hey i want to but do not know with who and i think it will hurt......................?

Question

i want to have sex but idk

i am 16 years old

thanx 4 answing

Answer 1

don't know how old u are.....so here's what i'd tell anyone....yes it will hurt the first time,if u choose to do it....try and do it with someone special(not just any body)if your not sure yet about having sex then your not ready yet to try it!Also if u choose to have sex ALWAYS make the guy wear a condom!!!!(ya know so u don't end up pregnant or with std's....there Not fun!)Also if your younger and can talk with a parent about this and choose to have sex a lot i would get on birth control also.....(also just cause there's birthcontrol doesn't mean there's not still some risk....cause No birthcontrol is a 100% affective!!!Just something else to think about.....also u can get std's from giving or getting oral sex also...so hope this helps u with your decision...
I will tell u from personal experience that if your young yet i would wait to have sex...cause i've always kind of regretted just giving it away(once u lose your virginity there's NO going back!!) also i had several friends who had pregnancy scares and also some of the friends actually did get pregnant (and i'm talking stilll in school)my friends had babies and still had to finish school...so thats another thing to think about....cause u never know how affective a condom will be!Just Really think this over before u do it...okay..

Answer 2

If you're asking this, you're much too young. Please wait until you are at least 18...and to answer your question, "but do not know with who"...when you're old enough and you're ready to do it, you'll know with whom because you'll be in love with that person. Sex is not something you play with or just do for the heck of it. You have sex with someone you love (usually someone your own age). But...just wait, ok? And whatever you do...ALWAYS use protection. That means a condom for the guy or a vaginal diaphragm for you. It's not just so you won't get pregnant; it's to protect you from the thousands of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) out there. And if you don't know what a vagina or a vaginal diaphragm is, then you're much too young to be thinking about this anyway. And yes, for the girl, usually it will hurt the first time.

Answer 3

OK so you want to have sex...BUT...do you realy want to have a baby? Getting up at 3 am for feeding, changeing smelly diapers, sitting home alone while all your friends are out partying? Maybe you should wait eh?

Answer 4

you should be in love when you decide to have sex. you need to find a person who respects you and loves you back. your first time shouldnt be with just anyone it should be with someone your gonna spend the rest of your life with. respect yourself. dont be like everyone else wait till you get married.

Answer 5

you should wait til you find the right guy for you..and make it memorieble..not just some mistake ..
yes it does hurt..and i am not going to lie.
just make sure you know everything about the person you are going to do it with..there are diseases out there...

Answer 6

You should wait till someone comes along and takes your breath away. don't jus give it up to some guy who talks about only doing that with you.

Answer 7

remember you cnnot take it back and you can always choose to do it later.
It wasn't the best choice I made at you age. it just added a lot of stress as if i didn't have enough.

Answer 8

You must be very young without a "life" and what you do have seems on the low side.

Answer 9

Find the person first, then re-ask the question. If not you'll be a sl ut!

Answer 10

you seriously should be reconsidering if you want to have sex but don't know with who! i'm not a prude but you shouldn't do it for the sake of doing it.