Hubby wants another man in our bed - I am fairly easy going, would I enjoy it?
2006-07-10 21:23:27 · 14 answers · asked by easyalice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Threesomes can be very problematic. It sounds fun and he probably got the idea from a porn vid. If the males have different ideas about what turns you on and you find one better than the other you run the risk of ruining the whole scene.
The only way to make a success of it is if you do the things you enjoy with your partner and then let the other one join in, that way he has in idea of what you expect from the threesom, or let the stranger be the dominant one, he controls the action, it can be a huge turn on believe me !! A little bit of role-play helps ease the tension too.
But don´t let it rule your sex life and don´t forget to have solo sex with your husband, never with the stranger, that´s a recipe for disaster, what if he turns out to be better than your husband. It´ all right to fantasise with about the threesome but never tell your husband it´s better that way even if it is.
Make sure the third party is discrete and not someone who will go shouting their mouth off about it afterwards, and NEVER EVER do something you don´t want to do.
At the end of the day it´s your body !!!
Have fun I did and I was the Third partner !!!!
2006-07-11 00:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by Peter R 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Generally the person wanting the threesome is looking for the action. So if the thought of him and some dude going at in in the 69 position and then running each other up the shoot sounds fun to you while you take care of your own business. You'll probably have a blast!
2006-07-10 21:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That totally depends on how secure your hubby is, most men can cope with 3somes involving 2 women but find it hard to deal with another man being with his partner. If you have a very strong relationship go for it, they can be very enjoyable. If in doubt dont.
2006-07-10 21:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by beepbeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants it, then that's fine. But the real question is, how would your relationship endure bringing another individual in to your sexlife? And are you prepared for the possibility that he may like it so much that he wants out of your marriage.
Yes, it could ALL happen, people are strange that way.
As for wether you would like it or not.....watch some gay porn and if it turns you on then you probably wont mind it.
2006-07-10 22:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an ex of mine kept on about having a threesome and i nearly did but bottled it at the last minute and i`m so glad i did
2006-07-11 02:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by spuddylicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls I've done it with all enjoyed it. If you do it, make sure you try double penetration. The girls I've done it with have told me that its great for the lady...I'll have to take their word for it.
And of course, use protection;)
2006-07-10 21:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by The Man In The Box 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
enjoy if you feel its right for you but another man?hope your hubby is not bisexual but if not go for it be safe and good luck
2006-07-10 22:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by martin r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you would be asking the question if you were really happy about it. Don't do it, there's a huge difference between fantasy and reality.
2006-07-11 19:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do it your worth more than that. youll feel ashamed after and will regret it, you werent created under a mans feet to be walked on x
2006-07-10 22:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was reading in the paper that sometimes the man that suggests it gets angry with the woman afterwards and blames her for it.
2006-07-10 21:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋