Hi I am a 15yrs old girl.I am having a friend who is a boy.He is my best friend.From last few months i have started getting feelings of a serious relationship wid him.But i don't know that is it luv or not.Please help me getting out of this problem
2006-08-03 23:57:00 · 18 answers · asked by ishes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
look dear ur have not even crossed 18 years so..plz dont take any stupid steps towards him ...u need to know more about him....u need to educate ur self ..this might t called love my dear but u r too small now ...first be good friends ...know each other more ....understand ..... each other ....and when u feeling that this guy is good and u both understand each other and u both settle ..then u can think for the marriage ..so friend plz learn more and u will find ur life good and happy....I wish u all the very best for ur bright future!!!
2006-08-04 00:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am in the same boat as you but just to let you know from experience dont do anything if you are not sure because then you may be risking the friendship because once you cross that more than friends line its extremely hard and almost impossible to turn back
2006-08-04 10:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by jaz091 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell. Sometimes you're in love with the idea of love. In my experiance, it is good to just be friends with someone for a while before having a relationship with them. I'm married to a girl who was just my friend for a while, and it worked out great.
Look, just be careful. If he loves you, he won't mind if you take it slow. If he rushes you, be careful. Let him know how you feel, but be cautious, and if he can't wait, that's a warning sign.
2006-08-04 07:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to wait a month or so to differentiate if the feelings are relationship love or brotherly love. You are in a very venerable age. To feel love you need to understand it. Love to me is the passion of understanding that nothing in this world matters than the fact that your partner feels the same way you do. You need to ask, if this feelings you are having are worthy risking your friendship?
2006-08-04 07:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now play close attention.
1) Firstly to be in love u have to be over 28 years old
2) Secondly you have to have a car or atleast a bike.
3) you ve got to be working.
4) u shouldnt be living with ur parents.
hope that answers ur question.
2006-08-04 07:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tetragrammaton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweaty, it is just child infatuation. Get rid of it or u will spoil ur life. U need 2 wait 4 more few years.
2006-08-04 07:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by Pichi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r too small for the love stuff. Believe me thats not love. Ths is the age of infatuation and u need to be stable.Dont get into any serious stuffs.Jus be frnds .Believe me it ends in a disater.its not love.......
2006-08-04 07:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it is,then it is.Follow your heart now,and nothing else.That was a qoute from Skynards Simple man Whitch was re-made by shinedown on an old album.Words to live by.
2006-08-04 07:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by xero666x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello. This is only infectuousness. Take care of yourself and your studies. You are on the turning point of your age and dont get astray at this critical age. Good luck
2006-08-04 07:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by Hardil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually in my view to fall in love their is no age,I accept that u r to small try to avid him for some day,if it hurts u so much then I think it is love
2006-08-05 08:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋