Ok, so i was getting my hair done and this guy well this MAN (bout 20 sumthin) was kinda flirting with me, Now i'm justa teen but he doesnt know that (i think) and he invited me to this party. he said he'd love if i would come. but idk cuz ik theres gonna be drinkin and smokin and even when he said that my cousin was like "whoa whoa do uk how old she is?" and asked me how late i was allowed to stay out. idk if i should go.
2006-08-02 05:46:06 · 34 answers · asked by SweetNsour 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
note to ***-holes:
keep your smart remarks to yourself. insulting me isn't going to solve the problem. thanks a million
2006-08-02 06:03:24 · update #1
oh and i wasn't dressing like a hoochie or anything. just a t-shirt and some jean shorts. and half of the time my hair was messed up!
2006-08-02 06:05:51 · update #2
I don't know either a lot depends on my answer first of all you need to tell him how old you really are cuz you don't want to get into trouble when you don't need it trust me it is even worst now than it was when I first started dating 25 years ago and the dangers are worse now please what ever you decide be careful I would recommend you see if you can bring a friend you can trust with you buddy system u know I wish someone had given me this advice 25 years ago or if they did I wish I had listened but be smart and even if you go with out another friend with you take with you a phone (cell) i wish they had those 25 years ago know where you are going take enough money with you for a cab if you are not driving or a number of a friend who can pick you up if things get bad watch your drink at all times don't sit it down for nothing even if you are going to the rest room date drug dose exist!!!!! don't be afraid to tell the man that you change your mind and want to go home even a few minutes after getting there or even on the way listen to your inner voice it dose usually know the right thing even if it seems like less fun it may just save your life I was almost raped twice but my inner voice and adrenaline saved me (the flee or fight syndrome) give you the strenght to fight off an attacker and then run or just run! it has spared me twice but why put your self in to harms way in the first place!!! just please be careful I don't want you to become another victum!!!
2006-08-02 06:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by mel416 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a legal teen go and take protection(know how to defend yourself), cell phone, two dollars in change(for a pay phone) don't drink be on guard but not so much that you don't have fun. If you're not 17 or older don't go and stop wearing provocative clothing. Majority of the men in society today go by expressions and react to the way you present yourself. Not saying he's right, but some women look older than they are and you can prevent this attraction. You can be a lady and not dress revealing and be respected or the unsophisticated and uneducated male will over look your age and view you as an easy tramp.
2006-08-02 06:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely go. If you are already a teen the drinking and smoking shouldn't be anything new to you. Just remember to keep the number of guy at the party you have sex with to a minimum.
2006-08-02 05:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by pablo h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't go, especially since there's going to be drinking and smoking. There are some situation that you shouldn't be involved with and this is one of them. Plus the guy is 20 some'. Even if you don't want to admit it he will eventually want sex from you and nothing more....
Don't go to that party. Knowing what you know about the guy and what may happen at the party, ask yourself if your parents would want you to go.
-May Christ be with you-
2006-08-02 05:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by That's_hottt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful! If you are under eighteen you could get into big trouble and the guy even bigger trouble. Do you know older guys with bad morals like to take advantage of boy crazy teenage girls?
If you go out with him you're in danger of becoming a date rape victim!
Hang out with guys your age! If say you're fifteen only hang out with and go out with guys your age or one year up only. Better yet, if you're fifteen only go out in groups of friends. No couple dating until you're at least sixteen or seventeen.
You need to concentrate on your education, not boyfriends! You have lots of time for boyfriends anyway!
2006-08-02 05:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by WhatAmI? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be a trouble maker that goes no where in life then go. Because that situation has trouble written all over it. Smoking and drinking aint all its cracked up to be. And if this guy has any clue he will ask you age before he tries to rape you
2006-08-02 05:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go. If your feeling iffy about it, go with your gut. Stay home, catch up your fav tv show, work out... do something else. MOST times being a kid is way better than pretending to be an adult. Good luck.
2006-08-02 05:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound too young to be exposed to the real world.
Don't go. I know u'll kindda regret it since u (if i'm not wrong), like the attention given by that guy & he got u rather hot & bothered but... you might end up having unwanted sex or doing stuffs that would cheapen ur life.
Wait till u're older, your time will come kay?
Stay home!
2006-08-02 05:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by excusememiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very bad idea for you to go this party. You are too young for alcohol. Marijuana is illegal. The two together could seriously compromise your judgement. You could wind up doing some things you'll regret later.
Stay safe!
2006-08-02 05:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are under 18...you need to stay home. You could be putting yourself in danger, this guy may be a pervert...and you never know if the cops are gonna bust in on all this smoking and drinking.
2006-08-02 05:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by whoanelly00 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋