Family & Relationships - 10 July 2006

i'm fobia with this. till now its hard to trust anyone and to find true friend.
I had a friend and she's the most trusted person,so i told my secret to her,but then.she told my secret to everybody...i felt hurt.
how to leave this kind of fobia?

2006-07-10 23:59:19 · 11 answers · asked by fathimah 1 in Friends

My woman doesn't listen to me at all, unless I smack her in the nose. Is that OK?

2006-07-10 23:58:50 · 49 answers · asked by power f 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old and about to turn 22. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. It will be 4 in december. I am in college and i want to at least be engaged when i graduate or right after getting my bachlors degree and that will be in about 2 yrs. He wants the same thing but he plans to get his masters and/or even his doc. He needs about 3 yrs to graduate with a bachlors and master is an additional 2 yrs. A doc is about 3 yrs. so thats 8 yrs. He tells me that he isnt even thinking about marriage right now. Which is understandable because we are still in school. He alos told me that someone he looks up to told him that if he wants to pursue a doc, not to get married or have kids til afterwards cause they will hold you back. But i am a bit scared cause i am getting at that age where i want to be secure (at least be engaged) and dont want to waste my time on something that isnt going anywhere. Its heartbreaking.

2006-07-10 23:58:11 · 15 answers · asked by Flor*de*lisa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

responding domestic violance restraning order and neveronce have they had a problem in 3 1/2 y.

2006-07-10 23:58:01 · 22 answers · asked by trinkyre30 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife divorced me after 10yrs,we have 2 kids, she was always good to me and always did the right thing,about a year ago i came back from being gone on a job for a month and she gave me divorce papers and also had moved someone elese in, I did'nt fight the divorce it was final in 90 days i never thought she would follow through. I just can't belive this is the same person i had married. I can't get over the thought of someone just never looking back like we never existed.I had no signs this was going to happen when i was away working she told me i am so proud of you i love you so much,I just can't understand why.She says she was young when we married and she loves me but is not in love with me. i know i need to be ok with it but i am not. I have'nt even dated yet,well i tried but could not do it. She tells me i am a good guy and i will find someone she tells me happiness is a choice and i should choose to be happy.I feel like my life is over i never expected to be here.How do i be ok

2006-07-10 23:57:41 · 11 answers · asked by harley6455 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-10 23:52:43 · 30 answers · asked by p-sexologist 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 23:52:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-07-10 23:51:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have any of you guys ever had the urge to kiss another friend who was also a guy? have any of you actually done it? do you find it ok that I have kissed a male friend and I didn't mean to? did I do wrong? funny thing is I liked it. some advice?

2006-07-10 23:50:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

LOVE
some say its sweet poison
doctors define its hormone reaction
but totaly a bizzare phenomenon
taking us all to an unknown dungeon

2006-07-10 23:50:13 · 4 answers · asked by karthik 1 in Singles & Dating

whenever u click on a new page for more questions it is usually the same from the page before

2006-07-10 23:46:22 · 7 answers · asked by hubbys2ndbest2000 2 in Family

My sister has been a drug addict for several years. So is her boyfriend. They've been in and out of rehab several times. They have a child together that stays with my mom most of the time. I don't know what to say to her when I phone her. I don't want to turn my back on her or be judgemental like the rest of the family but I don't know how to help her. She lives far from me and I only see her once a year. We had an abusive upbringing and I don't think she ever recovered. I wish I could understand what she's going through so I can say the right words. Can anyone help me?

2006-07-10 23:45:20 · 12 answers · asked by SweetyPie 2 in Family

why can't all women look as good as 90% of the hispanic women do?

2006-07-10 23:45:07 · 10 answers · asked by heavyhauldad 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is 32 and we are expecting our 2nd child in 3 months. The only problem is that I can't get him to stop being focused on himself. He would rather buy a nice stereo system for his truck than buy baby items. We are going in serious debt because of his wants. How do I explain to him that our baby can not sleep in a speaker box. Any help would be appreciated!

2006-07-10 23:43:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it could be anyone

2006-07-10 23:43:25 · 7 answers · asked by ambidextrous25 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need some advice:My husband & I have been married a little over a year, and were together for a year before that. I truly love him but my actions throughout our time together has started to destroy us. While dating, a couple times I tried to leave him but he begged me back.I've had depression problems and I have mood swings as well. Because of this I am rarely in the mood for sex.I pick a fight for everything.The worse part of all this is that I have been verbally and physically abusive with him..and yes I am a woman.Because we are in the Army we have been seperated for the past 10 months because of deployment and only seeneach other 2 weeks during leave.Even though I had promised to change, I ruined our time together by abusing him again.We fight even when we chat and he cant take in anymore, especially him being at war.He's thinking about divorcing me.I love him to death and dont want to lose him, I have tried to change but I just cant seem to. What can I do to change and save us?

2006-07-10 23:43:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-10 23:42:32 · 9 answers · asked by manmadan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is always one chacter trait that draws you into a relationship what is yours,

2006-07-10 23:41:34 · 12 answers · asked by ambidextrous25 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i came out of a long relationship 5 mth ago it was 8 years and 3 kids, i still love her but she says she does not feel the same, anyways after asking her over and over again to try again i gave up about 2 mth ago, since then i have sorted myself out new job, still take kids religiously working out alot and really planning for the future, however i still love my ex to bits so i do still talk to her when i go for the kids the annoying thing is though her and her father keep telling me to move on!
havent i already?
what am i to do find someone else who i dont want just to say i have moved on?
i dont want another relationship and what is the harm in waiting for her and see what time brings?
its not as if im asking her to get back with me anymore.
why do they keep saying move on!
i have god dam it as much as i can lol

2006-07-10 23:40:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had this friend for nearly two years. Recently we went out more often and i felt for him. I told him that and he told me that he also has feelings about me...But here this now.Two weeks later he told me that he is married and his marriage is broken..my god i felt as if my entire world crashed down. MOreover my feelings are very strong at this moment of time. I am so depressed. Why are guys like that? Please help me and advise. I am keeping away from him already..how to overcome such a tragedy

2006-07-10 23:39:08 · 7 answers · asked by nsms 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 23:38:26 · 18 answers · asked by phillip.c 1 in Singles & Dating

positive thinking

2006-07-10 23:37:38 · 8 answers · asked by sandy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-10 23:37:30 · 9 answers · asked by rekha c 3 in Friends

2006-07-10 23:35:20 · 21 answers · asked by magenta 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 23:34:31 · 8 answers · asked by Stary 2 in Friends

2006-07-10 23:33:26 · 10 answers · asked by rajeevv67 2 in Singles & Dating

Mostly they say they love, but some find it disgusting.. So what do u think?

2006-07-10 23:33:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with this person for a while and (for me) it has only been about the sex. He got really serious and started asking for marriage, so I figured it was time to walk away, but its so hard.

2006-07-10 23:31:27 · 8 answers · asked by jen 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 23:29:30 · 10 answers · asked by littlexXsisXx 2 in Friends

2006-07-10 23:27:53 · 26 answers · asked by phillip.c 1 in Singles & Dating