my boyfriend and i have a daughter together but when i give him something that has someting to
with me or his daughter, like i have given him pictures and a ogchain that has the picture of our daughter, he seems to just hide it all... when we leave something in his car he takes it out and makes sure that there is nothing there of hers.. when i confront him about it he says that he doesnt want his coworkers to find out he has a kid bcus they will all start talking **** and that he doesnt like that.
2006-08-02 05:52:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he's man enough to help procreate, he should be man enough to own up to it. It sounds like he is either ashamed of your daughter or he's hiding the fact he has one from another baby's Momma! The line about the co-workers is so lame. I can't believe he expects you to swallow that one. Why don't you ask him about health insurance on your child? Tell him he NEEDS to speak to someone in Human Resources at his job regarding insurance for your baby! This ought to set him back a step or two, Or just tell him YOU called about insurance. See how many shades of color he turns. You'll know the answer. I think you already know.
I wish you and your baby girl the best, and that's NOT him.
Regards,
Raylene♥
2006-08-02 06:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Raylene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating? Girl, how can he be "cheating" if he's not committed to the relationship in the first place. He's just leading the life he wants, and doesn't sound like you're part of it. Wake up; you're holding on to a man who clearly feels he's single. And yes, he probably does sleep with other women when he gets a chance... This is what young single guys do.
2006-08-02 13:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to mark him with photos of you and the daughter? Why not put a ball and chain around his neck? He's clearly not that interested in being tied down or a Dad. He may not be cheating, but he sure wants to be able to if he gets the opportunity.
2006-08-02 13:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, If you have a sense (and you do) what he is hiding things about himself.. You are right. Women's intuition is stronger then anything. He is defintely not being truthful with you. It sounds very hurtful what he is doing. You have reason to wonder.. You are hearing excuses. I am sorry.. YOu deserve better becasue you wouldn't do that to him. THere is nothing you can do to change him.. believe me. Call him on it, and set some boundaries. If he tells you that you are crazy or discounts you and does not show true concern for your feelings, you are dealing with a selfish abusive man.
2006-08-02 13:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by enquiring mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the one answer-er....show up at this bum's work with the baby!!!!!!!!!! That will teach this a$$ a lesson. Yes, he is HIDING you're existance purposfully for a REASON!!!!! Men are hardly EVER into little details like small baby toys laying on the back seat of thier car and things like that.....this guy is a sneaky bastard....BUST HIM, AND MOVE ON!!!!
2006-08-02 13:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He is cheating. He has a double life. How sad. I wish you luck. Milk him for all he has got. Take it to court, get child support and guess what? If he dont pay then it comes straight from his pay and then his job will know. Good luck. Be strong.
2006-08-02 13:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's cheating. In my opinion it's ok if he's ashamed of you, (thats between you and him) but if he's ashamed of his own child, he's a real CUN+ and I agree with that other person, show up at his work with your kid. ONLY to tell him your'e leaving!
2006-08-02 13:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has major problems when he is hiding his daughter, I think it is a women he is trying to hide you guys from. Why would he try to hide her he should be proud of her. Unless he is seeing an other women and is trying to be Mr. Savvy.
2006-08-02 13:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is saying that he is ashamed of his daughter but, that makes him a bad Dad-not a cheater.
2006-08-02 14:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Colleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope-he lying to u! hes hiding all your things bc hes either embarassed of you two(which if thats the case you dont nned him anyway) or theres someone coming around that knows nothing about you and your baby and he wants it to stay like that. he sounds like a real immature litte punk sweety.
2006-08-02 12:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by iluvyewmore24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋