A girl that i though was my friend came to my house and gave my boyfried and i some pain pills and got me and my boyfried really messed up. adventually we had sex. he never penetrated her but they still had oral. this is really bothering me and him. i already called my friendship off with her. i want things to work with my boyfriend and I. this is something we always swore that we would never do. any suggestion on what i can do to make this hurt feeling go away?
2006-07-13 05:07:09 · 16 answers · asked by Summer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mistakes happen. If you both know and feel it was a mistake and are still interested in each other then you 2 should be fine. Just agree that you won't let this obstacle stand in the way of you 2 moving forward. Just talk and agree that you plan to put it behind you and move on. No need harping on it...its happened already. Neither of you should bring it up anymore after you've discussed it and decided to move on.
2006-07-13 05:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by oneluv66366 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off let me just say WOW!!. Your man is really lucky to have a girl like you. I don't care how many pain pills my wife and I was on, but that would never with us. You both made a mistake, put it behind you, sh*t happens, don't let it ruin what you have. At least it is something you did together, so talk and work it out. But wow, your man just lived every mans fantasy. Lucky bastard!!
2006-07-13 05:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you mean "eventually' you had sex.
Unfortunately it is too late once you have already made the mistake. The only thing you can do now is talk it over with your boyfriend and work on strengthening your relationship. Lay off of the drugs and keep yourself safe--you only have one round, make the best of it.
2006-07-13 05:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by dlgrl=me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would die...I would always have those bad feelings....Try to work it out..but you will always look at him that way you do now...I would never be able to work it out because I harp on everything and I would never let that go....but you sound like you really wan this to work so def give it a shot and try to overcome that night and move on....What kind of girl is this....I hope you are ok.....Good luck :-)
2006-07-13 05:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing drugs. Sounds like the pain pills CAUSED pain. Nothing you can do but move on.
2006-07-13 05:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, dont blame it on the pain pills, second, I ll bet you money that he doesnt feel too bad about it at all, ill bet hes tellin all of his buddies about it! Third, you cant cry over spilled milk, just deal with it and move on.
2006-07-13 05:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
READ THIS:
NO MAN in their right mind will regret having a 3some...it could be his plan all along..he could be exchanging stories right now with some beer buddy... or the guy who is sitting next to him on the bus...
2006-07-13 05:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by no_ones_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right about breaking off the friendship. But as far as the hurting feeling and it going away... it will go away sooner then you think if you don't think about.
2006-07-13 05:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by alot_2_say 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know she was giving you the pills? If you did why did you take them? Still pain pills get you mellow and relaxed, not horny.
2006-07-13 05:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, sounds like the both of you got taken advantage of. just support each other and talk about your feelings. and don't ever do it again if it bothers you this much
2006-07-13 05:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by snuffy_muffy_eater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋