Well i was with my last boyfriend for 3 years, but as time went by we drifted appart, and i felt like he wasnt the same,and all this ended up in me cheating, which im not proud of, but he forgave me, and i thought maybe the whole cheating thing might help our relationship, but it didnt we still fougt constantly, so i broke up with him, and i am now currently seeing someone else, and i feel comfortable with him, but i still love my ex, and i know a part of me will always love him, but i dont know what to do, should i go back to the relationship with my ex and risk fighting all the time, or stay in this one and move forward? im so lost right now this situation is literally making me sick, i hardly eat and when i do it makes me sick, i really need advice right now.
2006-07-10 21:38:13 · 8 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's hard to move on with your life when you've been so close to someone....but if you get back with him...both of you wont be happy because of your constant fighting......put your foot forward and move on.....try to concentrate all you time and energy on your new man......
2006-07-10 21:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not allow my mind go after your ex-boyfriend if you're really in love with the new one. One thing is very important in a relationship, you as a person must be determined, if not, you'll not have a lasting relationship. The habit of cheating on your partner may likely continue if you don't attempt to stop it by surrendering your life to the Lord Jesus Christ and ask Him to come into your life because He is the only one who can give a lasting peace in a relationship. I was once a victim of a broken relationship and i must confess to you that it wasn't easy. I took a bold step to forsake all worldliness and lust by accepting Jesus Christ as my Lord and personal Saviour. I'm now enjoying my relationship with my fiance and we will soon be married. Try it and you will never remain the same. Stay blessed.
2006-07-11 05:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by christy O. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Personally feel it is you who has to decide. sit alone for some time in a room, close the door, and ponder on them both. Think of all the good and bad times you spent with them. A time will sure come when your heart says "Yes! This boy is/was right for me!". I think they boy u broke up with was your 'first' love in life. Also it is impossible to forget your first love, no mater how many ppl you love after that. Another important thing u need to take into consideration is whether he(present/past) likes any other girls also.
2006-07-11 04:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not over the ex it's really not fair to the one you are seeing.
Maybe you just need to be alone for awhile to figure out what it is that you want.
Going backwards is rarely the answer (from experience I say this)
When we break up with someone it is not the loss of the person we mourn (after all it wasn't working now was it?!) ...it is what we gave of ourselves...that level of familiarity and comfort we reached.
Know that it will get better. Give yourself time and don't rush into anything.
Try yoga!
2006-07-11 04:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by angdarling1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u keep on thinking like this you will ruin your peace.Belive in present and even if you compare with the past think it was a nightmare.
Make freindship with new person not for so long and ask him to marry you.When you feel secure you always forget the past
2006-07-11 05:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by lnsinghal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one knows whether he is right for you or not.. only you.=) When I saw Adam, I just knew it was him.. and I still believe he is, until now.
2006-07-11 05:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by michelle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is right for you
2006-07-11 04:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by harry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well wait time will tell you what to do
2006-07-11 04:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋