2006-07-13 05:07:16 · 18 answers · asked by Jamie U 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He was looking for girls only in our area! Will the pain stop i feel like he cheated on me he doesnt understand
2006-07-13 05:31:57 · update #1
And he was also planning to cheat on another woman, if his profile and trolling for attention led to a meeting and romance. It's doubtful that he would have been any more truthful and forthcoming with her, as he is with you. And it's doubtful he'll be as careless in the future if he desires to repeat his foray into the world of extramarital affairs.
2006-07-13 10:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by nothing 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not technically however he is trying to and will probably succeed. Yall need to get into some serious conversation and explore why he feels the need to go out of the relationship. If you have not been together long, then he is a cheater by nature and will always be. If you have been together for a long time and he has been faithful, he is probably suffering from low self esteem. Men usually get their self esteem from the women they are with. If that is the case, be compassionate with him and speak openly.
2006-07-13 12:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows. The fact that he had a singles profile at least means he was looking at other women online. He could just be looking at pretty single girls or he could be looking at them and then meeting them for sex. You can't know for sure but the fact he had a profile isn't a good sign.
2006-07-13 12:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Butkusman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE HAD A PROFILE ON THE SINGLES AND WAS LOOKING FOR GIRLS IN YOUR AREA I WOULD SAY EITHER HE DID CHEAT OR HE WAS GOING TO.EITHER WAY HE THOUGHT ABOUT CHEATING AND THAT IS JUST AS BAD.
2006-07-13 12:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that popped up here was "accountS".. the plural.
My gut feeling says that he was looking to cheat. Whether he has or not, who knows, but you don't open a singles account, let alone several, if you intend to make friends to golf with or to swap info about gardening tools.
2006-07-13 12:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by scubalady01 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt mean he cheated... some men do that for the erotic fantasy of being able to flirt with women and not actually having the affair. give him the benefit of the doubt if you love him but keep an eye on his behavior.
2006-07-13 12:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by needingitnow342000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not have physically cheated but he did emotionally and that to me is just as bad, and I am a guy. So I believe this holds more weight.
Anytime you do something that would cause your spouse or girlfirend to doubt your love and faithfulness it is cheating.
2006-07-13 12:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think he cheated on you but just in case don't go nuts, ask him directly. Then it will be easier. If he acts like he doesn't know what you were talking about he was. Sorry but some men are real jerks.
2006-07-13 12:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he created it after the two of you got together he either cheated or was getting ready to. You know its not a good sign.
2006-07-13 12:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have been just a fantasy. But it certainly indicates that there is something going on with him. I would suggest that he individually and you two together invest in a few counseling sessions to do a relationship tune-up.
2006-07-13 12:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋