A few years back I was told by my boyfriend, future husband that men love differently than women do. That it's all about sex. That is the way men love. Nothing like the way women love with thier heart and souls.I was amaized to stubble on what I thought was the secret that only men knew about on another.....I questioned this information.I found out after being married for 5 years and now getting a divorce from this man, my husband ,who told me this. That this was not how men love. This was how he loved....Please input from the guys...especially
2006-08-03 23:38:54 · 6 answers · asked by Cecilia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm a guy and I can unequivocally tell you that guys (in general) that guys do not love via sex only. Men love to be in love, to be emotional, tell the women they love all sorts of "sappy" things. It's not about the sex it's about the power of being enveloped in something that is impossible to resist. The physical aspect of love is the consummation of everything that you feel together.
I am very sorry about your situation and hope you continue growing . . .
2006-08-03 23:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you were married to a man that didn't know how to love.
Sex to men is very big and important. We cant help this. Men mentally and physically need sex. You can find a lot of articles on this subject and then you might see a males thinking process This doesn't mean he cant love with his heart and soul. All emotions and actions go together with the correct person.
Males need all and if one is missing then all are missing as far as males are concerned. Sex, Heart and Soul, Passion, Love and Etc... are one package and if one is missing then the package is not complete.
When you find your soul mate you will get everything you ever dreamed about and you will get the package. Just remember the packages is made up of many parts and they all work together.
2006-08-04 07:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think more often than not many men do not know the difference between sex and love. But no, when it is true love simply is emotional where sex is physical. Although you can express love through sex the lines are clearly marked. Unfourtunately he was incorrect with his statement of thats how men love.
-NmD!
2006-08-04 06:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all every man do not love for Sex. It is affection because of love that comes sometimes and nothing else.
With regards to your husband he has changed, he has lost interest in youo and 100% he must be looking out for someone else & he is a womeniser, that's all i can say.
Person who do not respect for women, can't love anyone.
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Bye till than
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2006-08-04 08:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by Bala 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
real men know how to treat a woman in my opion?
2006-08-04 06:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ,me......Him.....maybe thats why your ge---g d-----d...sorry...everyone is different,but I am sorry...
2006-08-04 06:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋