Family & Relationships - 13 July 2006

I've liked this guy for several years now. We're "friends" but it's a weird relationship. We met when I was in 6th gr. and he was a freshman in H.S. We'd talk on the bus everyday and sometimes on the phone but never really "hung out" in the first 2 years that we knew each other. The next year he drove to school every day and I didn't see him but we occasionaly talked on the phone and he stopped by a few times to talk to me. He's helped me through some really rough times. Last year I was a freshman and he was a senior in the same school, however, we've barely talked. Lately he'll send me a text or an email and then I'll hear nothing again for long periods of time. When he does contact me things are like normal again but then he flirts with me and starts making me wonder if maybe he really does like me? (I told him once, 2 years ago how felt) In one of his recent emails he told me he is going out of state for school. So the ultimate question - how do i go about saying goodbye

2006-07-13 05:15:46 · 21 answers · asked by savexmyxmemory 1 in Singles & Dating

I do mean about beauty spot not as tool of sexual pleasure.

2006-07-13 05:15:35 · 8 answers · asked by deekay 1 in Weddings

someone keeps reporting me over and over again fo no reason. i don't ask any stupid or sexual question, but still it happens. i want to know what i can do to stop it??? i hope this is a question that i won't get reported for.

2006-07-13 05:15:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what d u do when u love someone and your friends know he aint good for u? to me jes the bestg thing in my life?

2006-07-13 05:15:01 · 28 answers · asked by blondebirdcrazy 3 in Singles & Dating

Lately my friends and boyfriend have been arguing alot and he has said some really nasty things to them. Feeling stuck in the middle i tried not to get involved but that made matters worse as my best friend got really upset about it because i apparently didn't stick up for her. Now all my friends are annoyed with me and aren't talking to me and i don't know what to do. They said that if they had a BF that said stuff like that to there mates they would dump him. I really like my BF and don't want to lose him but i don't want to lose my friends either. My friends have been talking about me behind my back and saying that i'm not sticking up for them but i always tell my BF to stop being lame abd was really annoyed with him but he won't say sorry because hes stubborn. I really don't know what to do because i want my friends back but don't want to lose my boyfriend. Please please help :(

2006-07-13 05:14:48 · 16 answers · asked by PinkBunny<3 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 05:14:31 · 1 answers · asked by estebandiatao 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-13 05:13:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my cousins Ive seen for the first time in my life (im 18 years old) are very hot. Is this right or wrong?

2006-07-13 05:13:49 · 20 answers · asked by john 4 in Friends

I'm not married but i sure do hear alot of horror storys,"is it that bad".I want to be married everyone says it's the biggest mistake i'll ever make.I know some of these answer will say 'i don't regret being married".Or my husband or wife is the best thing that has ever happened to me.I'm not stupid nothing is perfect.So once again i ask,,,What is the biggest regret you have of being married?

2006-07-13 05:13:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-13 05:12:31 · 3 answers · asked by Jason H 1 in Friends

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I just started talking to this woman who is divorced. I'm separated and I told her that up front and that I am not looking to get into any relationships, especially since I still married and don't want to create any more problems for myself. Plus I'm not ready to date let alone be in a relationship. She on the other hand wants me to speed up my divorce and be with her. I told her that I can't do that and that I still love my wife. What's the best way too create some distance between her and me without hurting her feelings. The truth is she's a nice lady who is very attractive and would make a good mate but I'm far from wanting to be back in that boat. Especially with someone who seems to be desperate. Who’s got the best advice? I already thought about faking my own death or alien abduction to get out of this situation but let’s be honest, I need real answers.

2006-07-13 05:12:29 · 4 answers · asked by zmebme 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I am deeply in love with my ex boyfriend but he no longer feels the same about me. I really would like to try again to be his baby. I mean he tells me that he loves me but then again he doesn't act like he cares anymore. I GOT IT BAD! To be completly honest I have been in love with him since the first day I laid eyes on him! When we made it official that we were together last summer my heart just opened up to him and only him. He was so sweet, I loved everything about him. Every time I was near him my heart would race. I loved his smile so much that I can still picture in my mind. We are still friends but it is so hard to just be friends with someone that you care about so deeply. Its like his feeling just changed over night but I am still stuck on him. I want to get over him but at the same time I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART and I dont ever see him leaving it. What should I do???

2006-07-13 05:11:52 · 14 answers · asked by youngnready1506 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been with my bf for over 2 months.he's a guitarist and these days he's preparing for his 1rst solo.the thing is we didn't go out together for over than 2 weeks,and i didn't hear from him for three days.whenever he's online his status is busy and doesn't even say hi or that he misses me.he doesn't answer my calls and didn't even try to call for just 1 min to say hi and check how i am.i understand that he's busy with the band,but i mean it won't hurt to check on me for at least one min a day.why do we make them our priorities and the centre of our universe while they don't give a damn and r the last thing they care about after their friends and music our football or watever?!!!should i wait until he calls?(notice that whenever i call to chek on him he hangs up saying thet he'ld call me later coz he's busy)

2006-07-13 05:10:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

All of my (3)Siblings were grown we just found out that my Father has a Child with another woman the child is 18 should he have said someting to his grown children before others' had found out he did let his others find out before hand
meaning his siblings

2006-07-13 05:10:04 · 11 answers · asked by michellegprix99@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family

2006-07-13 05:09:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you ever sleep with more than one person at a time?

2006-07-13 05:09:27 · 11 answers · asked by fl2stay 4 in Singles & Dating

debating with some friends

2006-07-13 05:09:09 · 6 answers · asked by andralynn147 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know people pick out certain names for their kids but if a boy looks hispanic and he has a first name of darius, could he be part black?
if his last name is rose, is that a hispanic last name?
please don't ask why does it matter or who cares. that is why i'm asking, to get an answer.

2006-07-13 05:09:08 · 6 answers · asked by niss9 1 in Family

end of the school year sum kid asked me out

2006-07-13 05:09:06 · 3 answers · asked by Momo K 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend is hooking me up with one of her guy friends. she said that he's really sweet and is so nice, she told him the same about me. i got his number and will call him 2nite. do you think it's best to meet someone over the phone b4 you see them so u dont judge them by appearance?

2006-07-13 05:08:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Handsome young man speaks to his love:

Open your eyes and let your love shine,
you are finer than wine, dearest of mine.
Come now, I must tell you as soon as we meet,
the wildest secrets of my lonely heartbeat.

Nothing is sweeter or deeper than love
when rapture is dancing within the soul,
we are young lovers at heaven's door,
never being in love before....

I see you face and it's a wonderful day
and I tell of my love with a floral boquet.
. . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Beautiful girl speaks to her Love:

Romance divine, tears and laughter combine,
as we let our pent-up emotions unwind.
Tell me the nice things you wish me to hear,
lonely heart secrets are dreawing me near!

Love makes me whole, makes me complete,
deep in my heart, fine memories I keep,
mystery plays its part for a lifetime or more,
a "joining together" at heaven's door.

Oh how I wish I could show you the way,
but I'll save this adventure for another day.

2006-07-13 05:08:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend I really care about and he is always sick or unhappy about something. Usually it's something very serious going on in his life. So these things are not just in his head. I just wondered if anyone knew about something I can do just to make him happy even for a day...

2006-07-13 05:08:29 · 18 answers · asked by ~jenn~ 2 in Friends

Two days ago my girlfriend went ill ... i got to her house and brought her some medicine, and i feel that i like her more like a friend than a bf and gf relatinship...

2006-07-13 05:08:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-13 05:07:16 · 18 answers · asked by Jamie U 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A girl that i though was my friend came to my house and gave my boyfried and i some pain pills and got me and my boyfried really messed up. adventually we had sex. he never penetrated her but they still had oral. this is really bothering me and him. i already called my friendship off with her. i want things to work with my boyfriend and I. this is something we always swore that we would never do. any suggestion on what i can do to make this hurt feeling go away?

2006-07-13 05:07:09 · 16 answers · asked by Summer 1 in Singles & Dating

Every morning my bf goes to get coffee at a coffe shop near his home. Last wk I went with him to get coffee and this woman made sure she came to the car to say good morning to him - which I didn't say anything but felt uncomfortable about it. I spent last night with him and this morning he decides he's not going to the coffee shop were her normally goes to cause he claims that the depends who's working there will open a little late - I look at my watch and it's 5:15am the place should open at 5:00. He tell me that he'll go to the one that is near my home which is not that near. He goes in I watch him - he joins in a conversation with the clerk and a woman customer - next I see him leave the counter and start a talking to the customer for a long time. When got back to the car I told him that I thought I would have to come get my own coffee - I told him that you spent a long time talking with that young woman - he says "oh,she's not young she's 40yrs old, am I wrong for being pissed?

2006-07-13 05:06:39 · 20 answers · asked by Leila 3 in Singles & Dating

I lost my virginity about three weeks ago, and it hurt really bad. I was told it wont hurt anymore but Im not sure, what do you think? and will it always hurt if the guy is big? also what are good reallly sensitive condoms to use? I know lots of guys dont like to use them because they cant feel as much.

2006-07-13 05:06:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean, there can't be two people that have everything same, thinking, that they like the same things!

2006-07-13 05:05:35 · 40 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

I have just recently broken up with a long term boyfriend of a year. We are still friends but I was wondering what I should do. Should I be his friend or not because I still have really strong feelings for him n everytime i try to explain it to him he gets mad or doesn't want to talk about it and he acts like he doesn't care that I am hurting. He tells me that he loves me and bla bla but his actions show me different. He has already ****** other girls when we were trying to get back together. I am trying to be his friend but it hurts to be his friend and it hurts to not talk to him at the same time. I love him so much! Recently, I have felt like I didn't care about him or us anymore but then just about 2 days I started to feel those feelings again. I am starting to believe that I am falling for him even harder even after all the **** we have been thru and all the selfish things he has done. What should I do?

2006-07-13 05:05:31 · 18 answers · asked by youngnready1506 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend I had became a pen-pal with while he was in jail. I wrote him for over 2 years. I never made it seem like we were going to be together, but he fell in love. When he got out I told him to live his life and find someone. But he really is in love with me and wants to be with me and will do anything for me. He's not really my type when it comes to looks, but he is a sweet heart and will bend over backwards for me. He's a really good friend. Should I give him a chance? But my guards are really up hi because of the past relationships I've been in and gotten hurt. What should I do? I don't even know how to show him affection.

2006-07-13 05:03:44 · 7 answers · asked by Nakeya J 3 in Singles & Dating