My bf and I have been dating for 5.5 yrs...at around our 2.5 year mark we talked about marriage, and he said he was not ready since he just graduated. He told me he wants to secure a job and everything before he is ready. I understood that, and didn't bug him about marriage since, but now 5.5 years later I brought it up again and he says he still isn't ready, he doesn't have enough $. He wants to wait til 2010 to get married...that's almost another 4 years!...So, I said lets get engaged and he said he didn't want to do any such thing! I said if we are engaged, I don't mind waiting 3-4 years, but if he has no intention of marrying me he needs to tell me...and so he said that he know we are gonna be stuck together in the end...so I shouldn't be so worried and all caught up about marriage.
My question is, if a guy loves you, you love him...shouldn't he be happy about wanting to get married and spending the rest of each others lives together?
2006-08-03
23:36:14
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