okay i'm a girl. sometimes i kindda find myself looking at girls butts, but the thing is i'm straight. and a couple of years i've had sex w/ girl. the thing is i like guys too. but no one knows that i'm in love with girls! help?
2006-08-02 05:17:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anissa J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all girls are bi, thats my theory
2006-08-02 05:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yes, you already answered your question... You are "in love with girls" as you stated. Every girl looks at other girls butts sometimes out of shock because their butt is huge or in disgust because their butts look like cottage cheese and hamburger buns stuffed inside their pants and they feel like barfing... lol lol lol.. Point is it's normal for girls to observe each other, we do it all the time involuntarily. And we as human beings tend to experiment to find out what we like. Or we set ourselves automatically to being attracted to the opposite sex. Like me and my boyfriend, been together for 7months going on 8...and I couldn't be any happier... I choose not to experiment.. because I found someone special and I know for a fact I can't be in love with another female like that!!! So yes, you are a bi-sexual... But when you find that feeling for a guy or girl like how I feel about my boyfriend.... then that's when you know what you like... But until that time, hey!!! Experiment away!!! Because you only live once right!! lol It's fine though, being bi is no biggy!!! I have plenty of cool friends that are bi, gay, lesbian.... And they're great prideful people!! So don't be ashamed!! Laterz homie!!!
2006-08-02 05:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to check out other females when you're a female. Some reasons you might find yourself scoping another woman:
You wish you looked like her, or were dressed like her.
You might find her sexy in some way (which is normal).
It's all normal human reaction to find a person of the same (or opposite) sex attractive. Attractive meaning YOU find something attractive about them. It can be the shape of their legs, butt, their face, an awesome smile, their scent or perfume/colonge, their clothing, their attitude, their hair, hands, breasts, chest, hips, etc.
A person is like artwork, and you don't care if it was a man or woman who painted something beautiful. You simply just admire the art for its beauty. *winks*
I'm bi, I don't flaunt it but I don't hide it (because it's just so obvious anyway). I don't bring it up around certain people (like my grandmother) out of respect, and understanding that her generation might be a lot more confused or disgusted by anything other than hetrosexuals.
The only people who truly need to know about your sexual likes or orientation, is the person you have in your bed. So, don't worry about liking females, or sleeping with them. However, female on female lovers still need to practice safe sex (no exchange of any body fluids) to lower your risk of getting HIV or any STDs.
Also, just because you might be bi-sexual, it doesn't give you a free pass to sleep with a lot of women or men. You should still use common sense, sane, safe, and consentual morals. In the bi community, you can still get a bad rep for being to easy or someone who can't stay in a serious relationship.
You also aren't bi unless you sleep with the same sex, and the opposite sex. Saying that you would, or would like to sleep with another woman doesn't make you bi. It makes you bi-curious. (very natural to go through in certain stages or ages of your life by the way).
I think you said that you were having sex with another female for a few years, if that's the case you're bi. Alot of bi sexual girls prefer the girl for the bedroom only, but like to sleep with AND date the male. Technically you're bi then, but more like a closet bi who just likes free sex. Free as in the sense that if it feels good, you're going to do it. No matter who or what it's with.
Myself, I've never *dated* a female, but I've had a best friend who was also my female bedroom play partner. I've also had sex (not love making - huge difference) with other females, but they were for the bedroom only. Not for dating, love, or tender moments like you have with a man. I'd like to think I'm more a tri-sexual anyway lol Tri-anything once.
2006-08-02 05:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Inked Fantasy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you had sex with a girl, then that's a bi thing or a lesbian thing, are you sure you're really straight? I don't think so, no need to ask questions
2006-08-02 05:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by vixen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is definately bi sexual if you find yourself wnating or doing things with women while still wanting and doing things with guys. There is nothing wrond with that. Expeimentation is the only way to figure out what it is that you really want
2006-08-02 05:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-02 05:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Veronica M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you kind of answered yourself. "no one knows that i'm in love with girls!" Kind of says that you do like girls too. If all else fails you could be bi-curious..
2006-08-02 05:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like ur bi but its no biggie...just have fun and enjoy life....there is nothin wrong with liking girls and guys becuz i do to..u dont have to tell ne1 if u dont want to either...or if u just want to tell ppl u trust not to spread anything....thats what i do....i just tell ppl i can trust not to say anythin or make fun of me....cant help it...so just have fun! and i also agree with CHERLY...expiriment is alos another way to find out. u could just be bi-courious.
2006-08-02 05:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by tupacamarushakur7196 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're bi. Being bisexual is having a sexual attraction to both female & male and you definitely do.
2006-08-02 05:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This type is called unisex. so what u need to do is look both the guys and gals. all the best unisex baby
2006-08-02 05:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by jaishankar4202002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl you like,contact me, we will all get together. Then we will see what you prefer.
2006-08-02 05:24:37 · answer #11 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋