Family & Relationships - 13 July 2006

with a 4 yr relationship... you spent half of that away from each other... how faithful is the guy?...

2006-07-13 05:36:51 · 4 answers · asked by samz_eyes 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I will soon be getting married and wandered if I should tell and invite my family? See everytime my family gets together there's always some mess and a lot of them I don't really care for but I love them because they are family. I am like the youngest left and both of my parents are gone on and they on the flip side used to worry about my happiness and being alone. But here lately they always put everything down that I do (which for the most part are positive things) and say that I think I'm better than everybody else. But I don't feel that way but since I don't date a family friend anymore they don't let me bring my new guy around because the family friend may be there and all that. Just like I said it's always something...but I would feel bad if I really didn't invite them or tell them. A little confused about this...what do I do?

2006-07-13 05:36:16 · 4 answers · asked by tasgilla 3 in Friends

my parents got a divorce, and im crying alot because of it. This is my moms second divorce. They are yelling at me all the time, for crying, saying im making it worse. My younger sister is twelve, and crying all the time, more than me, and our ex-step-dad, doesn't want to see me or my sister, but the children he had with my mom. He told us, my sister and I, that we could see him whenever we need to, and now he says he doesnt want to be apart of our lives. I'm so confused. Any advice, someone who can IM me, or any online councler services?

2006-07-13 05:36:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just say, I know that i am ugly, I won't be Insulted!

2006-07-13 05:36:08 · 3 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

my son is 16 months, and I am new to raising boys. At what age is ideal to start potty training????

2006-07-13 05:35:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-13 05:35:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to pry into my sisters life but she's 13 and is making bad choices.
She doesn't go to church and is mad because i can date and she can't so she
starts kissing guys and hanging out with guys that are four years older. She some
times gets mad when i try to tell her how i feel and she says your just mad because
i have a boyfriend and you don't.

2006-07-13 05:35:29 · 18 answers · asked by Finney 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked out this guy named Zach and he laughed and called me fat, and i am not that fat. how can i get over this? he ruined my reputation and my self esteem. I feel so lonely...

2006-07-13 05:35:22 · 12 answers · asked by yayhorsie_92 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-13 05:35:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 05:33:45 · 17 answers · asked by krispykreme335 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-13 05:33:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and he has been her best friend for the past year and 1/2, also she says "I love you!" and "lookin good" and "love ya" but she just means that in a best-friend kinda way...but he's a black guy and thinks that she REALLY loves him(I think) and he hugs her and does stuff that he might think is ok or w/e but he knows that my girlfriend loves me more than ever...i'm really not sure how to handle this, becuase we have talked about it a lot allready but she says that "she can't do anything about it" and he says "he can't live w/o her and she sent him something about a picture from school(in a chorus class) that he was holding his arms around her and she didn't want him to put that picture online(cuz he was) and then she never told me about it, but I figured out and she doesn't know I know about it(AND I CAN'T TELL HER! please don't tell me to tell her, it's not an option...) and I feel like she keeps thing froms me....please help!

2006-07-13 05:33:18 · 8 answers · asked by Ben 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with this guy for 2 years now, is it wrong to think about what it might be like if I was with someone else? I mean I want to be with him, I just sometimes wonder. Also we are thinking of moving in together do you think it would be trashy or a bad idea since we are not married, my friend told me she would never talk to me again because it was trashy to live together b 4 marriage!!!What do ya'll think?

2006-07-13 05:33:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...I was seeing this guy for about a month. We were just friends fooling around at first, but soon started developing feelings for each other. We both backed off about 2 weeks ago. He kept in touch and now we're going out to celebrate his birthday. I don't think there's too much water under the bridge to keep things light and go with the flow. Our big mistake I think was being together sooooo much at first. He stayed at my place for two weeks shortly after we met. He and I both felt a big attraction, but I show my feelings more than he does. I came across as needy and desperate, which I'm not. I'm just a control freak.....lol.

I plan on keeping my distance and keeping things in perspective this time. We've slept together and I would really like to again!!! But I don't know what that would say to him. Does it matter, because we've already broken the seal? I don't want to throw away the possibility of having something more later, although I'm not planning on it. What should I do?

2006-07-13 05:32:44 · 9 answers · asked by beautiful disaster 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have a few different friends that all had children at young ages and when they weren't ready and thus have not able to do alot of the things we do, ie build a new house, go on vacations, go out a lot, have spending money, etc. Now when we tell them we are happy without children they say we are selfish. But I feel like they just want us to be in the same position as they are. I know they love their children dearly, but they tell us a lot of the negitives and say "just wait, you'll see when you have kids" But saying things like that just makes me want kids less and less. What do we do to make they stop making comments? I feel like it's the old saying "misery loves company"

2006-07-13 05:32:23 · 9 answers · asked by kalishea 2 in Friends

My lovely wife and me are celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary today. Any other couples out there with a July wedding anniversary? Do you care to share your story? Is your marriage a happy one? Thanks in advance for participating, and most of all, Happy Anniversary!

2006-07-13 05:32:18 · 1 answers · asked by Mr. Grudge 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is getting married in less than a month and I am the best man. I haven't started anything yet.

What do I need to do? Anyone have any tips or writing the speech? Do I have to plan the bachelor party? Anyone have any tips on that? Is there anything else I need to do?

thanks!

2006-07-13 05:31:36 · 10 answers · asked by gravvyboat 2 in Weddings

lightening his load like lol

2006-07-13 05:31:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is still in the home with two children until he moves out, he wants to be friends once he returns to CO, but I don't want to.

2006-07-13 05:31:22 · 7 answers · asked by Kenya 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-07-13 05:30:19 · 13 answers · asked by torres_tino 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i no guys r all 4 the gal on gal thing, but girls, reli wats ur ultimate fantasy>>>>????? ;) one that graspz me get best answer

2006-07-13 05:30:18 · 6 answers · asked by carmen101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-13 05:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by CrystalGenesis 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm scared of letting people go. The reason is my boyfriend died in Febuary, and ever since then, every time I get close to someone, I can't stand to say good-bye. But even with that said, I went to camp and got a "boyfriend", but you know how camps go, I may never see or hear from him again, and it's killing me. And not only that, I'm really attatched to places and things that happen, kind of like taking full advantage of everything. Is this good? And how can I stop getting so attatched?

2006-07-13 05:29:11 · 5 answers · asked by Ava 2 in Friends

Does anyone find that handphones design are getting very boring. The colours are also very dull and limited, mostly only black or silver (though different shades of silver).

I like to change my phone every few months but I cannot find any design or colour that intrigues me.

Am I the only one that think this way?

2006-07-13 05:29:05 · 1 answers · asked by water bottle 2 in Friends

he's messy, you are neat? he's laid back, you are high strung or do you think its interest??? you like country, he likes rap???

2006-07-13 05:28:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

thnx everybody for ur suggestions
ireally appreciated them
nice response time i must say.
i know abt this girl(as i've mentioned arlier) and strangely, we're both attracted to each other;
and i'd say that we've both had a scary past( my parents divorced when iws young- and it ws painfully streched.; and she lost her cousin brother just 2yrs back and her childhood friend she had grown very fond of.
however, to sum things up, we've got acquainted, and both of us have something in common, (be it our tastes m style , language, friend circle or even our history) and somegow, she has been very frank and somewhat secretive with me.
ever since i can remember, i've been loking for a companion not for purpose, but to share my innermost feelings, joys and soorows wid, and trust me, she's looking for the same.
she's rather defensive as such
and that way,
i must applaude the way she's been sharing herself with me.
nny way,i duuno what to do now nd she finds it equally awkward when we spend time.

2006-07-13 05:28:41 · 2 answers · asked by Hanging out 1 in Singles & Dating

Both are 90 years old and may die soon. There is the dying process and taking care of things after that. Do you know of any good websites or published material for this?

2006-07-13 05:28:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-13 05:27:57 · 16 answers · asked by ChevyLover 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok the proper name for the man is groomsbride, right? What is the proper name for the woman.

2006-07-13 05:27:56 · 11 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Weddings

I was unpacking some boxes which i had some old journals from when i was like 15 (im 21 now) and my husbad picks one up and starts to read it, i had no problem with it cause i had nothing to hide and it was stuff i wrote when i was like really young and way before him. He got upset becuase in there was stuff about my ex-bf and i would say that i love him and stuff like that, my husbad got upet and was telling things like "i thought i was your first love", i tired to explain to him that everything that was in there was in the past and that if i didn't love him I wouldn't be married to him and go through everything we have ever been through, (we've been through alot of drama) What should i do or say?? Im the one that is wrong

2006-07-13 05:27:34 · 32 answers · asked by NENA 3 in Marriage & Divorce