2006-07-10 21:27:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well youll have to stop thinking about it and move on
2006-07-10 21:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, because it makes you no better than the woman who hurt you. I know it's hard to heal the pain, but hurting others to do it is the wrong way to try, & ultimately will cause you more pain if you have a conscience. Just think how much you hurt when that girl hurt you, & multiply that by every girl you have hurt since then. Adds up, huh? Plus, the girl who hurt you wins every time you hurt someone else because of what she did to you. She has moved on with her life, & every time you hurt someone else because of her, it's as if she is there hurting you all over again, & laughing in your face while she does it. You may never be able to get back at her for what she's done, but I did once. That's because a girl who hurt me saw me with another woman years later, & I was happy. She admitted to me it bothered her to see me show the love & affection I showed her at one time to someone else. She had her chance, & gave it up, & now she regretted her decision. Oddly enough, I pitied her. So, move on, give a deserving girl the love you once gave this girl who didn't deserve it, & perhaps one day, you'll be glad she left you so you could find someone better. Good luck.
2006-07-10 21:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And when it comes time to the right girl, she will move on, because you "staked her heart" and you will miss out on the perfect opportunity to have a happy life...
Get some counceling there bud... You are obviously in need of it, as your making a lot of girls, miserable, at thier expense and they shouldnt have to be your "whipping post" because you had your feelings hurt.
Grow up! Its the best thing to do, if you want to become a Man!
Then, start treating the women the way they should be respected.
Would you treat your Mother this way?? I should hope not! How about your sister?? Hmmm maybe you would...who knows...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-07-10 21:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew someone who didn't get hurt; she got raped some years ago. she told me some days ago "If we all do the things they did to us, then all other species would be more human than us".
I am not particularly religious, but reading the Scriptures i always remember that if we follow the "An eye for an eye. A tooth for a tooth" etc then all world would be full of cripples...
Meeting hurtful people made me appreciate the decency of others. And there are many out here/there behaving better...
2006-07-10 21:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by lena225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are NOT all the same. You cannot punish other girls out there for what SHE did to you! You're hurt and you need to try to get over it...Life with the ladies is not over, and NO...WE ARE NOT ALL ALIKE. theres the bad ones and the good ones...just like the guys...you just have to know where to look, and be able to recognize the good ones. Don't stop believing in love...its a beautiful thing, and i hope you'll find it.
2006-07-10 21:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by 1stronger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I've been hurt by so many girls, but I'm the idiot who keeps going back for more. You should realise that there are soooo many girs out there not like the one who hurt you. I mean, you should see half my friends!! ; )
Anyway, just try not to prejudge people. Just because they're female doesn't mean they're gonna hurt you. They might do, but you can never be sure. Try it.
Hope that helps.
2006-07-10 21:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by HiFi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very bad but understandable. if you got hurt badly dont let the personm see you down go for another girl, show you can get over her easily. mpove on and then you are the winner, no violence and hatrid show love to others and you will become stronger. good luck.
2006-07-10 21:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by jame_football 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi you need to resolve those feeling or issues you have with this girl & move on with your life. If you don't do this will never be happy with any other & you will end up a very bitter man. Do you want that?
2006-07-10 21:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are ALL THE SAME. Trust me, after 30 years of dating different women, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME.
My BEST advice is to pick the best looking one and hang onto her. They are all the same.
2006-07-10 21:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but you probably go to jail if you keep killin girls just use em and abuse em thats what she did to you dont respect em and dont let yourself get hurt or put yourself in a vulnerable position to
2006-07-10 21:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ralphie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get thee to Leykis 101. You will understand women, get control of your balls, get laid more often, and you'll never be hurt again.
2006-07-10 21:34:36 · answer #11 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋