend?

2006-08-02 05:49:47 · 5 answers · asked by *~* tErrA *~* 3 in Friends

2006-08-02 05:49:35 · 6 answers · asked by fireviolet_21 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 30 year old married man from the UK and for the past couple of years I have felt the need to be dominated by a Mistresses. My wife has made it clear that she isn't interested in this and I'm beginning to get very frustrated.

Is it wrong to want a strong woman to punish, hurt and humiliate you?

So far I have only 'served' Mistresses online via webcam, but I can feel myself moving closer and closer to visiting one in real life. I have found one on a website who is just what I am looking for (older than me, large breasts and cruel) and who lives very close to me.

So my question is - If i visit this Mistress, will this count as cheating on my wife (as there will be no sexual intercourse involved)?

2006-08-02 05:49:32 · 18 answers · asked by Subby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you could only tell someone one VERY IMPORTANT bit of advice, just what exactly would you say?

something that you can hold true to "day-to-day" life??

2006-08-02 05:48:12 · 20 answers · asked by miss me! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My best firend and i have been friends for four years, almost five. Well, when we're together i seem to get most of the attention and she doesn't, and she's even admitted that she tries to impress me because i always look nice and she feels that she doesn't and she thinks that i look better than she does. But i don't treat her as if she's less than me or anything, and it's not like i try to out shine her or anything. What should i do? And please no rude comments...

2006-08-02 05:47:13 · 10 answers · asked by That's_hottt 1 in Friends

Girlfriend is very nice and never interferes with my children and has spoken to my ex-wife on certain items in my absence.

2006-08-02 05:47:07 · 10 answers · asked by prayingangel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, this all started in band, and well i was standing in front of him for marching cause the guard was doing really bad so we get moved to the front of the band. well then he comes up to me and when we are walking into the band room and he says are u gonna be like ur sisters and I said no. well then the next day i get his cell phone number and weve been talkin to each other, and he really likes me, and the sad thing is that he has a gf. but see he sees me more than his own gf! but weve been hanging out and everything he even told me he'll sit with me on the bus to away games and compations and stuff like that. its sad cause i can't get him out of my head and he knos that i like him. but all this week he is with his g.f at the fair. we have rehersal for band next tuesday and thats the only time ill see him from this point on cause i was asked by him and his gf to go to the fair with them and i did. ever since then ive been thinking and im not sure what move i should make next? HELP!

2006-08-02 05:47:05 · 6 answers · asked by chris 1 in Singles & Dating

Right now I have my handsful with my 7 year old son. Out of all my 4 kids I never had much problems with them as my little boy who seems like he is 5 at times.

Many of the times I have to constant watch him and kids his age are calmer and are aloud to go to places on their own like to friends or parks.

Right now I don't feel ready for him Where my son always has to be watched when he plays indoors or outdoors, we do not allow him to go to a friends or to a park himself because of his mean behavior and starting a fight, or getting the neighbor mad because of him yelling a bad word to them as you can see I never get any rest. Even at bedtime I have a hard time. I usually have to shut off all the lights to get him to sleep or he'll be up late then I feel tiered and another busy filled day ahead. But When his father is at home hes a good boy, but with my husbands job, he is not at home much it gets a bit stressful as its hard to find a sitter and a good sitter to handle his behavior too or I will have a neighbour complainging your son did this and that.

And When he plays with other kids including his siblings he is mean and finds it funny and keeps fighting and will not stop. I always have to rescue someone with him trying to lay on them, kick them, jump on them or whatever. He lost friends beacause how he is like. He is nice too but a lot he finds everything funny when he is being mean. I think he has that I am a big boy tough image. I just hope he doesn't turn in to a bully or already is. I am trying very hard to get him out of this or it will be much worst.

I used many methods of discipline like timeouts, groundings, and taking things away. But I always have to battle with him for him to do them like putting him back in his spot and he just becomes meaner with hitting and saying I am not your son anymore or I hate you and I tell him I love you. Sometimes I have to hold him down or he'll hurt someone when he is mad or mad at me hurting a sibling.

I try to keep him busy by doing things but he has a short tension span. I try to read but he doesn't want to listion to the story sometimes. I even make him homemade play dough, taking him to the park, building with him, playing with his cars with him, and just show my full attention to him and sometimes I feel I give him more than my other kids itès a bit of a stressfull situation.

I will say though I try to use a calm voice and don't spank even if it edges me sometimes I try to stay calm. I feel guilty if I do try to spank and could have my neighbor's complain like calling Children Aids and all I am doing is trying my best to control my son. I have tried to spank a few times to see if it helps but all he does is laugh and finds it funny. But I've been thinking of taking him to my family doctor for some advice, maybe he will think I can not handle him but I try my best, but don't want him to go on any meds because of the problems I have heard about them.

This little man sure keeps me busy daily with all his energy.

Is there any suggestions.

2006-08-02 05:46:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, so i was getting my hair done and this guy well this MAN (bout 20 sumthin) was kinda flirting with me, Now i'm justa teen but he doesnt know that (i think) and he invited me to this party. he said he'd love if i would come. but idk cuz ik theres gonna be drinkin and smokin and even when he said that my cousin was like "whoa whoa do uk how old she is?" and asked me how late i was allowed to stay out. idk if i should go.

2006-08-02 05:46:06 · 34 answers · asked by SweetNsour 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

For the past 4 years my friend has been promising me that we will go on holiday and every year she has let me down.. Finally this year we booked a holiday together but it needs to be paid by the end of aug and i dont belive that she will pay it. She has just paid for another holiday who she's going with another friend which she booked after the one she booked with me.. As the hol is booked iin her name do you think its right that i should ask her to pay me my deposit back if we dont end up going.

2006-08-02 05:46:04 · 9 answers · asked by kitty20 1 in Friends

This is the issue, I was engaged, the guy cheated on me, had un- protected sex and know he does not now if she is pregnant. I no longer with him but she keeps calling me to tell she is pregnant, but she does not want to show the results? Could she be bluffing? I told her I would make a police report if she kept calling. And I ask him to tell her to stop. I am stuck in the middle, and he wants me back but he is not sure of her pregnancy!

2006-08-02 05:45:59 · 4 answers · asked by vp 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some of my family members aren't satisfied with MY LIFE so they get angree and report abue. No effidence is ever found and the report is fraudulant. At the same time when my husband and I prove that it is false accusations there are no laws against that crime unless we get a lawyer that we can't afford. What gives when ex-cons or criminals try to place you where they've been. I Aint TRYING TO GO to jail or prison behind their ignorance.

2006-08-02 05:44:59 · 8 answers · asked by Tired of lies 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i are getting into fights a lot and what started with him shoving me and me shoving back now has progressed to slaping one another hard and punching and kicking and me biting. he is a lot like my ex. bf that i still love wich is kinda why i started dating him but now are fights are otta control. even as friends we vented on each other this way. how do we break up or fix this to save our friendship or some sort of relationship. my ex. bf never hit me.i was pregnant by my ex. bf but lost the baby at 5 months.

2006-08-02 05:44:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, this guy likes me and I like him!! But how do I show him, without words? Cuz I don't want to ask him out, I want him to ask me out. But what can I do? [Nothing gross,please]

2006-08-02 05:44:43 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

Its for his birthday, whats a good present?

2006-08-02 05:44:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there's someone from work who i've been interested in for some time. like myself, she's quite shy. i tried every excuse to visit her department so that i could bump into her & talk but usually choked. last year, i finally had the courage to ask her out. unfortunately, she turned me down. though i was torn, i just let it go & left her be. about a week after that, i bumped into her in the cafeteria & we had a little chat. i asked her if she'd be interested to have coffee with me & she said yes. but when i asked her about it a few days later, oddly enough, she said she wasn't interested. i figured that i should just step away & leave her be. i only went to her department if i really had to & tried to stay away from her so that she won't feel threatened. shortly after though, i caught her a few times looking at me at the cafeteria. also, she started having dinner by herself. one of my friends who works with her said that i should go talk to her & try my luck again. should i?

2006-08-02 05:44:28 · 12 answers · asked by hugmeshootme 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a half brother and a dad that left me and my mom intill she died and came back for me and now he married teri-ann my step mother and my half brother moved in with us and will go to collage in three years and now teri-ann had a baby girl snow and is pregant agin with a boy cerease and my grand mother just moved in with us so we moved out of your house and in to a seven bedroom home and now my dad mom and dad just moved in with us how should i deal with this?

2006-08-02 05:44:18 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♫Music Mist♫♥ 3 in Family

2006-08-02 05:42:55 · 28 answers · asked by Keven H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships