I had this friend for nearly two years. Recently we went out more often and i felt for him. I told him that and he told me that he also has feelings about me...But here this now.Two weeks later he told me that he is married and his marriage is broken..my god i felt as if my entire world crashed down. MOreover my feelings are very strong at this moment of time. I am so depressed. Why are guys like that? Please help me and advise. I am keeping away from him already..how to overcome such a tragedy
2006-07-10 23:39:08 · 7 answers · asked by nsms 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sad to heard u r entangled in this type of situation. Not all guys are like this. Well I dun think keeping away from him is a good idea coz the problem is never solved.
What I think is that u should let go of this relationship at this moment.If he divorced with his wife at this moment, ppl will blame u as the third party that destroy a happy family even u r may not in the wrong. At this moment, anything can happened.
I believe that there are better guys out there for you. So all u just need to do is to move on with your life.
2006-07-11 00:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all are like that so stop sterotyping. There are females that do the same thing, so it is a human action not a female or male action.
Plus you might have helped him, thank about his relationship and look at the direction that he want to live his life. There has to be a meaning why you too met. But if I was you, I still wouldn't give him a time of day since he lied to you, and if he did it once he would do it again.
Plus not all is lost since he did make you happy for a short time. don't look at what you always lost, but what you gained from each person you met.
2006-07-11 06:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his marriage is broken then it isn't such a tragedy. Get over yourself and give him the love he misses at home.
2006-07-11 06:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong to have feelings for a married man whether his marriage is bad or good. when he gets a divorce, u are free to love him in anyway you can but at the moment he is married and you should not be with him. that way he is cheating on his wife and you are destroying a marriage that may have a second shot... a broken marraige is a very common excuse for men who want to cheat on their wives. that way you can pity him for not finding love at home and trying to make it up for him
2006-07-11 07:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by messy_missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i'd be annoyed at the fact he hadn't told me he was married, though i'm sure he has his reasons. if he's left his wife then why not give the relationship a go, you've nothing to loose. good luck!
2006-07-11 06:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u have to convince your self that you can live without him
go out with freinds and try to stop thinking about him for a while i know its hard but you'll used to that with time
2006-07-11 06:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Some 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes married when he is divorsed then start a relationship with him but until then move on
2006-07-11 06:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by helenamcdonagh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋