My ex is trying for custody and my current husband's ex is trying for custody sametime. They are calling each other and going to the lawyers together in order to attack at the same time.
This has nothing to do with the children but has everything to do with the fact that my relationship with my current husband started as an affair during both of our previous marriages.
How do we make the judge aware of this and connect the two cases before a full blown custody hearing?
2006-08-02 05:19:13 · 3 answers · asked by Help Us 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your attorney i am sure this is more common then you would think your ex's are still feeling hurt and betrayed by your affair so I'm sure you can understand why they would band together to get even however custody of a child isn't granted due to Fidelity it's based on who can better care for the child and in most states the mother is more likely to retain custody. Make sure your attorney knows all the details and i am sure it will help you.. good luck
2006-08-02 05:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your lawyers and if i were you and your husbands ex was trying to take my child i would do one of two things be polite about it an get a restraining oder on her or do it the way i was reaised two do it and kick her ***!!!! but that wont look good in court and you should probably get a restraining oder on her *** but for every thing else you should counult your lawyer if he aint got great awnsers fire his ***....well i hope you get custody of your child an your ex and his ex get there asses beat =) ok well bye bye
2006-08-02 12:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is some interesting info on child custody
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2006-08-04 17:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋