Did I hurt his feeling? Am I right or wrong to refuse to have sex with him?
2006-08-02 05:51:27 · 33 answers · asked by Bluesky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a kid, good thing you refused. There are sickos out there BEWARE.
2006-08-02 05:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by just me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's alright, he expressed his interest & u refused there should not be any hard feelings. He shouldn't ask this. & I see many guys propose sex online many as a fun- they don't actually mean it, I guess. If u said yes some time he might tell no no I was kidding like that. These are some ways to make the chat live & many gals desperately like it. Some gals even propose to have cyber sex. when u enter those sites then these are very common
2006-08-02 06:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. Chatting is not dating. It is anonymous talking. You don't know him. His feelings might be hurt but he'll get over it. You were right to refuse sex. You should never agree to sex until you feel absolutely sure that you are ready and a chat partner could be a dangerous choice. He could be a rapist, a serial killer, married, on the down low, etc. BE CAREFUL and trust your intuition. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty about protecting yourself.
2006-08-02 05:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if his feelings are hurt? The point is you don't want to have sex with him, don't feel bad for that. I think its weird that he would ask that without having met you in person or having anything real as far as a relationship. Even though you met him online, he doesn't have the right to be that forward.
2006-08-02 05:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if he was a sincere type person he should have been willing to enter a dating relationship with you first then as it progresses ask for the sex, but not just cause you talked with him 3 months on the net,he probable talked with 300 other girls for 3 months on the net just waiting for who will give in quickly and cheap
2006-08-02 05:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by bearbrown_51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you have done is chat oinline, then you should NEVER get involved physically. Get to know someone first, meet in person to see what this person is really like. Just make sure you meet in a safe and public place (like a coffee shop). If all goes well, then try a kiss first, but make sure he likes you for more than sex.
If you want sex too, that's ok, just make sure he's safe and clean.
2006-08-02 05:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by gigglesticks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you've only known the man for three months AND it has been on line. How do you know if he isn't some rapist, or murderer, or if he has a wife (or more) and kids, or if he has AIDS or something? Do you POSITIVELY know for a fact that he's even who he says he is? And you should NEVEr EVER feel bad for not sleeping with someone. It's you're body and you don't have to give it up to anyone if you don't want to.
-May Christ be with you-
2006-08-02 06:02:04 · answer #7 · answered by That's_hottt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were right to refuse sex..You don't know this man from adam and he could be just wanting to record you ...There are alot of perverts out there so you have to be careful especially on the internet
2006-08-02 05:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have met him and brought a gun and shot him. These f*ckers should die! Trolling around for a piece of @$$. He's probably got aids or herpes. Stop chatting online...there's only trash on yahoo chat and the likes thereof.
I wouldn't worrry about his feelings...I would definately ONLY worry about MY own. Aren't you hurt he doesn't really like you and only chats to you to soften you up to have sex with you?
2006-08-02 06:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. Chatting is not dating. Chatting is not a relationship. He might even be ugly or have bad breath. Meet in a public place. Go on a few dates.
2006-08-02 05:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have chatted with people online for years and never saw the need to ask them for sex... Don't worry about his feelings... Your feelings told you which way to decide... You are perfectly right in your decision...
2006-08-02 05:59:16 · answer #11 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋