This is the issue, I was engaged, the guy cheated on me, had un- protected sex and know he does not now if she is pregnant. I no longer with him but she keeps calling me to tell she is pregnant, but she does not want to show the results? Could she be bluffing? I told her I would make a police report if she kept calling. And I ask him to tell her to stop. I am stuck in the middle, and he wants me back but he is not sure of her pregnancy!
2006-08-02 05:45:59 · 4 answers · asked by vp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, I am a big sucker, I do love him, we have been together for 5 years I know his family he was living with me. Now I am all confused. He f*** with my mine big time!
2006-08-02 06:48:07 · update #1
Obviuosly if he cheated on you your relationship needs a little time to heal, the other girl will if pregnant show in time you can't hide it forever.. SO LAY back and wait.
2006-08-02 05:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Eva A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i went through a similar situation. My best advice would be to let it all go. Screw him for being a bastard and screw the slut for being alive. If her calling you is an issue, just change your number. You really need not talk to him anymore. He made the choice to sleep with her, now he is on his own. He's a big boy, he can handle it. He just wants your help, but he doesn't diserve it. He doesn't have any respect for you. Move on. If they harass you then call the cops. Easy as can be.
2006-08-02 12:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Noah's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1, don't take him back, you deserve better. Number 2, file a police report for harrassment. If she IS pregnant, it's his problem, not yours. If she has his baby, she can go after HIM for child support, not you. If he wont pay until he get a test to prove it's his baby, let her take him to court, they will require a paternity test.
2006-08-02 12:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by PiccChick12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him to sort his own bullshit out, tell her it's not your issue, take it up with him. If she continues then file harrassment complaint on her. Be happy you left him, he's a jerk. Life will bite him.
2006-08-02 12:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Ms CMP5260 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋