I am a single mom. i have 2 children with special needs and life can be pretty overwhelming as a Mom. Then I fell in love with a man who has become very VERY ill with heart conditions. He doesn't have much patience for the kids special needs or my needs as well. i feel if i end it then I am doing something wrong because he is sick. He doesn't have much support and yet i feel kinda taken advantage of. I am so confused. He helped me through some harder times but on the other hand now i feel like i am here to be a conveince for him. My kids do not like him because of his lack of understanding. I love him, i am angry at him and I am just fed up with the inconsideration of alot of the things he does. If i am to walk away, how do i live with myself knowing i am one of few that really help him and do care about him?
2006-07-10 21:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by mistress_tiana_soprano 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you know what you have? you have another child to take care of!if you are ready for another responsibility then go on. but be sure that this wont be a love relationship.he will lean on you for support .thats all.
2006-07-10 21:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by atahsina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl. Listen, this iz pretty simple- if da man aint got time 4 yo kidz then he aint worth da stress- yo kidz come first, they derserve sum1 whose gonna luv & except them. Bottom line iz, if he really luvz u, then he'll also luv yo kidz. Keep well.
2006-07-11 05:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by justhulice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down with him and tell him how he's making you feel and if he still lacks understanding, then you should let him go.
2006-07-11 04:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to make up some rules.
And then follow them.
2006-07-11 04:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well you cant make your children love a man you love
2006-07-11 04:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry its a hard dessesion but u have to let him go!!!!
u cant make it togother!
2006-07-11 04:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself "am i better off with him or without him"...then go for it.....
2006-07-11 04:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him out
2006-07-11 04:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ralphie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋