I've been with my boyfriend for three years and I know he's cheating. I've found numbers and heard him on the phone but I can let him go. He is gorgeous and I didn't diserve him in the first place. He hasn't come to me and said he wants to break up so should I just let him do what he wants. I'll never find anyone as cute as him that would fall for me again. Should I hold on?
2006-08-02 05:15:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry to say this but you are pretty childish. If he cheats now, he can cheats the next time again because you allowed him to do so and you don't mind.
He is not the last man living in the world. You should move on without him
2006-08-02 05:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by prawn_headed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweeite, you need to leave him and sing urself up for a self-esteem class. I dont care how fly, gorgeous or hansome a guy is.... no one is better than you! If you know he's cheating why continue to suffer? Who is to say that you missed the opportunity to meet a real man that is handsome and love you and respects you, just because you decided to put up with infidelity.
If he doesn't want to be with you, then why waste eachother's time? You need to set him loose, and you'll see how many gorgeous men will come falling at your feet. Give yourself some credit... he may be cute, but that doesnt change the fact that he's an ****** for disrespecting you, and a jerk for doing the same to other girls.
2006-08-02 05:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn how to respect yourself more and develop your self confidence. It's not ok that he is cheating on you. You have turned into a doormat and unless you change your mindset you're going to let men walk all over you for the rest of your life.
A guy being cute is never a reason to stay together, especially when he's treating the relationship and you with disrespect.
You should seriously consider getting yourself into counseling to work on your self esteem and self worth...
And if you're both serious about making your relationship work, you're going to have to be a lot more open with each other. I'm not sure if he so blatently cheating on you, if you're ever going to be able to trust him. It sounds to me like you should dump him and donate the time to working on yourself.
2006-08-02 05:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Severina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you do. You have to remember that if someone is willing to cheat on you then their feelings for you might not be as deep as you have for them. You say that he is gorgeous and you didn't deserve him but if he is cheating on you then he doesn't deserve you. You shouldn't let him do what he wants. You should move on with your life there is plenty of other fish in the sea.
2006-08-02 05:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to build some confidence. It is he that doesn't deserve you. I bet if you dump him you will find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve. He might even wise up and change (doubt it, but never know) You need to understand you are a wonderful person and you will find someone that will treat you better. Never think that you aren't good enough or that you don't deserve someone, you really need to work on confidence. Remember this guy doesn't deserve to be with sexy, hot, beautiful you. You are the one that deserves better.
2006-08-02 05:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by blonde0001-999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ddump that bastart and look up. You dont know your self worth girl! Every girl is entitle to a faithful loving man...and I promise you WILL find a man that gorgeous again. Is he the only man you find hot? now seriously....you know theres plenty of great men out there...and if you got a man that hot to begin with, why couldnt you do it again?? You can!!! The longer you stay with him the more youll be torn up inside...The man who makes you cry is not worth crying over, the man who is worth crying over wont make you cry.
Rediscover who you are, I dont even know you, but I know youre worht more then haveing an unfaithful man. You dont deserve him? Thats *****.e.d up you would say that!!! He not worth YOU.
Da.mn girl, look deep inside
2006-08-02 05:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by flyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.k. you're basing your happiness on looks? Looks can fade with time. It also sound like you have low self esteem. To assume that your not deserving of this guy is a ridiculous statement to make. Why torture yourself with a guy who evidently doesn't give two hoops in hell for you? Lose the guy and gain your respect back.
2006-08-02 05:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want someone for looks, then you're going to live a long, sad life. Find someone who treats you with respect. We all deserve that. What did you do to not deserve him? Sounds like you may have a self esteem issue.
2006-08-02 05:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has obviously not "fell for you" or he wouldn't heat.You have a very low self esteem to think no one else wold want you.you already no you need to leave him,you just need to get the courage.Looks shouldn't matter that much.You are being treated like sh*t,therefore you feel like sh*t.get away from this "man" . You deserve to be treated right.Keep assuring yourself of that too.you are better than that.you demand to be treated right.you are a lady,leave with your dignity,and if you need to talk I'm a great listener.
2006-08-02 05:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by chays 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help with your sel-image. this shows by your statement that you didn't deserve him in the first place. also you are too hooked up on having a good looking boyfriend. what's the point on having a boyfriend who abuses you? get some help on your self-image, get rid of him, focus on qualities other than a person's looks and find someone who appreciates you for you.
2006-08-02 05:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋