I posted a previous question about a dream i had.In the dream I was kissing a guy other then my bf,I've known this guy for a long time before my bf and for a while I had a crush on him and then nothing.I am wondering do you think I should tell my bf.Do u think it is a form of cheating absolutely nothing but flirting happened with my ex-crush before i was with my bf and nothing has happened since my bf.My bf has only kissed me once ,we've been going out for almost a month,it was quick cuz neither one of us are big on pda.I've told my bf from the start that I wanted to take it slow.Mostly cuz he has had alot of gf and i have had very few (he being my first)bfs.For those who are know confused my questions are -is it cheating or any form of,do you think it is cheating.Should I tell my bf.
2006-07-10 21:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by movin12006 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am offended at the fact you are applying that only a 13 year old could feel that way.I'm older than 13 by several years.That is all I'll say about my age.
2006-07-10 21:56:57 · update #1
no fantasy is a fantasy.
2006-07-10 21:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by gallow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not cheating at all. Most people dream of indulging in affection with someone other than their partner (sometimes famous, sometimes someone known to them).
You were not with anyone while you were flirting with this other guy and as you said nothing more than that happened anyway.
I don't see any need to tell him of the dream or of the previous crush.
If however you decide to tell him and he freaks, then he is too immature to deal with what was a harmless encounter for you and I would consider calling it a day on this relationship.
2006-07-11 04:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by Treat Infamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not cheating!!!
And it's not worth even talking about it. It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal. Depending on your age and this question makes me think you are around 13 I would say. Just give it up and move along with out the drama your bf will like you alot more if your not the drama queen building a mountain out of a molehill.
2006-07-11 04:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Nadalfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dreaming is something u can't control and its natural that u should b attracted to other guys besides ur bf. i am in love with the most amazing guy but i still think others r cute and stuff. its natural and there;s no need to tell him. just follow ur heart and do what makes u happy. always be open about your feelings b/c lies can ruin a relationship.
2006-07-11 04:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by noogava 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a dream,your not cheating.
2006-07-11 06:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by rosie w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋