Girlfriend is very nice and never interferes with my children and has spoken to my ex-wife on certain items in my absence.
2006-08-02 05:47:07 · 10 answers · asked by prayingangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well this is your sons special day, so I would respect his wishes. I am sure your girlfriend is nice and means no harm, but it would probably be best she not go in the first place. She will only feel unwelcoming vibes if you insist that she goes, not necessarily from the ex-wife and the kids, but from others who don't know the
situation at hand.
I am sure your son is aware of the possible tension that could be in the air, so he figures it would be best not to invite your girlfriend. So as hard as it is, I know, respect his wishes because no one wants tension on their wedding day. It is already a stressful/beautiful day and the last thing you want to do is add to the stress.
Don't Live Life In The Dark,
Master Psychic Rachel
2006-08-02 06:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is your son's wedding. Plus it is not cool to bring a girlfriend to a wedding if your ex-wife is there even if they get a long. Just respect your son wishes. He just needs time to tolerate your girlfriend.
2006-08-02 05:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by catmenacestop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either respect your son's wishes or don't go it's that simple . She is just a girlfriend he is your son his feelings should come first and if she can't be understanding of that then maybe you need a new girlfriend. Many children feel that only their real mother and father should share their special day with them.
2006-08-02 05:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your son and your ex-wife. It's his wedding, so if he insists she not be there, you must adhere to his wishes. But you don't necessarily have to be there or give financial support to the event either.
2006-08-02 05:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is HIS wedding and you should allow it to be the way he wants it. I am sure your girlfriend will understand and if she doesn't then you need to really look at your relationship.
2006-08-02 05:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by willinkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in love w /gf then have a talk w /ex see if she minds depending on her answer then you askl her if she minds (the ex) if you,the ex, gf, and son sit down and talk about it.
2006-08-02 06:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by crysram27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it is his wedding day i would respect his wishes,but you definitely need to talk to him, i don't agree with him and this could lead to him not wanting your girlfriend at other special occasions and it's not fair to her.
2006-08-02 05:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by klpurplehaze1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your son and find out whats on is mind
2006-08-02 05:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does your gf get along with your ex and does your son know
if they don't get along respect your sons wishes
2006-08-02 05:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by pighunter1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your kid, too bad son, she's a part of my life now and where I go she goes
2006-08-02 05:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by bearbrown_51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋