I have been with my girlfriend for just over 3 months now, and i love her very much, and i do get the feeling that she loves me back, as she is always complimentary of me, which is odd for me, as i find myself unattractive.
Well, my problem is, she is very close to her best friend, who happens to be a boy, and i cant help but think she is sleeping with him, or something equally monogomous. I just wonder, am i mega paranoid, or should i see something wrong with her spending a lot of time with this other guy.
2006-08-02 05:52:21 · 4 answers · asked by Morritsey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, i do trust my girlfriend, i just dont trust the guy she hangs around with.
2006-08-02 06:10:39 · update #1
i am a very jealous girl. if i c my bf with a girl i automaticaly blow up. u rnt paranoid, but the only tthing u can do is trust her.
2006-08-02 06:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup! you're mega paranoid..... and mega insecure....
try to think why does your gf choose you to be your bf even if you're not attractive?
1) because she likes her bestfriend and she wants to know if he'll (bestfriend) get jealous when he found out that she's taken (this is a negative response to make you double mega paranoid and insecure... heheh... yeah i know i am bad!)
or
2) because there's something in your personality that makes you more loveable and attractive even though you think you're not. (positive response to gain you more confidence)
list all possible negative or positive answers.
if you dont trust your gf's bestfriend then dont trust your gf.....
2006-08-02 07:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by garre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got two words for ya! Trust and communication.
2006-08-02 05:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if she spends more time with him then you then you should worry
2006-08-02 05:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋