Family & Relationships - 2 August 2006

I have recently become very dissatisfied with the sexual aspect of my marriage. Now, I love my wife of ten + years but, she just does not have the drive to keep up with me. And when I say drive...it is more like a slow stroll that I am asking for, and I get a crippling uphill walk. I mean, I am talking once a month if I am lucky, more usual to be once every six or eight weeks. Anyways, I have considered meeting a woman for on the side action to help me stay satisfied. I know that it is wrong morally, but I wanted to hear some feedback from some women. And to be clear, I have no intentions on changing my situation. I would only meet someone if we are both in agreement that it would be a no strings attached encounter ONLY. Serious answers only please!!!

2006-08-02 05:29:04 · 22 answers · asked by like to look ;) 1 in Singles & Dating

Two months ago, I told my husband I wanted a divorce. The children, both grown, reacted very poorly and he was devastated. Have held off, hoping things would get better. He has some control and verbal abuse issues. He is bouncing between threats with the children, money, friends, to uncontolllable crying, begging me to stay and work it out. The other night at three in the morning he would not leave me alone, was following me all over the house to "talk" with me. Which means threats one minute followed by pleading the next. Finances are not a problem, make enough to take care of myself. Just worried about the kids adn destroying his life. How do you just do what is right for you without worrying about the others it involves? I cant seem to be able to leave, knowing what it will do to him, and not knowing what he might say or do to the kids ormy busines (I own my own retail store). Any advice would be appreciated.

2006-08-02 05:28:20 · 25 answers · asked by ready4change 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi I have a question about what I should do about my step mother.
I am currently living with my father after I left my ex husband. And he has a new wife. And two kids My step sister who is 22 my step brother who is 18.

I found out that my step sister is jealouse of me but has no reason to be, seeing the fact that she has had the same oppertunity as me, to change her life,but chose not to.

Then there is my step mom, who just about every day ask me not to say anything to my dad about what step brother does or what she says. She says to me "You know it will just upset your dad if he new." This includes my step bro smoking pot, and having like five or six people in the back yard smoking pot with him.

But I had my ex. which my father hates, come over and smoke a cigaret in the back yard, so we could keep an eye on our 9 month old daughter.
But she came home and didn't notice him there, but yet I had the respect to go inside and tell her, and the respect to apologize as well.

2006-08-02 05:28:02 · 2 answers · asked by Tara S 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 05:27:33 · 7 answers · asked by trini 1 in Singles & Dating

HE IS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SEXY AND HIS SONG (VIDEO) SAY GOODBYE WAS SO SWEET BUT U ALL KNOW WHO HE MADE THAT SONG FOR ALL OF U BC HE IS MY BABY ANYWAY.......................................JUST WANTTED TO SAY GIRLS STAY AWAY:) THANX GIRLS

2006-08-02 05:27:25 · 3 answers · asked by jessica alba 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 05:26:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you no what im talking about

2006-08-02 05:26:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if there was no such thing as sex?

I know I wouldn't, but that's just me.

2006-08-02 05:26:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 05:26:08 · 4 answers · asked by SHAY C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in love with My best friend, (She's a girl, I'm a guy). Recently we kissed when we were drunk together, but she told me the next day that we should go about it acting like it didnt happen. I finally talked to her and told her that I liked her, but she told me she didnt have the same feelings about me. Ultimately, I want to know how to get her to like me, but I know that is not possible. I want to know why. She wouldn't give me a reason, but I think there is always at least one reason.
Ladies, you can prob not pick out the reason, but is it possible that the "feelings" are just not there, but i have every other quality that she would like, or is it that she is not telling me something (i.e. shes not attracted to me, or she doesn't like a personality trait, etc.)

2006-08-02 05:25:00 · 12 answers · asked by Love help 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 05:23:57 · 11 answers · asked by bluesky 1 in Friends

we were coming home from a class field trip. i was singing a song under my breath. and i felt someone staring at me from behind. i sideways glanced back and saw him. he was staring from like 3 minutes. whats up. his gf was sleeping.

2006-08-02 05:23:01 · 7 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Friends

the foundation on which love can be built?

2006-08-02 05:22:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I actually witnessed a ghost in my own home on more then one occaisions. can someone help me, i dont know much about that stuff.

2006-08-02 05:22:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if there is somthing I want to save or I enjoy eating, everytime my fiancee gets to it first. even if i buy alot he will eat it all.

He always said he did not like hummus, untill i bought some and put it in the fridge, couldn't wait until I got home one day cause i was craving it, any way, he ate it all. So this time I bought spinich/artichoke flavor (yummy) cause he won't go anywhere near anything with spinich in it. LOL

2006-08-02 05:22:33 · 4 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4 in Family

By forcing I mean to use my size advantage to hold her while I begin to touch her. Holding her in the bed while I touch and try to please her. She seems to enjoy sex once I finally convince her, but i am getting tired of having to beg and plead before we have intercourse. She almost always climaxes when we make love, I just hate only having sex once every two months or when ever I finally beg enough. I am tired of this and will look else where for my needs if I can't convince her that I have needs that need to be met.

2006-08-02 05:21:59 · 49 answers · asked by easygoinguy1968 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently become very dissatisfied with the sexual aspect of my marriage. Now, I love my wife of ten + years but, she just does not have the drive to keep up with me. And when I say drive...it is more like a slow stroll that I am asking for, and I get a crippling uphill walk. I mean, I am talking once a month if I am lucky, more usual to be once every six or eight weeks. Anyways, I have considered meeting a woman for on the side action to help me stay satisfied. I know that it is wrong morally, but I wanted to hear some feedback from some women. And to be clear, I have no intentions on changing my situation. I would only meet someone if we are both in agreement that it would be a no strings attached encounter ONLY. Serious answers only please!!!

2006-08-02 05:21:51 · 26 answers · asked by like to look ;) 1 in Marriage & Divorce

time is moving

2006-08-02 05:20:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how do you set up a chat line??? to make money?

2006-08-02 05:19:53 · 6 answers · asked by mary 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex is trying for custody and my current husband's ex is trying for custody sametime. They are calling each other and going to the lawyers together in order to attack at the same time.
This has nothing to do with the children but has everything to do with the fact that my relationship with my current husband started as an affair during both of our previous marriages.
How do we make the judge aware of this and connect the two cases before a full blown custody hearing?

2006-08-02 05:19:13 · 3 answers · asked by Help Us 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-02 05:18:27 · 6 answers · asked by always thinkin 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you like anal sex? i have heard women say it's just great... but i think it hurts.... and i have had someone tell me that if you let a guy finger you and then put a finger in your butt, that you will go harder than ever? is this true??????

2006-08-02 05:18:24 · 8 answers · asked by amz1984 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like life is too short to be coy but I never get very good responses from men when I'm just honest about what I'm thinking or feeling. Why is that? It seems like men don't want to know the real woman. I know a lot of women who really put on an act with men and men seem to love it but if they knew the way these women really are they'd be horrified.

2006-08-02 05:18:16 · 5 answers · asked by GirlfromUncle 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf was divorced with 2 sons by the age of 21. His ex wife got custody, he got visitation. 4 yrs ago he met me & was upfront about his past. I don't want kids of my own & told my bf this, but we did things w/ his kids. A yr after we met, his ex wanted him back. She called his mom & told her that the kids really need him. My bf's mom told him to get back with his ex or move out. His mom & ex were directly mean & hurtful to me. My bf moved in with me. His ex wouldn't let him see his sons for a while cuz she was pissed. I made it clear that I'd pay rent and bills, but his child support was his responsibility. Then my bf got laid off & then he got real sick w/ no medical insurance. I helped with the medical bills but he got behind on his child support & lost his drivers liscence. He's trying to get it back but the only way he can see his kids is if I drive. No one else will take him & if I try to avoid the situation then his family says I hate his kids. I just don't want to see his ex.

2006-08-02 05:17:53 · 9 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay i'm a girl. sometimes i kindda find myself looking at girls butts, but the thing is i'm straight. and a couple of years i've had sex w/ girl. the thing is i like guys too. but no one knows that i'm in love with girls! help?

2006-08-02 05:17:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anissa J 1 in Singles & Dating

he always plays basketball and i also like basketball and i don't know his name. Our dads are friends but he might move so i need to talk to him before he moves

2006-08-02 05:17:15 · 2 answers · asked by **miss double aa double jj** 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy I know from college. He is really shy in person. I used to flirt with him online when I first started talking to him but I thought I scarred him off because he didn't flirt much back. Lately he's been talking more to me online. He was blantantly flirting with me online the other night (it kinda came out of nowhere) but immediately after said that he had a girlfriend but if he didn't then something would happen (i dont know exactely what he meant). I was kinda confused by this. What do you think I should do? Why do you think he did what he did? I think I'd be good for him because we have a lot in common. How should I tackle this one?

2006-08-02 05:16:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 05:15:49 · 27 answers · asked by xXGeegirlXx 2 in Friends

I have never been the type to LOOK for love or go back to an old love. I am most recently single. It's only been 3 weeks. The day after my break up I was set on just doing me until I literally ran into a High School Love the next day while out to lunch. My horoscope even said "You will run into someone from your past but don't be too quick to let them pass you by." I couldn't imagine who I could run into until...

This isn't the first time either. We have ran into each other over 3 times since school but had different interests at the time. Well he is back but this time a Grown A$$ Man and I can't believe how well we are hitting it off and I can't say it is only good now 'cause it's the beginning because it really isn't for us. I know people change sometimes for the good and sometimes for the bad. In our case I know I have grown into a strong woman and he sure as Hell has grown into an amazing MAN....But will it work? Our signs conflict. What can I do to make it work? Help!!

2006-08-02 05:15:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with my boyfriend for three years and I know he's cheating. I've found numbers and heard him on the phone but I can let him go. He is gorgeous and I didn't diserve him in the first place. He hasn't come to me and said he wants to break up so should I just let him do what he wants. I'll never find anyone as cute as him that would fall for me again. Should I hold on?

2006-08-02 05:15:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating