Family & Relationships - 10 July 2006

I posted a previous question about a dream i had.In the dream I was kissing a guy other then my bf,I've known this guy for a long time before my bf and for a while I had a crush on him and then nothing.I am wondering do you think I should tell my bf.Do u think it is a form of cheating absolutely nothing but flirting happened with my ex-crush before i was with my bf and nothing has happened since my bf.My bf has only kissed me once ,we've been going out for almost a month,it was quick cuz neither one of us are big on pda.I've told my bf from the start that I wanted to take it slow.Mostly cuz he has had alot of gf and i have had very few (he being my first)bfs.For those who are know confused my questions are -is it cheating or any form of,do you think it is cheating.Should I tell my bf.

2006-07-10 21:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Singles & Dating

I was just mostly wondering Why? I am a red head and men at bars and stuff always have to comment on my hair and usually add a comment like...well I have heard it all So please dont just throw out the old sayings like red in the head fire in bed etc I am just wondering what makes you like redheaded women so much (if you like them obviously not everyone is attracted to red haired women....) but in my life I find many men get really crazy about my hair colour while my blonde, brunette friends never get complimented on thier hair.

2006-07-10 21:44:17 · 21 answers · asked by Kelly + Eternal Universal Energy 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 21:42:36 · 11 answers · asked by omahapamela 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 21:42:19 · 10 answers · asked by ????? 1 in Singles & Dating

I WROTE A MESSAGE HOPPING THAT I COULD FIND SOME ONE OUT THERE WHO WAS WILLING TOO HELP NOT ONLY TO HELP ME BUT MAYBE GOD WILLING I COULD ALSO HELP IN RETURN . I AM NOT ASKING FOR ANY HAND OUTS FOR ANY ONE TOO TAKE CARE OF ME WHAT I AM ASKING IS THERE ANY ONE WHO NEEDS MY HELP AND CAN ALSO HELP ME...... SOME ONE WHO CAN WORK WITH ME SIDE BE SIDE AND GET AHEAD ... I CAN GIVE ALOT FOR THE RIGHT PERSON.. I KNOW THERE IS OTHER WOMAN OR MAN OUT THERE WHO ARE GOING THOUGHT THE SAME AS ME OR EVERN WOREST.. FOR I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF WHAT I NEED AND DO WHAT NEEDS TOO BE DONE... YET I WOULD LIKE TO FIND A REAL TURE FREINED WHO IS GOING TOUGHT ALMOST THE SAME AS ME OR WHO IS ALSO LOOKING FOR A REAL PERSON TO BEFREIANED.....E-MAIL ME IF YOU ARE A REAL PERSON NO BULL

2006-07-10 21:42:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like sum1 n their brother knows but havent told them i still like them, should i tell them i just dont want to lose his friendship we r friends n his bro is my bestfriend so should i tell him n risk friendship or just get over it

2006-07-10 21:41:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a successful and (so I'm told) attractive 33 year old with two well behaved children (a 6 year old son and a baby daughter). I have a great job and am financially independent. I can make people laugh and don't lack the ability to laugh at myself and my friends can't believe that I'm on my own.

I'm separated from my husband and going through divorce proceedings... no dramatic break up, just drifted apart and was making each other miserable. We are on good terms and my soon to be ex-husband is a good person and good father and has a lot of contact with our children which I wouldn't deny him!

The only problem now is that when I tell guys about my children, every single one has run away at a million miles an hour....

I'm very lonely and feel like I'm going to be alone forever. Why can't I find that special someone that I can adore and love and have him love me back.

2006-07-10 21:40:51 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u know your first time

2006-07-10 21:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i was with my last boyfriend for 3 years, but as time went by we drifted appart, and i felt like he wasnt the same,and all this ended up in me cheating, which im not proud of, but he forgave me, and i thought maybe the whole cheating thing might help our relationship, but it didnt we still fougt constantly, so i broke up with him, and i am now currently seeing someone else, and i feel comfortable with him, but i still love my ex, and i know a part of me will always love him, but i dont know what to do, should i go back to the relationship with my ex and risk fighting all the time, or stay in this one and move forward? im so lost right now this situation is literally making me sick, i hardly eat and when i do it makes me sick, i really need advice right now.

2006-07-10 21:38:13 · 8 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 21:37:59 · 5 answers · asked by kimmi 1 in Singles & Dating

Right now iam going through tough time… lot of stress no mental peace. This all is due to my house maid, lately I could come to know that whatever she told me about herself and her problems before was all untrue and she was trying to take me in her confidence. I want to terminate her but she takes care of my kid very well and also does all housework, for that I can compromise. Now I don't talk much to her just ask about my kid's well being while iam in office. I hate people who lie. Moreover last month she asked for extra money for which I denied so she is acting a bit stubborn. I'm a heart patient and have been suggested by doctors to be away from stress and anxiety.Please tell is there any solution to this.

2006-07-10 21:37:21 · 5 answers · asked by jes 1 in Friends

I have been with my fiance for 2 years now and have just had enough of his selfish ways. He very rarely makes a decision, rarely comes onto me to make love, sits on his xbox or pc of an evening and hardly talks to me. I feel like his flat mate at times. I have tried to talk to him and he cannot see any prob. He has had some serious family issues with his father and his mother passed away 3 years ago. I understand that life has been hard for him and I have always been there to support him but he is not giving to the relationship. I feel like i'm hitting my head off a brick wall. I really don't want to lose him but cannot get any reaction from him when I tell him how much I am hurting. I am at my wits end. He makes out that everything is good and he doesn't see things from my side. What can I do? I feel I have no choice now but to end it all?? I do love him but feel that he is driving me away

2006-07-10 21:36:35 · 24 answers · asked by Sasha 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm just wondering so i know. Its that simple

2006-07-10 21:36:19 · 5 answers · asked by Sandcrab 2 in Singles & Dating

We have custody of all our children, the mother, who walked out on my husband and her 3 kids, now wants custody of the children. She filed for a custody change a year ago and has postponed it several times. The guardian ad litum says that they should live with her because that is what they want. The children are 13 and 8. There is no abuse or any reason to change custody, just the children's wishes. The guardian ad litum has never even investigated why they want to live with her or allegations that we have about her care of them. She has lied to them and gotten the children to lie about us as well. If we can't afford the attorney anymore can he stop representing us or does he have an obilgation to continue with our case? We owe one attorney $1000 and our attorney $5000. What are our rights? What if we fire him and hire another attorney?

2006-07-10 21:32:56 · 14 answers · asked by lilone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-10 21:31:44 · 14 answers · asked by snappy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say there's a guy your crushing on but he doesn't know. Not only that..he's the only guy that works there and other girls seem to like him too. How would you get his attention and get him to notice you?

2006-07-10 21:31:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine is the orthodox one. By the way anyone tried kamsutra positions out there??????

2006-07-10 21:31:27 · 3 answers · asked by triggerhappy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it's a kinda weird question but the other day my bestfriend told me that i don't think about what i say before i say it. when i asked what she ment she said that a couple weeks ago when we got exam results and i got an A and she got a C that i was bragging too much. but the thing is i tried not to even metion it incase it upset and it's not even like we sat the same tier paper she did the lower tier which means C was the highest grade she could get. Is it selfish of me to be proud of my grades?

2006-07-10 21:30:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dont get that i mean a girls gives u her # and the she has to wait for u to call what kind of crap is that... We give u the # so u can call and sit on ur *** thinking if u will or will not do it.

2006-07-10 21:28:51 · 28 answers · asked by atebolchick22 1 in Singles & Dating

OK. This one has me hoppin' a bit. There's a girl in work. Very nice, Very attractive and I'm almost sure she likes me (who can be certain). Now... when we banter away whilst working.. the craic is great and we really get along well. We can kinda bounce of each other... She ain't like this with any other guy in the place. But... and I mean BUT.. when we're in a situation where the emphasis is on conversation.... dIfferent matter altogether. Its more akward... Actually painfully so... Long silences and really crappy and nervous conversation from both sides My question... Is it like this because we're into each other or could it be something far more sinister!!!... lol

A would dearly love some guidance on this issue.

Thank you all and God Bless..

2006-07-10 21:28:44 · 6 answers · asked by Nobigdeal 1 in Friends

2006-07-10 21:27:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom. i have 2 children with special needs and life can be pretty overwhelming as a Mom. Then I fell in love with a man who has become very VERY ill with heart conditions. He doesn't have much patience for the kids special needs or my needs as well. i feel if i end it then I am doing something wrong because he is sick. He doesn't have much support and yet i feel kinda taken advantage of. I am so confused. He helped me through some harder times but on the other hand now i feel like i am here to be a conveince for him. My kids do not like him because of his lack of understanding. I love him, i am angry at him and I am just fed up with the inconsideration of alot of the things he does. If i am to walk away, how do i live with myself knowing i am one of few that really help him and do care about him?

2006-07-10 21:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by mistress_tiana_soprano 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-10 21:25:57 · 29 answers · asked by npguy73 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to have sex but idk

2006-07-10 21:25:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 21:25:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hubby wants another man in our bed - I am fairly easy going, would I enjoy it?

2006-07-10 21:23:27 · 14 answers · asked by easyalice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

wud luv 2 mke frnz
will u be ma frn??

2006-07-10 21:21:49 · 19 answers · asked by jignesh p 1 in Friends

well, here it goes... i've been with my ex on and off for the past three years..i gave him more chances than you can think off after he broke my heart several times. i think i am too soft. so he left me to further his studies in england, it was his choice, he told me 'maybe he doesn't love me enough'..over the phone during my major exam period. (yeah..inconsiderate!) then i haven't heard from him for about three months then he sent me an email 'sending his regards', i didn't reply for a couple of months and just recently he sent me another one (long one), telling me about his time over there and the ppl he meets etc. and about how he'll never forget the past memories of us...and that he'll treasure it in his heart forever blabla. i told him before he left that if he needs a listener i will be the person to listen to all his problems and help him out etc. but then things turned out sour and now in this email he supposedly wants meto b some1 he can talk 2. wat shall i do? is he over me?

2006-07-10 21:21:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-10 21:19:30 · 27 answers · asked by paul r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is constantly on my case about EVERYTHING! Always questioning my parenting of our 2 year old daughter (I'm a stay at home mom), I'm 7 months pregnant now and never feel good plus I have been fighting depression over personal loss issues for almost 5 years as it is, but I keep up with our daughter somehow & do all the housework & cooking. He gripes about the house, my cooking, my being on the computer when I cant sleep, what shampoo I use on our 2 year old during her baths, how hot or cold I have the house when he isnt even here; just everything! I'm sooo stressed out I just wanna scream, I cry at the drop of a dime and unless I have on a happy face 24/7 he gets mad & actually has to ask me whats wrong... I cant hardly sleep at night but he expects me to just close my eyes & poof I'll be asleep. Tonight he had the gall to say to me "How the f*ck you gonna handle 2 kids when you cant even handle one?!", he says this type of thing every single day.. how do you cope?

2006-07-10 21:19:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce